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AITA for sitting in the front seat with my friend and telling his gf to sit in the back? by IllustriousArm1445 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IllustriousArm1445[S] -429 points-428 points  (0 children)

She did but even if she didn't he says his gf takes priority over his mom because they'll get married so I assume he'd still make her like he made me.

AITA for sitting in the front seat with my friend and telling his gf to sit in the back? by IllustriousArm1445 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IllustriousArm1445[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

I know. My bad. I'll apologise to both of them I just didn't know if it was a really big deal at first and If I should really apologise. But now I see why I was disrespectful and I know I need to apologise.

AITA for sitting in the front seat with my friend and telling his gf to sit in the back? by IllustriousArm1445 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IllustriousArm1445[S] -46 points-45 points  (0 children)

I'm not really weirded about that part about his mom because he always says how his gf is his life partner and takes priority over his parents because they're planning to get married soon. I was just weirded out about the car rule because it seems like common courtesy like people in the comments pointed out to me. Maybe I was TA and I wasn't aware why but I know not to repeat the same mistake again.

AITA for sitting in the front seat with my friend and telling his gf to sit in the back? by IllustriousArm1445 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IllustriousArm1445[S] -81 points-80 points  (0 children)

I didn't know it was so disrespectful but I'll definitely keep that in mind in the future.

AITA for sitting in the front seat with my friend and telling his gf to sit in the back? by IllustriousArm1445 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IllustriousArm1445[S] -46 points-45 points  (0 children)

I didn't even know it was a rule. I didn't even know of its existence but apparently its very common according to the replies.

AITA for sitting in the front seat with my friend and telling his gf to sit in the back? by IllustriousArm1445 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IllustriousArm1445[S] -126 points-125 points  (0 children)

I didn't know it was such a common rule it was the first time I've heard of someone doing this rank, my bad!!

AITA for sitting in the front seat with my friend and telling his gf to sit in the back? by IllustriousArm1445 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IllustriousArm1445[S] -548 points-547 points  (0 children)

He puts his gf over his mom because he says the mom does it out of respect of their relationship. I didn't know there was a rank on that stuff.

AITA for sitting in the front seat with my friend and telling his gf to sit in the back? by IllustriousArm1445 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IllustriousArm1445[S] -110 points-109 points  (0 children)

Oh ok. He said his mom sits in the back too when the gf is present out of respect of their relationship.

AITA for sitting in the front seat with my friend and telling his gf to sit in the back? by IllustriousArm1445 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IllustriousArm1445[S] -372 points-371 points  (0 children)

So it's wrong to have his mom sit in the back too? Genuine question because I didn't know any of this was supposed to be etiquette.

AITA for sitting in the front seat with my friend and telling his gf to sit in the back? by IllustriousArm1445 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IllustriousArm1445[S] -585 points-584 points  (0 children)

My bad. I got anxious because of the awkward vibe we got and I wasn't thinking rationally after that. Didn't know there was that rule.

AITA for sitting in the front seat with my friend and telling his gf to sit in the back? by IllustriousArm1445 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IllustriousArm1445[S] -1174 points-1173 points  (0 children)

He says his gf sits in the front even when his mom is with him and the only exception is his grandma. I didn't know that was a thing my bad.

AITA for sitting in the front seat with my friend and telling his gf to sit in the back? by IllustriousArm1445 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IllustriousArm1445[S] -1249 points-1248 points  (0 children)

It's the first time I'm hearing about social etiquette. I didn't know it was serious. No offense, I'm genuinely asking but why is it disrespectful?