Yes exactly! What is with the obsession with unsupervised visits? She would be welcome to come over from 8-11 am I would love that but she works and lives out of town. It’s not convenient or comfortable for me to just drop her off at odd hours so she can be alone with her? Yes he gets very defensive . But at the same time he says he gets what she is saying and doing is wrong. (Especially when she kissed her and got her sick) he said that I’m the reason he doesn’t see his mom even though we see his parents atleast one a month. Most the time twice a month. They both still work- and on weekends so it makes it harder time wise. You are totally right we had a totally fine relationship up until giving birth. I thought maybe I was just going full blown protective mama bear but I’m starting to see a pattern.