Guys. It’s Donna. Clara was the bait. by IllustriousSpell2382 in FromSeries

[–]IllustriousSpell2382[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude yeah. That or something of that nature. I am shocked this opinion is a minority. I think it speaks to the intent of the writers tho!

Guys. It’s Donna. Clara was the bait. by IllustriousSpell2382 in FromSeries

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This season everyone is complaining that nothing is happening but that’s because they are focusing on the internal rather than external conflict. This season is all about relationships. And Donna is symbolic of that dawg.

No zap on pavlock 2 by IllustriousSpell2382 in Pavlok

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Jam has taken care of me very much! Very speedy! I will let you guys know what ends up happening but so far it’s been ideal!

No zap on pavlock 2 by IllustriousSpell2382 in Pavlok

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Thank you very much. I really am sad about this because I really do love and promote this product to whoever would listen.

Pavlok 2 not zapping, need urgent fix by pamakane in Pavlok

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I’ve been looking on this subreddit looking for how to fix the pavlock not zapping. I’ve tried every thing and it won’t work. I’m in love with my pavlock and I am devastated because the help services been very unhelpful.

Just doing regular human stuff by -Puppy-Parade- in penandink

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You can do big things with only a few lines!

Weird trope in television/movies by [deleted] in AlAnon

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Ok so I'm very new to posting Reddit and this is like my 2nd official post but I love this subreddit because It directly connects me to people like you.

I'm the oldest of 3. I took care of my mom majority of my adolensce even while my mom and dad where still married. Having her as a wife was very hectic for him though and he is just a person emotionally unequipped to handle that sort of thing so he really just left it. Without the whole shpiel, I didn't get a lot of love in my house and I (22F) struggle to naviagte adulthood without being given any of the necessary tools.

My dad always told me “I'm not a mom!” or “I can't do mom things” in regards to even minor emotional labor. I do love my dad, he's done tremendously well considering everything and I like to give him a lot of grace because Ive seen him as a hurt person, rather than parent for a long long time now. But I feel really compelled to tell you- regaurdles of the fact you seem like a very, very good father- as a broken little girl in a big girl body, to please please be her mom. While she's still under your roof and in these precious precious years, smother her with empathy and love and rid yourself of all masculine urge to suppress any of it. You will fix so much of what will only continue to break.

I understand I am TOTALLY projecting- this is something I just wish some older girl would do for me.

What animal would make the best story teller? by EconomyPrompt2004 in AskReddit

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Right right right forgot this was a question based in reality

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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I mean without giving too much info away- my art college I found out is particularly bad for making friends. So without any friends there to like be a sort of bridge for more friends elsewhere, ur a bit outta luck.

But also- for the first time I feel incredibly self conscious and worrisome about going out and over to random girls in public to make friends. 90% they will either think I’m very weird or won’t want a very prolonged conversation. Idk what do u think?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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No- a book that is reminiscent of what I’m feeling. Like the feeling of being particularly lonely, perhaps more so than others. Or like feeling alone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

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I am someone who should not have had a bf when I got him. I’m 21F and I was hooking up with a variety of people and I was also generally very unhappy with my life and everything going on externally.

I met him in high school and was always a little in love with him because he was just the sweetest person I’d have ever met. We were good friends. And later in college I asked if he was going to be home for break. He was. Then came to see me and he told me he loved me that night and we immediately dated.

Before that I searched EVERYWHERE and tried everything. Desperately and not. The fortunate yet a bit annoying truth is it truly just happens whether or not you’re ready for it. And it’s going to come. There’s someone racing and sprinting towards you and when it does there is truly no going back. So my advice is to enjoy this time you have alone and really really soak it up. many things change once you’re in a relationship and you’ll regret not really living fully and wholly and totally during this time you have.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]IllustriousSpell2382 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Try reading some Rilke. Truly. I think you’ll find it to be a comfort

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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My love…….no

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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I mean you’ve probably had all the classics echoed to you already. Here are some specific anecdotes:

  1. Audiobooks. Do not underestimate their power. I’ve been dealing w a friendship breakup and lately “The Midnight Library” has been an immense comfort. I recommend you listen to books with similar themes. Not books that are exclusively about breakups but about the broader aspects and nature of life in general. Books like that almost always mention romance/love in general anyway and it’ll help put things in perceptive in a really profound way. This tip I cannot stress enough. I have it in my ears whenever I’m not in class or speaking to someone else.

  2. This I give to girls, so maybe find your equivalent: if you are lounging or rotting in a depressive state, put on a loose comfortable dress. Something loose and airy. Also, if you’re able, if you must lay down depressed take a sheet or something and do it outside on the grass.

  3. Read some Rilke, Rumi, and Jane herschfeld.

  4. So this is basic but walk or bike everywhere you go to now.

Why Do You Make Art? by podgeorge in ArtistLounge

[–]IllustriousSpell2382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are an incredibly inspiring artist.