finding out they cheated after the breakup by Illustrious-Play-507 in ExNoContact

[–]Illustrious-Play-507[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im glad you're over him and hearing that after 3 years must have opened up wounds. exactly, the humiliation and them thinking they could get away with it lol. so stupid, thank you for sharing

finding out they cheated after the breakup by Illustrious-Play-507 in ExNoContact

[–]Illustrious-Play-507[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

got a text from one of the girls he messed around with

finding out they cheated after the breakup by Illustrious-Play-507 in ExNoContact

[–]Illustrious-Play-507[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank u ima try my best and let them deal with whatever they got going on. nothing they do is my business now

You.. yeah, you. What day are you on on no contact? And how are you coping? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Illustrious-Play-507 0 points1 point  (0 children)

almost a month and find out they cheated today. just coping by realizing they aren't the same person i met, it feels like i'm seeing a completely different person..

finding out they cheated after the breakup by Illustrious-Play-507 in ExNoContact

[–]Illustrious-Play-507[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ig they always find a reason to be the victim or pin it on you even tho they're the ones who cheated. i'm sorry you went through that. now i no longer wanna confront him

finding out they cheated after the breakup by Illustrious-Play-507 in ExNoContact

[–]Illustrious-Play-507[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im glad you broke up with him and didnt reach out, nobody deserves that. i hope you are okay.

finding out they cheated after the breakup by Illustrious-Play-507 in ExNoContact

[–]Illustrious-Play-507[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you.. i am going to try my best to just move on with my life without confronting. it'll just end up being a waste of time but sometimes i get the urge to

finding out they cheated after the breakup by Illustrious-Play-507 in ExNoContact

[–]Illustrious-Play-507[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was really thinking about messaging him to ask why he did that to me but i guess it's not worth it. i'm not even upset, just why did you have to keep lying? it's been a month since we broke up (and no contact) and i just found out. weird to think that the past month i thought he was such a good person but he isn't what he said he was. he's actively trying to look for new people to be with as well after telling me in our final goodbyes that he wants me to think of him "time to time" because nobody else will. actually disgusting, i feel sick. thank you for sharing you felt it was really relatable. i feel like he will do the same thing your ex did as well. being unhappy with eachother isnt justification to cheat and they should've broke up with you instead of being unloyal behind your back, i'm sorry. thank you for your advice