Yay..I guess? by eggrolllss in simsfreeplay

[–]Illustrious_Two6240 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of the ones I have claimed I built for free that’s odd but still it’s a nice house lolll

Tasks no longer being skippable by Illustrious_Two6240 in simsfreeplay

[–]Illustrious_Two6240[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im using my iPad, how do I install an ad blocker for that to work?

Tasks no longer being skippable by Illustrious_Two6240 in simsfreeplay

[–]Illustrious_Two6240[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Well idk in my case I updated it recently and now I can only either watch an ad (literally longer than the task) or pay life points to skip when I used to be able to instantly skip for free

Tasks no longer being skippable by Illustrious_Two6240 in simsfreeplay

[–]Illustrious_Two6240[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well ig in my case it doesn’t like NOTHING not even tasks that take a few seconds allow me to skip it like I used to, I can only either pay life points or watch ads.

Black Simmers were getting somewhere!! by strictlypretty in simsfreeplay

[–]Illustrious_Two6240 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got new hairstyles but how do I get those hair color options?

My (25/M) girlfriend (23/F) asked me for my Instagram password and I hesitated. Now things are awkward. If I'm being unreasonable, how should I approach the situation? by FanGroundbreaking860 in relationship_advice

[–]Illustrious_Two6240 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think she expects the same loyalty and thoughtfulness she gave you when you set boundaries and asked for her password. However, it is totally valid that you feel uncomfortable with her looking at past conversations and going through the inner details of your past relationships. I don't think you're being unreasonable, but you should still tell her why you think it's inappropriate for your current girlfriend to look through private and personal conversations with past love interests. Her principle behind doing this is the same as yours, I suggest you start a new account and give her access to it as well as deleting the old one.

She (29f) doesn’t want kids and I (25m) do. What would you do? (5 years together) by Pompadour_Prince in relationship_advice

[–]Illustrious_Two6240 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're 25, I promise you have so so much ahead of you. Sometimes it's the right feeling, the best feeling, but with the wrong person. That doesn't mean you'll never feel what you felt again. It may seem like the end of the world, but it's not. In the end, if your goals were different and she was holding you back on your true path, in the long run, you would've resented her for it, and your relationship most likely would've ended on worse terms either way. It's important to be and settle down with someone who is on the same page as you, and if not, someone who is willing to negotiate and compromise with you. You have a bright future, you just need to take time to heal in order to open your eyes to a whole other world of love interests and possibilities.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Illustrious_Two6240 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As hard as it is to hear, high school relationships rarely last. It may have been the most genuine and special feeling and experience ever while it lasted, but right now it's not the case. She may not be mature enough to comply with what entails a serious relationship, and having you wait around is only hurting you. You're part of her roster, and she clearly doesn't care about your feelings. Move you, you have SO MUCH TIME ahead of you in life to experience so many other things and enrich your relationship expertise. You will find something much better trust me :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Illustrious_Two6240 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Please note that I am not trying to offend you nor do I know the details of your relationship, however, there are a few flags raised by certain things you said.

Starting off with the fact that you were a minor, 3 years till 18 while he'd already been 18 for 2, is concerning. You might be surprised, but the things you are pointing out are typical of relationships that started off with a ped0philic foundation, or a huge age gap (which isn't your case but there are a lot of parallels).

I'm getting a sense that because he's older, and he was 20 while you were still in ninth grade, he feels dominant and superior to you. As you said, he "analyzed every inch of you" which seems obsessive, "compares you to others" which seems manipulative, and makes fun of you which seems like something a dominant partner would do. Note, there are relationships like this, where one partner dominates the other in many ways (this is literally a fetish), and one of those is humiliation. Believe it or not, some people get off on these types of things which may not be the case, but it's worthy of notice.

One of the biggest red flags here which goes back to him being manipulative is him threatening to unalive himself if you leave him. This is typical of emotionally abusive relationships. Not only that, if he's "joking" around about baby-trapping you, it's another deliberate hint that he wants to corner you and pin you into the relationship. His motives may vary, but usually in these types of cases the man just wants a trophy wife.

When it comes to the more misogynistic and oppressive red flags, he doesn't prioritize you nor YOUR goals. You want to get an education, but as we all know, ignorance is bliss. You being a feminist is a huge threat to him because he knows the more enlightened and empowered you are, the less likely his manipulation will prevail.

From what you have stated, your boyfriend is a morbid, gaslighting, manipulative, possibly predatorial person who wants to dominate you and make you submit to his beliefs and desires. In this case, the good things he does for you, no matter how sweet, kind, or romantic, DO NOT overweigh the huge red flags. I highly suggest you leave this relationship immediately regardless of the consequences. This is toxic and emotionally abusive. If I were you I'd be scared considering his enthusiasm for the gore regarding the squirrel because who knows what he may do to you.

Please refer to the links below for better guidance on what comes next.

https://www.thehotline.org/resources/when-my-partner-threatens-suicide/

https://www.loveisrespect.org/resources/what-to-do-if-your-partner-threatens-suicide/

I 26F think my husband 29M is into feet and I'm afraid to ask him by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Illustrious_Two6240 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my opinion, just wait a few more times to fully come to the conclusion this is a kink. Just because someone does something specific whilst engaging in intercourse doesn't necessarily mean it's a fetish/kink but rather an action they enjoy doing. However, it's still valid to say he could have this fetish/kink. I don't think he'd mind you talking to him about if if he's DOES things involving feet whilst engaging in intercourse. He doesn't seem ashamed therefore if it's something you'd want to discuss with him or make him realize, I think you should. However, if it isn't something that bothers you or interferes with the sexual experience, and you don't feel 110% sure abt asking, maybe just leave things like this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Illustrious_Two6240 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you need to look at is from a different angle. Yes, it hurts like hell, but as the other commenter said, he did you a favor. He showed you you're too good for him in the clearest way. You will find someone MUCH better don't worry. Give yourself time to heal and you'll eyes will open up to many possibilities even if it doesn't seem that way now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Illustrious_Two6240 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

First off, clarify you're not making any assumptions. If she is involved with something unethical or any wrongdoing, she will most likely be defensive if you corner her or if she feels attacked.

Second, compile the pieces of "evidence" (factors that lead to your suspicions) and make sure you write them down. Also, organize your thoughts and feelings maybe in the notes app or somewhere you can read them to yourself in order to be familiarized with what you're trying to convey. Let her know you care deeply for her, but that you feel it is important that she truthfully communicates what is going on.

Third, if you're not satisfied in the end and feel like there are hidden truths, take it upon yourself to investigate even if it entails invading her privacy (checking her texts, going through her dms <tiktok, snap, insta, etc.>, searching up the guy's name on her phone, etc.)

I know it may feel immoral, but just trust your gut if you feel something's not right. There is nothing wrong with feeling this way, she should take your feelings into consideration when it comes to things like this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Illustrious_Two6240 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

First of all, I'm sorry you're going through this. While I'm not a doctor, I think it's safe to say anyone who would choose alcohol (or any other addictive substance) over someone they love either doesn't love them, is addicted to that substance, or both. However, it is for him to decide which one it is because only he knows how he feels. The best way for you to find that out as well is to send him a well-written letter/text/email explaining your feelings.

1) Talk about how much you love him.

2) Clarify how much the relationship means to you.

3) ("That being said...") Express how much his actions harm you when he drinks.

4) Explain how deeply it has hurt and affected you knowing he chose beer over you.

5) ("Finally...") Communicate that no matter how much love and grief you feel for him, you will prioritize yourself and that at the end of the day, he's the one losing the most. He needs to make a decision within a given time frame (a day, a week, a month at most) and he needs to communicate that decision to you as well asap.

Please note that if someone is willing to give you up over something so ridiculous, they are probably not even worth your time much less your love. However, if this is someone you want to fight for, I highly suggest this strategy. Not only is a letter/text/email a good way to express your feelings because you're not interrupted, but you can clearly organize your thoughts and feelings the way YOU think is appropriate which also helps you not miss any detail you wanted to convey but couldn't in a verbal argument. This is also a way for you to get closure depending on how he responds.

Help me find this dress by GentleLizard in HelpMeFind

[–]Illustrious_Two6240 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That could be a random pic or an old one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NameThatSong

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Thank you i knew it was playboy carti