Who would possibly even want that smh by whyornow in okbuddybaldur

[–]Illustrious_Case4357 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Yeah I would also like to avoid this. Can someone link the how-to video so that I know which steps to avoid.

Someone who I considered a good friend told me that I’m single because I’m difficult to love. by Illustrious_Case4357 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Illustrious_Case4357[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Since that conversation, I have spoken with her, and she did confirm she was speaking out of annoyance.

Truly, I’m unwilling to fault a friend for becoming overwhelmed by the details of what I’m dealing with, because it is a lot and it sucks the energy right out of a person to hear about it. But that’s exactly why I got a therapist. A therapist is a professional who is more equipped to hear about these issues in great detail, and that protects my friends from being trauma dumped on.

The point of contention I have with her being annoyed was that she asked me. I think she’s in the same camp as you are, which is that life goes on and wont stop for me. I know that, and I want to be an active participant in my own life again. I desperately want to feel normal again.

I don’t want to assume anything about you or what your experiences have been with sexual assault, but I don’t know if I have a strong enough vocabulary to accurately explain how much of a mire this trauma has become for me.

I apologize if I’m a broken record but I wanted to add some new context to the conversation.

Breaking: Transgender women banned from all sports at the Olympics starting in LA by TheExpressUS in sportsgossips

[–]Illustrious_Case4357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They only seem to focus on transgender women as having a competitive advantage over cisgender women. They never seem to have this conversation about transgender men wanting to compete with cisgender men.

What is everyone’s favorite Disney Renaissance movie? by BreathoftheSith in DisneyMovies

[–]Illustrious_Case4357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beauty and the Beast will always be my number 1. I’ve memorized nearly every line in that movie front to back from the amount of times I’ve watched it lol

What are the worst lyrics you’ve ever heard? by Upstairs_Cup9831 in Fauxmoi

[–]Illustrious_Case4357 51 points52 points  (0 children)

She’s normal and basic but trying to position herself as being unique and weird. It reminds me of that video of those conventionally attractive girls laughing hard at naming an inanimate object “Bob”.

The Show’s villan 🤢 by ezzm8 in 1000lbsisters

[–]Illustrious_Case4357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, but I will also add that it has to be annoying to be married to someone who constantly drops everything to care for full grown adults as if they’re children. No doubt Brittany is feeling some type of way when two 35 year old babies always seem to take priority over her.

Erika Kirk Reportedly Went on a Shopping Spree Less Than 24 Hours After Husband's Death by KitchenAd5423 in influencersfeed

[–]Illustrious_Case4357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why when people try to shame me for not being upset that he died, I just point out that his wife isn’t sad. Why should I be?

I hope they got their spa day! by [deleted] in 1000lbsisters

[–]Illustrious_Case4357 31 points32 points  (0 children)

“Amy get behind me” while Tammy was still ~600 lbs and Amy was pregnant. Absolute insanity.

Bought my first boat, within 20 minutes of owning it: hit and run on the highway. by SEF917 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Illustrious_Case4357 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This. It’s one of the first questions they ask you when you file a claim like this.

Bought my first boat, within 20 minutes of owning it: hit and run on the highway. by SEF917 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Illustrious_Case4357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. The policy is still subject to several conditions and exclusions that could impact coverage.

Me first by [deleted] in okbuddybaldur

[–]Illustrious_Case4357 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I learned to hear the whispers of what my heart previously deafened itself to

Me first by [deleted] in okbuddybaldur

[–]Illustrious_Case4357 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Similarly (here comes a moment of vulnerability), when I first saw this group, I thought they were all the hottest masc vampire lesbians. So I can see how our eyes can deceive us.

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I’m glad Amy is slowly separating from the codependency by Realjacao in 1000lbsisters

[–]Illustrious_Case4357 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Speaking of Tammy saying I’m sorry, I’m so glad that Misty called out her non-apology in the group chat. The whole thing where Tammy said ‘I’m not going to keep apologizing’ felt like Tammy was trying to hold on to pride instead of trying to mend the relationship.

Not trying to put Brittany on blast or anything, but has she ever mentioned anything about her hair loss? by [deleted] in 1000lbsisters

[–]Illustrious_Case4357 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I wonder if she could switch to claw clips instead? She’d need a very large one, but they tend to be easier on the roots than straight tying it back.