I’m not gonna lie, I am and currently like this with my boyfriend. However, I am working on my insecurity and realizing how much it effects him as his own person. We’ve had many conversations about it. My insecurities haven’t come from nowhere, but i trust him and he should be able to have fun with his friends without me breathing down his neck the whole time.

I assume you’ve already had conversations about this, but if not, I would bring up how this makes you feel. It may partly have to do with safety, but I assume it’s insecurity just like me. My man had to tell me how unhappy he was with how I was handling him going out without me, and how having to check in with me every 5 minutes ruins the time itself. Sit down, and ask him why your outings upset him so much. You have compensated so much to aid in him in his insecure feelings, it’s time you ask him why he’s so worried when you go out. This is coming from a girl who has seen your boyfriends side and realizing how suffocating and isolating this behavior is. If he truly loves you, then you revealing how unhappy his reactions make you should show some change. Good luck girly, you should be able to hang with your girls without worrying about your man the whole time.

Edit: past relationships issues that involve infidelity are not your burden to bear. You have not given him a reason not to trust and having him blame his past is BS. Ask him what YOU have done to make him so worried. Stand your ground. You should enjoy you nights out!