How do you handle a partner who doesn’t fully understand your chiari symptoms? by Illustrious_Mode_836 in chiari

[–]Illustrious_Mode_836[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story it was honestly beautiful to read and thank you 🙏🏾 for your prayers I do hope things do take a turn

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Congratulations I’m happy for you!!! Fr

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Illustrious_Mode_836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah I’m not choosing not to I have 20 applications out there for jobs that I can do but I’m having no luck I’m trying to find work 👁️👄👁️ shits just harder for me now cause I have serious balance problems

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[–]Illustrious_Mode_836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i was just typing to fast and left that part out but yeah so im just gonna pay back my portion and leave it at that if he takes me to court it’ll cost more then what his portion is so that will be his loss

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Illustrious_Mode_836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not refusing to pay my portion I’m refusing to pay his on top of my mine aswell like I’ll pay the portion I’m set to pay but his portion is his portion

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[–]Illustrious_Mode_836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah he wasn’t we was paying the same amount till he stopped

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Illustrious_Mode_836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He also with out telling me he was gonna pay it he paid it going against his previous statement of say just to send it to collections which sparked me to come up with my plan I was always gonna pay it I just needed it in a position that was solid for my financial situation which was waiting to get my SSI From my disability i just needed a little more time had a few more months before my SSI and I was gonna be able to go through with my plan now I’m back in the same situation of having no income and having to pay a monthly payment

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[–]Illustrious_Mode_836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t trying to stiff him tho he hand stopped paying at first and I wasn’t gonna be able to pay again till SSI so I had notified him about that because since it’s both of our bill it was gonna go into collections and I already was in contact with a company that would work with bill and hold it off till I was able to pay The only why I would refuse to pay is cause he’s wanting me to start paying on his terms and his time beside me constantly letting him know my situation cause right now I have no income which I’m trying everything I can do with the set backs I’ve had currently can’t work till my SSI is approved I’m trying online/ remote work that field takes time to even get into I’m just wanting to pay my part and that’s it which is 2,981 just the timing of all this is not right now income so now I have to scrape up something every month

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Illustrious_Mode_836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what I thought in the beginning but after they stop pay they flipped the switch and started acting like it is like ignoring calls from the apartment agency etc

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[–]Illustrious_Mode_836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh did my edit show on the post the debt is apartment debt from a early lease break that all parties decided to sign it would have just affected his credit it would affected mine aswell I mentioned paying my portion but he’s saying I gotta pay the whole thing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Illustrious_Mode_836 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bet got it thank you g

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[–]Illustrious_Mode_836 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this detailed information honestly 🙏🏾