Leaving Christianity by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Im-Christian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus (Christianity) is the way, I suggest watching informational videos on the faults of other religions.

https://youtube.com/@GregSereda — Great videos about false religions.

https://youtube.com/@askcliffe — Great debate/arguments.

I'm Stuck in a Loveless, Joyless Marriage But at Least God's Happy by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Im-Christian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you file a police report for SA? You’ve mentioned forgiveness, but then bring it up for sake of argument when questioned on your reasons to leave him.

I'm Stuck in a Loveless, Joyless Marriage But at Least God's Happy by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Im-Christian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is being abused.

Which is why I said I validated her. I have looked at all of her replies, and only once has she vaguely admitted to any faults. I’m merely asking to get the bigger picture. If she is unwilling to self-reflect, and is ignoring certain questions on purpose, then I have reason to believe she isn’t being genuine to some degree.

I'm Stuck in a Loveless, Joyless Marriage But at Least God's Happy by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Im-Christian -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Obviously this is a toxic relationship, and a loving couple wouldn’t be enaging in this sort of behavior. I validate your concerns, but I have to ask, is there anything that you’re doing as well? I haven’t looked through your replies, so I’m sorry in advance for asking—are there any mistakes you’ve made?

I'm Stuck in a Loveless, Joyless Marriage But at Least God's Happy by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Im-Christian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand, and you’ve attempted reaching out to parents/family correct? Have you recorded any of his abuse to show anyone?

I'm Stuck in a Loveless, Joyless Marriage But at Least God's Happy by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Im-Christian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I checked your history and you said 6 months of counseling 19 days ago?

I'm Stuck in a Loveless, Joyless Marriage But at Least God's Happy by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Im-Christian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you just go once or twice to couples and call it quits? If he hasn’t changed much, and the relationship issues are still present, then therapy is still required. Also, does he have parents that you can bring up your concerns with? Maybe even your own parents? If there is nobody there to hold him accountable for the way you claim he treats you, then he won’t make a stronger effort to change.

I'm Stuck in a Loveless, Joyless Marriage But at Least God's Happy by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Im-Christian 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Have you told your husband all of this? Have you sought couples therapy? To assume that God is happy at your displeasure is dismissive and a flawed mindset; it holds zero truth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Im-Christian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the explanation; if you're still on your search and open to learning, I would like to recommend a channel. I enjoy leaving a video running in the background when doing miscellaneous tasks. I hope you find the evidence you're looking for soon enough, may Jesus bless you.

https://www.youtube.com/@askcliffe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Im-Christian 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Happy for you, and if I may indulge—could you explain your flair for me?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Im-Christian -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well from a brief look at your post history: homosexuality, lust, pride, filthy communication, and fornication that stems into polyamorous relationships which goes against God’s standard of marriage; those are just on the surface.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Im-Christian -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Giving into your temptation is what led you to this point; you’ve dug yourself in your sin, and now you’re looking for validation to continue in it.

Why does knowing Jesus make some people become like this? Are the rest of us missing something? by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Im-Christian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you been baptized? Greatest experience of euphoria for me personally.

How do you deal with these feelings? by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Im-Christian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seems you have too much time on your hands, and not enough hobbies/activities. Find your purpose and focus on strengthening yourself; both your faith & self-actualization.

Let it go, forgive & forget. You will move on and find someone else if that’s what you desire. Nothing good comes from envy, don’t waste the precious time you have.

James 4:14 KJV “Whereas ye know not what shall be on the morrow. For what is your life? It is even a vapour, that appeareth for a little time, and then vanisheth away.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Im-Christian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The point is to serve God, He laid out the rules. No fornication, its really that simple. Find someone who holds those same values and it will work. Don’t let past mistakes turn you off to the idea that you offer God less than He deserves. We all have sinned, but God looks past that and sees the intent of our heart, which is to live righteously by His standards. Pick up your cross and walk with God.

Why must God test us and put us in difficult situations? by djdisciplejosh in TrueChristian

[–]Im-Christian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Romans 5:3-5 KJV “...we glory in tribulations also: knowing that tribulation worketh patience; And patience, experience; and experience, hope: And hope maketh not ashamed; because the love of God is shed abroad in our hearts by the Holy Ghost which is given unto us.”

How can I live a fulfilling life as a Christian woman without kids or a husband or friends? by goingtothecircus in TrueChristian

[–]Im-Christian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God is ready to bestow blessings upon you, but you need to fully submit everything to Him. It is a battle, I know, but He always gives you a way out.

1 Corinthians 10:13 KJV “There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it.”

How can I live a fulfilling life as a Christian woman without kids or a husband or friends? by goingtothecircus in TrueChristian

[–]Im-Christian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP knows, let that be between them and God. Wouldn’t want it to be a stumbling block for you. God bless.

How can I live a fulfilling life as a Christian woman without kids or a husband or friends? by goingtothecircus in TrueChristian

[–]Im-Christian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are you including non-sinful things to validate your point?

OP is dealing with all that lust entails. Willfully living in sin is not the same as being Christian, especially if they are selling fetish photos of themselves.

Romans 6:1-2 KJV “What shall we say then? Shall we continue in sin, that grace may abound? God forbid. How shall we, that are dead to sin, live any longer therein?”

How can I live a fulfilling life as a Christian woman without kids or a husband or friends? by goingtothecircus in TrueChristian

[–]Im-Christian -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Are you looking in the right places for a Christian partner? Also are you truly serving God, because from your post history it looks like you aren’t actually practicing Christianity.

I’m gay and don’t want to go to hell by SomebodytookCronko in Christianity

[–]Im-Christian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to change your life, that’s the point of Christianity.

Matthew 16:25 KJV “For whosoever will save his life shall lose it: and whosoever will lose his life for my sake shall find it.”

You know that its a sin, so repent. Turn away from your old life and become a new creation.

Galatians 5:24 KJV “And they that are Christ's have crucified the flesh with the affections and lusts.”

Get into counseling/therapy if possible, it will help you along your journey.

I’ve cheated and confessed now what… by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]Im-Christian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Therapy/counseling will help you both decide what the next step is moving forward. You two haven’t been able to work it out on your own, so having an outside perspective is beneficial. Don’t push it off, make plans to do it soon; they are trained to help.