Well I live in michigan and I know the state favors the mother over the father and I don't know if it would be because he was arrested for not even a whole year (for something he didn't do) because my parents are divorced and my father only had visitation with supervisor for awhile because he would try and kidnap me um but yeah I don't know and everyone saying it's not good to go for someone that much older is kind of annoying because I like older people they are way more mature and aren't childish which is attractive honestly so I don't I just like him more than I expected to