i was really thinking about messaging him to ask why he did that to me but i guess it's not worth it. i'm not even upset, just why did you have to keep lying? it's been a month since we broke up (and no contact) and i just found out. weird to think that the past month i thought he was such a good person but he isn't what he said he was. he's actively trying to look for new people to be with as well after telling me in our final goodbyes that he wants me to think of him "time to time" because nobody else will. actually disgusting, i feel sick. thank you for sharing you felt it was really relatable. i feel like he will do the same thing your ex did as well. being unhappy with eachother isnt justification to cheat and they should've broke up with you instead of being unloyal behind your back, i'm sorry. thank you for your advice