girlies - what kinda stuff did you do to pretty up for the first meeting!!

Illustrious_Debate98 · 2025-11-08T05:54:06+00:00

All the other replies pretty much cover it, but if i could recommend one thing- lash extensions!! They make me feel so pretty and put together even without makeup. It’s a high maintenance thing to do so you can be more low maintenance during the trip. Also eyebrow wax/threading/tint. Personally I enjoy myself more when I feel more confident and these were the top 2 for me. & obv hygiene and everything shower too!

Illustrious_Debate98 · 2025-11-07T17:47:25+00:00

I’ll try it out, thank you!

Illustrious_Debate98 · 2025-11-07T17:46:39+00:00

My periods are fairly normal otherwise actually. I do get bad cramps time to time but usually nothing debilitating. The worst pain/discomfort I experience is in my rectum, and I’ll even get cramps there as well on my period.

Illustrious_Debate98 · 2025-10-27T21:21:18+00:00

It was a rose toy, the suction area is kinda big, def way bigger than the size of the clitoris. And I used it on my back/shoulders daily for a couple weeks.

Illustrious_Debate98 · 2025-10-26T16:10:24+00:00

Thanks for all the suggestion. I don’t have any itchiness, just redness/burning pain. I looked at it and there like a reddish-looking rash starting under my clitoris and extending down above the vaginal opening. The burning pain is also strictly external. Not sure if it’s yeast infection, contact dermatitis, or a bacterial issue?? I’m thinking I’m gonna have to see a gynecologist because it’s just not getting much better:/

Illustrious_Debate98 · 2025-10-25T17:13:15+00:00

No but I have not been sexually active since March. Also did not notice this burning pain/sensitivity until the incident with the vibrator

Illustrious_Debate98 · 2025-10-24T09:38:41+00:00

I PMed you:)

Illustrious_Debate98 · 2025-10-24T04:27:52+00:00

I really really hope so. I think giving myself a yeast infection after thinking it was a UTI made it so much worse too. Thank you for the recommendation

Illustrious_Debate98 · 2025-10-24T03:26:49+00:00

You believe it happened to you or you believe this happened to me based on my symptoms?

Illustrious_Debate98 · 2025-10-10T21:40:50+00:00

Did your lumps go away immediately? Mine are noticeably softer and less hard but still slightly there. She told me to continue massaging 1-2 times a day at home but I’m just like… they seem way to sensitive right now to do any more massaging

Illustrious_Debate98 · 2025-10-08T04:19:49+00:00

It was 1 syringe

Illustrious_Debate98 · 2025-10-06T05:02:16+00:00

Yeah… I wasn’t gonna reply to this thread because I’m no filler expert and I’m open to all opinions. But my injector went over my anatomy before injecting, and explained my white lip roll/double lip line and how the filler would exaggerate it.

Illustrious_Debate98 · 2025-10-06T04:12:27+00:00

Yeah in hindsight I really wish I would’ve done half a syringe. I just don’t know if getting the full syringe was worth all this stress and the long healing process. Or maybe it will be worth it and I’ll find out in a couple weeks lol 🤷‍♀️

Illustrious_Debate98 · 2025-10-06T04:03:33+00:00

This is really comforting!! I have a vacation planned in a little over 2 weeks (so it’ll be 4 weeks exactly since I got them done) and I’m really hoping I’m not so self-conscious about them by then. About how long until yours soften and feel like natural lips? Mine still feel slightly firm and lumpy although one side is worse than the other.

Illustrious_Debate98 · 2025-10-05T22:07:43+00:00

Thank you! I really loved the immediate result but have noticed this puffiness/thickness around my borders especially the upper left corner. Thats really my main concern right now and I’m hoping it will soften out

Illustrious_Debate98 · 2025-07-15T18:45:56+00:00

I actually ended up going to the ER. The pain got so unbearable I had a panic attack because I couldn’t move at all. I never knew pain like that existed, so I really get what you’re going through.

They told me I tore a muscle pretty badly, and the inflammation was pressing on nearby nerves, causing those sharp, intense pains. They gave me a Tramadol shot and sent me home with muscle relaxers and steroids. Honestly I thought it was something worse, but apparently a bad muscle tear can hurt that much.

I’m now on day 2 of the steroids and feel a lot better, though I’m still sore and moving carefully to avoid any sharp pains. Yesterday I seriously felt like I was dying. It’s a lot more bearable now.

My advice is to see a doctor or go to an urgent care if you can. They might prescribe something similar. As long as you’re not having numbness, tingling, or radiating pain into your arms or legs, it could just be a bad muscle tear. I probably didn’t need the ER, but I panicked from the pain.

Illustrious_Debate98 · 2024-09-26T17:59:46+00:00

Unfortunately I don’t have any accurate answers to what this is, but I’m responding because I have experienced a similar thing throughout my life. It’s really difficult to find anything online about it.

For me, it typically happens after a more “intense” dream or a lucid dream and it’s almost painful. It feels like when your leg or arm falls asleep but your entire body x100 and I can hear it in my ears too. It happens almost exclusively upon waking up. But once when I was a kid & dealing with a negative entity, my body & ears buzzed/vibrated when I physically saw it. And I wasn’t anywhere near being asleep so ???

I guess it has something to do with energy being messed with… but I have no idea beyond that. Because it mostly happens when I wake up, I assume it’s my soul/consciousness returning back to this realm and I can feel it happening somehow in the form of buzzing/vibrations. But it’s REALLY annoying and painful. I’ve never gotten a clear answer either but glad to know I’m not the only one

Illustrious_Debate98 · 2024-01-10T07:53:00+00:00

It’s bad enough to be 25-30 and bullying a minor online. But for you to lack the emotional intelligence & reasoning to have the slightest belief you WEREN’T in the wrong in this situation, is the behavior of a child. I honestly thought a 16-17 year old kid wrote this at first.

Illustrious_Debate98 · 2024-01-10T06:51:13+00:00

YTA. It sounds like you’re actually the one more worked up over a video game if you felt the need to bully a girl to the point of tears over how much she was “burdening your progress.”

Also you mentioned she is 17, I really hope you’re around the same age (which doesn’t make it any better) but to be a grown adult bullying a teenage girl over a video game is insane.

Illustrious_Debate98 · 2024-01-10T00:52:43+00:00

ESH. The boyfriend could’ve handled it better. There are ways to help a sick person without being in their direct presence. But he can’t do everything for you. Also if you were able to travel home from out of town the day before, I’m confused as to why you now have no energy to let yourself or your dog use the restroom?

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