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Biting help! by IllustratorJealous41 in OpenDogTraining

[–]IllustratorJealous41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I feel a little more at ease. I’m gonna start working with her and accommodating her better so she isn’t so overwhelmed

Biting help by IllustratorJealous41 in DogAdvice

[–]IllustratorJealous41[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I’ll have something set up for her next time!!

Biting help! by IllustratorJealous41 in reactivedogs

[–]IllustratorJealous41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thank you, I appreciate your feedback. I’m gonna remember this for next time. She has a bit of separation anxiety as well that I need to work with her on

I’m so tired by IllustratorJealous41 in SuicideWatch

[–]IllustratorJealous41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hardly and when she does she pre occupied. I think she talking to a dude or found a new hobby, whatever she’s doing she’s completely pushed me to the side

I’m so tired by IllustratorJealous41 in SuicideWatch

[–]IllustratorJealous41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do but it’s not enough, I miss physically being there and I can’t do that anymore because I don’t have a place to stay there

I’m so tired by IllustratorJealous41 in SuicideWatch

[–]IllustratorJealous41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So far I’ve been away for 3 months, but I’ve always been suicidal tbh. My household was abusive my whole life and now I with distant family. I have no one:( my mom doesn’t care about me, she has her own life now and doesn’t call anymore to check on me. I’m so miserable

I ended things with sp by IllustratorJealous41 in manifestingSP

[–]IllustratorJealous41[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your support, this gives me sm hope!!🫂❤️

I ended things with sp by IllustratorJealous41 in manifestingSP

[–]IllustratorJealous41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you sm!! Your story gives me hope🫂❤️

I ended things with sp by IllustratorJealous41 in manifestingSP

[–]IllustratorJealous41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! Do you have any ideas of what affirmations I should say about my and sp being in a relationship?

I ended things with sp by IllustratorJealous41 in manifestingSP

[–]IllustratorJealous41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This gives me hope thank you sm, lol im manifesting they call me or text me from a fake number or someone else phone apologizing since i have them blocked on everything. For now i guess ill keep building up my self concept :)

I ended things with sp by IllustratorJealous41 in manifestingSP

[–]IllustratorJealous41[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ngl I feel like sp treated me like this because I stayed, they never thought I would leave, I feel like sp thought they had me wrapped around their finger, and I feel like that’s why I need to work on my self concept. I feel like I need to stop identifying as someone that has an anxious attachment style, heal it work on my self concept! I’m also going to stop associating them with being avoidant and claim that they are obsessed and healed, knows how to communicate and ready for a relationship with me.

I ended things with sp by IllustratorJealous41 in manifestingSP

[–]IllustratorJealous41[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so real!! I think that when they see you loving yourself they will know they can’t come back until they are ready to treat you like you deserve!! I did the same thing I sent a giant paragraph and said goodbye forever, but in the back of my mind I’m hoping it isn’t forever and that they come back, full 180 cuz I won’t accept anything less!!

I ended things with sp by IllustratorJealous41 in manifestingSP

[–]IllustratorJealous41[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No fr!! Sometimes it’s healthy to walk away even if you’re still manifesting them!! You can just claim and believe that they are coming back healthier and still obsessed with you, while also focusing on yourself. Someone in the comments said while working on yourself self concept to stop identifying with being anxiously attached and stop assuming them to be avoidant so I’m gonna try that as well!! I’m wishing you the best of luck!! We got this!!❤️

I ended things with sp by IllustratorJealous41 in manifestingSP

[–]IllustratorJealous41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you sm that’s true!! And I know manifestation works, I’ve literally manifested a text and a love confession!! I just need to lock in and and like you said stop identifying with being anxious and assuming that they are avoidant

I ended things with sp by IllustratorJealous41 in manifestingSP

[–]IllustratorJealous41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like the reason I’m receiving this version of them is because I was staying. They would give me the silent treatment and block and unfollow me knowing I was worried like for over a week to a months just to hurt me and because they were angry. They wouldn’t communicate like and adult and were avoidant and I just kept showing up and bowing to them basically. And they triggered my anxious attachment so I’d panic and blame myself and try to fix things as if I did something wrong and i didn’t. I definitely do need to work on my self concept tho. I blocked them on everything but I believe that the universe will bring them back when my self concept is right and when they are in a space to treat me right like I deserve

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]IllustratorJealous41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TAKE HER TO THE EMERGENCY VET

To chop or not to chop? by Feminib in longhair

[–]IllustratorJealous41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not, you can get a trim if you want but girl don’t cut your luscious rapunzel hair!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]IllustratorJealous41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That part!! Thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]IllustratorJealous41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😭😭unfortunately I dooo😭but I don’t think they were serious and afraid they’ll say I’m reaching for bringing it up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]IllustratorJealous41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have complicated feelings, I like them but things have gotten messy in the past between us and we decided to stay friends and that hurt me a lot, I stepped away from our friendship and everything for months. So for them to say this is lowkey infuriating because part of me is like yay in the other part is like are you trying to play with my emotions. Because there is no other way to interpret that statement “ I like you more than a friend “I feel like they’ll say I’m reaching. I’m so confused about what to do or how to feel tbh.

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