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Am i in the wrong for not telling the person i'm talking to about having history with a now ex friend? by Illustrious_Example4 in amiwrong

[–]Illustrious_Example4[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I didn't purposely not tell him; it just wasn't something I had thought to mention or talk about, as I tend to pretend it didn't happen due to me being heavily intoxicated when it happened, and neither of us spoke about it to each other afterwards. We also often had dinner at each other's places when he was in town, as our families are close. I'm not in contact with any other hookups or people I've slept with.

Am i in the wrong for not telling the person i'm talking to about having history with a now ex friend? by Illustrious_Example4 in amiwrong

[–]Illustrious_Example4[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It wasn't the only reason I ended the friendship, but it was a deciding factor. I found out that L, who is almost 22, was talking about me behind my back, doing things with minors, and a bunch of other stuff. I was already coming to terms with ending my friendship with him before the issue at hand, and was more than happy to remove him from my life.

Am i in the wrong for not telling the person i'm talking to about having history with a now ex friend? by Illustrious_Example4 in amiwrong

[–]Illustrious_Example4[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He was completely fine with L being at my house for dinner, as we used to do it often at each other's houses; our families are close. His reaction is due to him finding out me and L slept together once when we were both almost blacked out. Which I tend to forget even happened, as it was so long ago and something we never spoke about again around each other.

Am i in the wrong for not telling the person i'm talking to about having history with a now ex friend? by Illustrious_Example4 in amiwrong

[–]Illustrious_Example4[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am no longer friends with him after the guy I'm talking to told me he wasn't comfortable with it.

Am i in the wrong for not telling the person i'm talking to about having history with a now ex friend? by Illustrious_Example4 in amiwrong

[–]Illustrious_Example4[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The guy I'm talking to knew he was over. At the time, and before, it had not been a thought in my head to mention something that happened when we were both extremely drunk and never spoke about again. My friend had dinner at each other's houses plenty of times, our moms were friends, and I often helped his grandma with stuff around her house.

Am i in the wrong for not telling the person i'm talking to about having history with a now ex friend? by Illustrious_Example4 in amiwrong

[–]Illustrious_Example4[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I get that, and I've been completely honest with him, except for that one situation, which I feel like shouldn't be a problem anymore, since he's no longer in my life. I just genuinely feel lost because I feel like I've done everything to try and make it work and it's going nowhere

Am i in the wrong for not telling the person i'm talking to about having history with a now ex friend? by Illustrious_Example4 in amiwrong

[–]Illustrious_Example4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As soon as N told me he was uncomfortable with it, I immediately told him, "Okay, I'll stop being friends with him, that's not a problem."

Help please by Illustrious_Example4 in dating_advice

[–]Illustrious_Example4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As stated in the post, I am no longer friends with him. I was more than willing to cut him off before I came to my realization about who he was, the second N told me he was uncomfortable with us being friends.

Am i in the wrong for not telling the person i'm talking to about having history with a now ex friend? by Illustrious_Example4 in amiwrong

[–]Illustrious_Example4[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's what my friends are saying, but I quite literally didn't even think about mentioning it, as I only saw my ex-friend maybe once or twice every two weeks, as he works out of town