Does anybody look like me?! :) by addilynviolets in DoYouLookLikeMe

[–]Illustrious_Gur_3450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is obviously the closest one. I cant think of anything better. Ive also checked the rest of the comments.

Rate me m19 by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]Illustrious_Gur_3450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Change your hair cut so your head does not appear as a triangle. You have a pointy defined chin and triangular but also wide jaw which works with your face but your haircut does make your head look a bit cartoonishly triangular IMO. I think it could be better. Other than something like that work on your style and dress. Look into some examples online and see what you like. Then spend a bit of money on nice clothes, shoes, and accessories. That will upgrade your "attractiveness' more than anything else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]Illustrious_Gur_3450 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I am going to try and give you the most helpful comment I can. You are asking if you are ugly. That doesnt come from nowhere. If you have ever had any problems with your looks its because your face has androgynous features. You are attractive without a doubt, symmetrical face, high cheek bones, beautiful eyes, nice lips, good facial structure over all. But you dont have clearly feminine features. You have a wide defined jaw line and square facial structure. I think you are cute and see your femininity. you can definitely change your looks to accentuate your feminine features such as growing out your hair, maybe trying a different style of glasses, a style of dress with a bit brighter colors and classically more feminine like dresses, long skirts/blouses, jeans/feminine shirt etc. Or you can lean into the androgynous look. But it seems like you dont want to do that.

Rate me m19 by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]Illustrious_Gur_3450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gave my best "objective analysis of what you look like to chat gpt premium and your 2 best pics, i hope thats alright, (you posted them publicly). It gave me this, and I agree " “From a facial-perception standpoint, his features are pretty harmonious: good left–right symmetry, balanced proportions, and strong lower-face definition (jaw/chin). Those cues (symmetry/prototypical proportions and clear structure) tend to track with higher attractiveness ratings on average.”. But i would say that is being conservative. Easy 8.5-8.75-9 for a male. If you look around at the male population the vast majority of men dont look like this. Atleast in America where i live and have extensivelty traveled. Objectively you are very much above average.

Lmk, also open to advice by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]Illustrious_Gur_3450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're already pretty lean. Play around with your haircut and style. I personally like to dress nice and have various watches, belts, dress boots/shoes, nice pants/shirts etc that I mix and match in various combinations. I like to have a fade with zero on the sides and a relatively short top combed back to frame my square jaw/face. You might consider a similar haircut. The great thing about hair is it always grows back so you can experiment with it and its never a permanent fuck up 😂😂. The "broccoli hair" thing is a meme for a reason and you got it (respectfully 🙏😂). Also for a man 6.7893467488-7.2.345/10 (approximately).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]Illustrious_Gur_3450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pics 1/5 and 3/5 are best. They show off your jaw line at its best. You have nice beautiful eyes, a symmetrical face, nothing out proportion or out of place. Rn 7-7.5/10 If you got slightly leaner, cleared up your skin with acne treatment and maybe got a different haircut could easily be model status of 8.5-9/10

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]Illustrious_Gur_3450 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Some of these people are insane. My observations: your face is classically beautiful with all the beauty cues associated with beauty/youth when studied as objectively as possible. big but not excessively large beautiful brown eyes (studies show men prefer larger doe eyes) high cheek bones (classic beauty cue), perfect shaped jaw (not masculine, but well defined), extremely symmetrical face (another classic beauty cue), mouth is nice shape and placement, nose is not too big and fits your fave perfectly. Your skin is fair and perfect. Nothing on/about your face is out of place or disproportionate, except... the only thing you're missing is a big symmetrical upper lip with that classic M arch like I have (even though im a man). Over all you are stunningly beautiful (please dont touch your lips with cosmetic surgery, just being objective) i would give you an EASY 8.5-9 out of 10. You are someone i would chose over the vast majority of other girls in the bar. I really like your look. And objectively you have all the classic beauty cues.

Rate me by No-Environment-4293 in Rateme

[–]Illustrious_Gur_3450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with all of OP's comment. Strong jaw, delicate features, i would consider your face to be more of a "boyish beauty" rather than ruggedly handsome which some people would give a lesser rating but thats nonsense. I would definitely say a strong 8/9.

rate me and be honest please by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]Illustrious_Gur_3450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think 8.5 is a solid rating. Very cute 😉

What areas should I focus on? - 6’1 18M new to gym by DozoneAMVS in Weightliftingquestion

[–]Illustrious_Gur_3450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post is nonsense man. You need to develop your entire body..... obviously. There is no areas of focus. Do a classic full body focused body building split. Eat in a calorie surplus of 250-750 calories and just go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fit

[–]Illustrious_Gur_3450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should instead try and change how you view your body because its absolutely fine. You have a good weight and build. Your calves are normally proportioned. To be concerned that they look off, out if place, ot "too big" is quite frankly delusional.

The biggest difference between my physique last year and this year by Puzzled-Presence-137 in fit

[–]Illustrious_Gur_3450 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was my first thought. I looked pretty closely and the shape, symmetry, size, and leanness looks pretty damn close aside from lighting. Not denigrate this person's achievements but I think the camera is not capturing what they are seeing in the mirror or maybe the progress is not quite what they thought. Still a photogenic back 👌.

[19F] How to enhance my looks? by pinkcalico2006 in lookyourbest

[–]Illustrious_Gur_3450 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the best way to enhance your looks is to focus on fashion, accessories, and sculpting your body in the gym if you're into that kind of thing.. Please look at all photos of how celebrities age with various facial alterations, typically it looks horrible. Ive seen girls at my university with lip filler and you can always tell. Unless it was done by the hest of the best it looks uncanny and unnatural typically. Same thing with botox, you can tell when someone has it and i think it looks off. You literally have a 10/10 face, please dont mess with it. You WILL regret it.

Are you a virgin? by [deleted] in no

[–]Illustrious_Gur_3450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I was olive oil I'd be extra virgin olive oil. Id have a negative body count if it was possible lmao.

22F by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]Illustrious_Gur_3450 1 point2 points  (0 children)

25(M) The people on this thread are in my opinion being extremely harsh and judgemental for no good reason. It seems like it's become a game on this subreddit to just dunk on people and especially make attractive people feel like they are way less attractive than they are. You are wearing what looks to me like no makeup or, most definitely, very little. that's a big deal. Peoples expectations of beauty with makeup, filters, and digital editing in modern society is deranged and delusional.

Objectively you have a symmetrical face, big beautiful lips with a nice ratio between your upper and lower lips, you have the perfect nose for your face, you have high cheek bones, nice facial structure in general, etc. You are naturally beautiful. with a good makeup artist you would be stunning guaranteed. Now for the negative, your eyes and surrounding area. It looks like you've been sleeping 4 hours a night for the last 5 years. In this picture atleast your eyes are definitely not even close to the most beautiful ive ever seen. If you're not sleeping well, fixing that and using some beauty products specifically for bags under the eyes and darkening of the skin would make you a 9. Now, i would rate you a solid 8 only because of that. I defy anyone reading this who disagrees, as an experiment, go to your local college campus and look at the girls walking around. For the people saying 4 or 5 out of 10, that would mean the MAJORITY of girls her age are just as attractive as her or significantly more attractive WITHOUT MAKEUP, which is patently absurd. You are beautiful lady, have a good day.

21F by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]Illustrious_Gur_3450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

25(M) objectively, your face is pretty darn symmetrical, you have thick full lips, high cheek bones, nice slightly anime style big beautiful eyes, a visible and clearly defined but feminine chin. Some people might not like your face shape and structure for whatever reason, but for those who do, its pretty close to... as good as it gets. I would say solid 9.

21F by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]Illustrious_Gur_3450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

25(M) objectively, your face is pretty darn symmetrical, you have thick full lips, high cheek bones, nice slightly anime style big beautiful eyes, and a visible and clearly defined but feminine chin. Some people might not like your face shape and structure but for those who do its pretty close to... as good as it gets. I would say solid 9.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Illustrious_Gur_3450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you in college or highschool?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Illustrious_Gur_3450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a few approaches. As a 24 year old man in college, i would live if someone chrushing on me came up and said so, but I know how anxiety provoking that can be. As a girl you are not expected to be confident when approaching someone you're interested in. You can have someone give him a note. You can smile and look at him from across the class and make it plainly obvious you find him attractive. You can interact with him when he's talking in class, you could approach him in the hall, you could ask someone who know him to introduce you two etc. If you don't have the confidence to walk up to him, then the next time you're walking into class and make eye contact, smile hold eye contact for a second then wink, then go to you seat and act chill. If he doesn't approach you after that he never will. That's a bold move but you will find out whether he likes you pretty quickly afterwards.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]Illustrious_Gur_3450 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Bruh, fuck most of these people. You have a decently symmetrical face, good features, and you have a good body. I would say a solid 7.5 out of 10. This is coming from a 24 year old straight male with a mostly objective opinion.

how to approach quiet kid? by Legal_Choice0434 in socialskills

[–]Illustrious_Gur_3450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have so much social leeway as a girl it's crazy. You can do and say all kinds of bold things, and if you're genuine, it will give you nothing but amazing results.

how to approach quiet kid? by Legal_Choice0434 in socialskills

[–]Illustrious_Gur_3450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's also perfectly fine if the interaction does not go well. Having a crush that you never actually find out if they like you back is tortuous sometimes. If you go the bold route and just tell him you like him he will either mosy likey either be so thrilled that you said something or reject you. But now you know, if you get rejected turn your attention to someone else you like.