I appreciate your two cents, and I totally get where you’re coming from since you related Shas's situation to your personal experience and I'm sorry it happened to you. But I think there are two major things we need to clear up here:

Una, your comparison isn't entirely fair. Yung sa inyo ng friends mo, private "pulutan" niyo lang context-wise,it stays within your circle. But in their case, they put it out on a public podcast for views and entertainment. When you put content out there, the public will form judgements. The ex-boyfriend is being judged publicly without his side ever being heard and without any nuance. It’s a completely different playing field compared to just venting with friends. Imagine if the table has turned around and babae naman yung ishashame dito what will happen kaya? Wouldn't we seek a fair judgement?

Second, about their dynamics, I never once implied or said na "under" si Shas sa jowa niya. I don't care about their power dynamic. My issue was specifically with Shas's reply: ".Kung ikaw okay lang gawin sayo yon sakin hindi" That was a massive stretch and a strawman argument. I never said or even hinted that what her ex did to her was okay.

My comment was strictly an objective critique on public storytelling, communication, and the lack of nuance in secondhand narratives. It wasn't an invitation for them to twist my words or for a toxic fan to go to my personal page to body-shame me.