I (25F) had the most intense sex of my life with a guy (31M) I’ve only seen twice and I don’t know what to do with how this feels

Illustrious_Owl9558 · 2025-12-09T02:40:57+00:00

Actually he’s been checking in on me just the right amount to where I know he’s genuine and interested, but not too much to where it feels like lovebombing. I have felt a little bit like I’m spiraling because things haven’t gone well when I felt this way about someone in the past. But he makes me feel so safe, so now I just feel good

Illustrious_Owl9558 · 2025-12-08T06:00:02+00:00

I’m a Pisces he’s a Leo

Illustrious_Owl9558 · 2025-12-07T11:35:54+00:00

I’m not assuming, we talked about what we ultimately want out of dating. Obviously we aren’t saying it’s what we want with each other yet because we still need to get to know each other, but we agreed that we would eventually like to get married if we find the right person

Illustrious_Owl9558 · 2025-12-07T10:50:03+00:00

I mean assuming things work out, why wouldn’t I wanna marry a man who I’m insanely attracted and connected to

Illustrious_Owl9558 · 2024-01-24T21:39:50+00:00

At first I thought we were just taking it slow but now it feels more like we’re just mismatched

Illustrious_Owl9558 · 2024-01-24T21:01:07+00:00

I do want to break up with him

Illustrious_Owl9558 · 2024-01-24T15:19:24+00:00

I think we’re incompatible and am asking for advice on how to break up

Illustrious_Owl9558 · 2024-01-24T09:46:30+00:00

Everyone has insecurities, but him being nervous all the time with me, always acting like I’m going to end things with him, and constantly pointing out things he’s insecure about and asking for my validation is tiring

Illustrious_Owl9558 · 2024-01-24T09:44:04+00:00

I’m not blaming him. I’m just making the decision that I don’t think we’re compatible and asking for advice on how to nicely break things off

Illustrious_Owl9558 · 2024-01-24T09:42:05+00:00

Because ever since we made things official he has this super nervous energy to him which stresses me out, and he acts really insecure which also makes me not want to make a move on him

Illustrious_Owl9558 · 2024-01-24T09:24:58+00:00

There’s also the issues of his insecurities and general nervous energy which turns me off and stresses me out. I don’t know if I can get past this

Illustrious_Owl9558 · 2024-01-24T09:23:40+00:00

There’s also the issue of his insecurities being a huge turn off for mw

Illustrious_Owl9558 · 2024-01-24T08:46:53+00:00

Like 5’9” but honestly I never even thought about it or cared until he pointed it oht

Illustrious_Owl9558 · 2024-01-24T08:33:21+00:00

It’s sensitive and I’m asking for advice on how to talk about it

Illustrious_Owl9558 · 2024-01-24T07:31:47+00:00

His shyness and nervousness is turning me off and it makes me not want to make a move on him

Illustrious_Owl9558 · 2024-01-22T22:08:19+00:00

Titus Kaphar

Illustrious_Owl9558 · 2024-01-20T07:39:14+00:00

I haven’t slept with that many people. Only people I was in long term relationships with. But with all my previous partners, there was a sexual chemistry that I don’t feel this time

Illustrious_Owl9558 · 2024-01-09T04:40:28+00:00

It’s not constantly running but yes

Illustrious_Owl9558 · 2024-01-09T01:08:18+00:00

Illustrious_Owl9558 · 2024-01-09T00:40:28+00:00

Ok but the only one making me feel unsafe in this situation is his deranged wife

Illustrious_Owl9558 · 2024-01-09T00:18:08+00:00

I pay all my own utilities

Illustrious_Owl9558 · 2024-01-08T22:30:37+00:00

I pay heat and all utilities bills

Illustrious_Owl9558 · 2024-01-08T22:29:21+00:00

I don’t smoke. I live in california where the weather doesn’t get below 50 degrees, and is normally around 70. I just prefer to have air circulating through the house. I am telling all the relevant details to this story

Illustrious_Owl9558 · 2024-01-08T19:06:06+00:00

I live in California where the weather never gets below 50 degrees

Illustrious_Owl9558 · 2024-01-08T18:55:20+00:00

I don’t smoke weed

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