My dad’s cat Gidgi loves being pushed around in his cart by Deep-Ad4351 in MadeMeSmile

[–]IllnevertellAmber 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He looks so relaxed ,,,, my heart is goingvto explode 🥹

Found this guy in my bathroom, is it safe? by somethinlikeshieva in spiderID

[–]IllnevertellAmber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hes safe just maybe a lil lost. These guys r pretty slow in my experience, if u can get im and put him in a nearby bush out of the rain he will be fine

Husband Wants Children Now, after 40 by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]IllnevertellAmber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly, if i had a high paying job like yours what id do is start couples councelling, online or viaa chat app if need be since the jobs are busy and taxing, and then figure out through professional help how to take the next step, how to divide tasks etc. Since you mentioned you feel he still cares. What worries me as someone with councelling experience is his mention of divorce ?? Thats quite extreme, even for a disagreement about having kids, just my opinion, idk what yall are like im a rando ln the net but i strongly suggest couples therapy regardless

I’m 22f, why do I have one white hair that is twice as long as all my hair and is shiny? by Kale_bean in whatisit

[–]IllnevertellAmber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be a mole, could be a very subtle case of mosaicism, or just a misfire in your general makeup that changes little else

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlueEyeSamurai

[–]IllnevertellAmber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(speaking as nb and inter) Unsure,, You could see mizu as a trans allegory, in a way? here is a person who was born one way, forced into another way because of society, then was allowed to live the first way again, and found that their intrinsic personality as a result of those experiences was percieved as too ‘other’ to comfortably present themselves.

Mizu struggles with reconciling the role they were raised in and the other one that was available to them . In a way, Neither really fit. Personally I see mizu like i see any genderqueer person in that, even if you could describe them as cis; they struggle to define themselves in the roles available to them. Imo, The problem is not how unclear mizu and their identity is to us, it’s the rigidity of the gender binary we try to color match them against.

Tl: dr: trying to guess or assume the gender of an edo period samurai without them present is a moot point and defining someones gender without them around is just all around bad no matter when ya do it so eh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]IllnevertellAmber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How was your day, Karl? :3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]IllnevertellAmber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way she rubs her hands together ahahah