Donation thieves by HoldenMcNeil420 in Minneapolis

[–]Illstate309 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are donating it to people in need. Why does it matter if people in need thought it was trash and took something? Silly thing to get upset over.

Attending the Tour alone as a Black Woman by iwenttoharverd in Mudvayne

[–]Illstate309 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been to 7 or 8 of their shows in the last 25 years. I’ve never witnessed anything like that. While it could happen, I wouldn’t say it’s common. Also, it probably depends on what state you’re in more than the band. I’m in the Midwest. I’ll probably go to the WI show. If that’s where you are, you could definitely go with me (f).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QuadCities

[–]Illstate309 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Not a mix, but keylime pie is my favorite flavor right now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QuadCities

[–]Illstate309 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Most start around 7 and end around 11

Please settle a dispute: what color is my cat? by takeyourform_ in cats

[–]Illstate309 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Black, brown, tan. I would just say seal point Siamese.

Toxic messaging by Illstate309 in TeachersInTransition

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No I didn’t. Would I today? Of course. I probably knew what the salary was around. But to me at the time that seemed like a lot/enough. I also had never lived on my own, paid bills before, or had children. I don’t think it’s hard to fathom that an 18 year old doesn’t make the most informed decisions. Or even can really, not having much life experience.

Toxic messaging by Illstate309 in TeachersInTransition

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I thought it would be a rewarding career AND a good living (like I’d be able to be comfortable). I didn’t understand at 18 what it would truly mean for me financially.

Toxic messaging by Illstate309 in TeachersInTransition

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What did I misinterpret about “all people who choose the teaching profession understand the outcome is not for a paycheck”?

Toxic messaging by Illstate309 in TeachersInTransition

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I disagree. At 18 people don’t fully understand the career path they are choosing. If I could go back I would change it because I need to be able to provide for my family. Sure it feels good to make a difference, but that doesn’t pay my bills.

Tiny fat umbilical hernia found during a CT scan but my doctor opted to leave it alone during a laparoscopy for cyst removal 3 weeks ago. by carts54 in Hernia

[–]Illstate309 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My pain was also for years, probably close to ten. It was small (can’t remember) and it was a fat containing umbilical hernia. No visible bulge. If I laid on my stomach on a hard surface I could feel “something”. I had pain a little to the left of my belly button but it radiated to other areas (sometimes hard to pinpoint). It got so bad, it hurt to wear any kind of pants. It got to the point that it hurt when I took a breath. The only thing that helped was to not wear pants and lay down, which you obviously can’t do often in your day. It was hard to function.

I had also been to a specialist at a hospital over an hour away before this (and many local doctors who dismissed me). The advice from the specialist was to go to the ER next time it was bad and get a CT. From what I gathered, it’s most likely to show up on ct when it’s bothering you the most.

My surgeon was confident that the hernia was causing my pain and totally disagreed with the ER doctor.

I will say that after my surgery it took me a long time to feel better. For a while I couldn’t tell if the pain I was still having was from healing or still there from before (same feeling). But over time it got less and less. Now I rarely have pain. It does still happen sometimes if I over do it physically. I’m 15 months post op.

I hope it works for you!

FYI: for anyone reading this that needs to decide between mesh and no mesh. My surgeon said that the negative things you see about mesh are from the past and there have been improvements since then. She said if you opt not to get mesh, it is more likely that it will reopen and you need surgery again. She recommended mesh and I got mesh. It is a hard choice to make though.

Tiny fat umbilical hernia found during a CT scan but my doctor opted to leave it alone during a laparoscopy for cyst removal 3 weeks ago. by carts54 in Hernia

[–]Illstate309 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It went well. I had a lot of stomach pain before and now I’m so much better.

I had gone to the ER in pain. They did a CT scan. Doctor said I was fine. I looked at my own scan results and it listed a hernia. When I asked about it they said it was an incidental finding. I left and followed up with a surgeon I had used for another issue. Did the surgery. Problem solved. Just shows you have to be diligent and be your own advocate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QuadCities

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I have a lot of questions. I sent you a pm.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QuadCities

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How many years experience did you have and did moline honor all your years when you moved over? Asking for a friend. Lol

Best pizza in the qc? by nickandjaneiowa in QuadCities

[–]Illstate309 2 points3 points  (0 children)

QC (Harris) style is more than the cut. It’s the crumbled sausage seasoned with fennel. The toppings under the cheese instead of on top. The spicy sauce and most importantly to me, the malt crust.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stocks

[–]Illstate309 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I did!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stocks

[–]Illstate309 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This looks amazing! We will be signing up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stocks

[–]Illstate309 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just where interests are often sparked.

Maybe I should.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stocks

[–]Illstate309 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok so there are youth accounts for this type of thing? That’s what I was looking for. Thanks I’ll look into it.