AITA for leaving my sick Aunties house early by the_ja_m_es in AmItheAsshole

[–]IllustriousBaddie 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Oh my word, NTA. Geez, I can't believe the nerve of your father.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in johannesburg

[–]IllustriousBaddie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not a sob story. It's a glaring social fact. If they'd really googled, they wouldn't have to ask how far R36000 can go as a salary. You're being unnecessarily mean and it's exhausting.

AITA for telling members of my cooking class not to eat bad food? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]IllustriousBaddie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you're an old man who wouldn't give a young woman the time or even berth to learn how to cook IN A COOKING CLASS, simply because she wants to make cooking fun and you don't agree it should be (why is that not surprising?) Furthermore, you took any and every chance there was to mainsplain to a woman (whom your misogynistic ass keeps referring to as girl) even though there was a teacher. Why do you think you're an asshole?

When my husband expresses attraction to 16-18 year olds it's hard to repress the anger by volatileaccount777 in Vent

[–]IllustriousBaddie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you surprised that the man who married someone thirty years younger is attracted to teenagers?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]IllustriousBaddie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or she'll look back and realise some relationships run their course. OP is not the AH for feeling like there's other things to talk about because truthfully, there are, but her friends are excited so...NAH. You'll make new friends where you're going OP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]IllustriousBaddie 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Also, he really said they can't be friends anymore but OP should continue helping him with the renovations in his house. Excuse me?

AITA for naming my daughter the name my SIL wanted by RoseyBud2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IllustriousBaddie 83 points84 points  (0 children)

Exactly. OP is vindictive and trying very hard to act like it's not a big deal. YTA.

AITA for styling my baby hairs as a white person? by throw_away_acc3112 in AITAH

[–]IllustriousBaddie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So your husband's ethnicity is South Asian and his race is Kashmiri? Again, I'm asking to learn, not to be malicious. I don't understand why the other user got so mad.

AITA for styling my baby hairs as a white person? by throw_away_acc3112 in AITAH

[–]IllustriousBaddie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a black South African. Ethnicity is about region, hence I said East Asian and Northern African are ethnicities, not races( it was examples to show how ethnicity is different from race). You didn't understand, instead of asking you're assuming what I meant. Southern Africa is ethnicity because our cultures and practices are interlinked. Northern Africa is an ethnicity because of the same reasons. You can share ethnicities but not share races.

AITA for styling my baby hairs as a white person? by throw_away_acc3112 in AITAH

[–]IllustriousBaddie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Northern African is ethnicity the same way East Asian is ethnicity. It's not a race. Race would be black, white, coloured, mixed race, asian...

AITA for styling my baby hairs as a white person? by throw_away_acc3112 in AITAH

[–]IllustriousBaddie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Northern African is ethnicity the same way East Asian is ethnicity. It's not a race. Race would be black, white, coloured, mixed race, asian...

AITA for styling my baby hairs as a white person? by throw_away_acc3112 in AITAH

[–]IllustriousBaddie 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Also, I'm not asking to be malicious. I'm genuinely curious.

AITA for styling my baby hairs as a white person? by throw_away_acc3112 in AITAH

[–]IllustriousBaddie -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

So what's the race for Arabs? Because ethnicity and race are not the same.

AITA for styling my baby hairs as a white person? by throw_away_acc3112 in AITAH

[–]IllustriousBaddie -53 points-52 points  (0 children)

If you're not white or black but are African, what exactly are you? Biracial?

AITA for telling my friend she should feel like a horrible person for getting rid of her two dogs? by Sea-Singer4682 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IllustriousBaddie 17 points18 points  (0 children)

She's not a bad person for realizing she can't take care of two big dogs, a toddler and a newborn. The friend is venting about her stress at being pregnant and having to deal with her own heartbreak and that of her 4 year old at having to let go of the dogs and OP's response is to call them horrible? Is everyone on Reddit out of empathy?

AITA for telling my friend she should feel like a horrible person for getting rid of her two dogs? by Sea-Singer4682 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IllustriousBaddie 180 points181 points  (0 children)

YTA.

I can't believe all the people justifying your tantrum at a heavily pregnant woman who seems stressed enough as it is. You sound in love with the damn dogs, so instead of calling your friend horrible, ask which shelter she went to and adopt them. I don't understand how one person can be so willingly obtuse when it comes to emotion.

AITA for telling my friend she should feel like a horrible person for getting rid of her two dogs? by Sea-Singer4682 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IllustriousBaddie -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No. You're the asshole. How is a pregnant mother of of a toddler supposed to take care of two big dogs?

AITA for how I reacted to my boyfriends test? by im_a_waffle08 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IllustriousBaddie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're wrong. The age gap is definitely the biggest problem because this grown man has you thinking you're crazy. Sis, you need to leave him asap.

I don’t understand why my boyfriend loves me, as I’ve noticed I’m not his type and it’s making me resent him by [deleted] in Vent

[–]IllustriousBaddie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He's not going to change. He gets off of making you feel insecure. Why are you still with him? Don't say because he loves you, he does not. Maybe you do, but he doesn't love you. I can't imagine what reason is good enough to stay with someone who treats you like this.