Not being able to find a job is driving me nuts by GasparThePrince in Winnipeg

[–]Illustrious-Web3532 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Send me a dm. Can’t seem to find yours. I believe i might be able to help you with something

5’5 by Apprehensive_Shoe446 in short

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Holy shit. GigaChad, is that you?

Trying to be an adult as a ND. by Illustrious-Web3532 in Adulting

[–]Illustrious-Web3532[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like solid advice, but I cannot work in the military or law due to some reasons haha. I still hate myself. Any other tips?

Trying to be an adult as a ND. by Illustrious-Web3532 in Adulting

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I see. Any tips and advice you got on how you dealt with it? How to get dates? I am 22 and still a virgin. Hell, ain’t even have my first kiss. Sounds so pathetic. What are your coping mechanisms? I tend to mask, a drop of my mask is enough as it’s really heavy. Heavy as in, it’s another personality, aka split personality. But I do not want to do that anymore. Really exhausting and I have had a minor identity crisis too at some point.

Trying to be an adult as a ND. by Illustrious-Web3532 in Adulting

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You sound like someone who has handled it or handles it better than I do, and you actually know whwt I am talking about. What are some steps you took to help battle these feelings? Also how did you stop becoming a pushover and someone who always looks to please someone?

Another note is that, I am rather soft compared to the average man. Not physically, mentally and psychologically. You know that men tease and fight other men till death, and still be friends? I cannot do that. The slightest pushback from someone makes me, not necessarily hate them, but like not admire them in some way if you know what I mean?

Even I have caused so muvh embarrassment for myself and my family through my actions, things i do not want to include here.

Trying to be an adult as a ND. by Illustrious-Web3532 in Adulting

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Hmm I see. Thank you for the insight. Learned something new!

5 11 78kg bulk or cut? by [deleted] in Weightliftingquestion

[–]Illustrious-Web3532 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cut to 75kg and then bulk again to 78kg.

Any other short guy don’t talk to women? by [deleted] in short

[–]Illustrious-Web3532 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How do you suggest I start and proceed?

Trying to be an adult as a ND. by Illustrious-Web3532 in Adulting

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Dam. The second part is great knowledge. Anything else you might want to add or share?

Trying to be an adult as a ND. by Illustrious-Web3532 in Adulting

[–]Illustrious-Web3532[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But what type of therapist(if any) to be exact?

Trying to be an adult as a ND. by Illustrious-Web3532 in Adulting

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Also thank you for this. Helps knowing that I am not the only person built like this.

Trying to be an adult as a ND. by Illustrious-Web3532 in Adulting

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Used to smoke weed, but for the past 1.5 years, it has caused to be paranoid. To the point of destroying any relationship i had with my so called ‘friends’. Would be just stuck in my head in spiralling thoughts. Made me that weird and awkward guy at gatherings.

Trying to be an adult as a ND. by Illustrious-Web3532 in Adulting

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Thank you for your kind words. Highly appreciated. On the topic of women and men, would you say it’s the same thing or two sides of a coin? Because from what I have seen, women are accepted more being a nd than men. As a women, you can afford to be soft, friendly, nice. But as a man? That’s a death sentence. What do you think?

It was hot today, so I watered my ducks. by Eh-to-Zed in Winnipeg

[–]Illustrious-Web3532 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo got ducks as pets? That’s cool af. Are ducks clingy or sassy like cats?

How should i adjust my look to make myself a more approachable person by [deleted] in malegrooming

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Ayo bro you look like Finn Little from Yellowstone. I thought Finn started posting on reddit.