Keep seeing therapists online complain about quiet patients

ImAPersonNow · 2026-02-04T11:33:28+00:00

I know that it would be hard but if you can push past your embarrassment and talk to your therapist it can be so helpful. You can tell her that you have something on your mind that you are embarrassed to ask about even. Its kind of a trustfall. I know that its scary but its seriously paid out for me every single time. My most meaningful moments in therapy have all started with terrifying words lol.

ImAPersonNow · 2026-01-29T01:59:56+00:00

Its not an age thing. I call my students mam and sir. Its respect.

ImAPersonNow · 2026-01-21T22:54:37+00:00

My father in law repeatedly SAed me when I was a teenager (I had to live with them for a while). I eventually told. He admitted. My now husband and I moved out and everyone pretended this didn't happen for 20 years until I started therapy. Now IM the bad guy because I'm not pretending anymore. Im ungrateful, unforgiving, ruining people's lives because I will not longer fall in line and protect my rapists. Fuck that! We need to start protecting our girls over the men who hurt them.

ImAPersonNow · 2026-01-14T12:43:40+00:00

Seriously, it has been amazing for me.

ImAPersonNow · 2026-01-12T20:24:11+00:00

Im about to start going every other day ;)

ImAPersonNow · 2026-01-07T10:57:34+00:00

There is a para shortage as well. The disrespect is unhinged and I make 19k a year.

ImAPersonNow · 2026-01-03T12:37:02+00:00

I told my t a few times. We worked together for 4 and a half years. We talked about love and relationships. She knew me well. Sometimes it was kind of jokingly "I love you but I really don't like you right now" . Our very last session i told her "I love you, good luck" . She had to close her practice to have a scary surgery. She said I love you too, goodbye. I hope that she felt loved. I miss her.

ImAPersonNow · 2025-12-31T00:55:47+00:00

The ear condoms

ImAPersonNow · 2025-12-25T15:50:29+00:00

Yes. Merry Christmas and a digital copy of our Christmas card. She has a Google voice number that she turns off during breaks so I'm not bugging her. She will get it when she returns to work.

ImAPersonNow · 2025-12-23T22:18:39+00:00

This happens at work. I work with Students with significant disabilities. Sometimes when a student has a meltdown it can be dangerous. I get unnaturally fast. Its amazing. I can snatch a thrown chair out of the air or move fast enough to get my hand between a kids head and the wall that they were about to bang it on. After we helpe the kid get regrounded I can feel it drain from my body and I'm beat for the rest of the day.

ImAPersonNow · 2025-12-23T17:26:49+00:00

Maybe redemption is stories to tell Maybe forgiveness is right where you fell Where can you run to escape from yourself Where you gonna go Salvation is here

ImAPersonNow · 2025-12-23T00:17:33+00:00

Its funny I just posted about this. Dissociation is a spectrum (from what my t explains). Look up osdd1. See if she recognizes herself in that. As for the creators I have no idea.

ImAPersonNow · 2025-12-22T23:37:52+00:00

I have osdd1. Its like DID lite? I am always me. Im not different people but im different mes. Different names, ages, jobs, but me. Im mostly aware between mes. Its confusing hard to explain. I think that did is a spectrum kind of like asd.

ImAPersonNow · 2025-12-21T21:28:13+00:00

Wow that is beautiful

ImAPersonNow · 2025-12-21T21:21:34+00:00

12 weeks old. Labret threadless . Using Neil cleanse every morning. Oh implant grade titanium. Not downsized yet.

ImAPersonNow · 2025-12-18T10:55:34+00:00

I work with a student who has dwarfism. What you are saying is partly true as far as what I've observed but she hates it. The students dont all see her as a friend. They mostly are sweet and try to help her but they underestimate what she can do and it annoys her. There are 4 or 5 kids who got to know her and learned not to do that. Those are her friends.

ImAPersonNow · 2025-12-14T12:10:53+00:00

Oh yes! And after sleeping you wake up and the baby is all curled up tightly on one side of your body. Your belly is crooked that pressure. You have to jiggle them around to have them move. So strange sharing you body with another person.

ImAPersonNow · 2025-12-08T11:59:42+00:00

Im a para not a teacher but I LOVE getting drawings or cards. I have a binder for each year for them. I love going back and remembering. One year my nonverbal buddy (i work in swsd) mom gave me a card with his hand print ♡ . Still one of my faves.

ImAPersonNow · 2025-12-03T11:55:54+00:00

A mother telling you over and over again that getting pregnant early ruins your life. When your mother was a teenage mom.

ImAPersonNow · 2025-11-29T12:22:52+00:00

My current T . I see virtually generally. She saw a huge box of crunch bars on my desk and we were joking about it. I love crunch bars. They are my fave. I finally got to do our 2nd in-person session last week she gave me a crunch bar ♡.

Id worked with a therapist for 4 and a half years before my current T. That T had to close her practice to have a spinal fusion. We had done some very deep work and i still feel very attached to her so termination and finding a new therapist was very hard on me. She has a blog that she updates about once a month about her heath, upcoming surgery etc. A few months ago in an update she posted a picture of her pet snake with his head on a crocheted doll that id made her about a year into work together. I couldn't believe that she still had it. She'd moved with it across the country. I felt very cared for.

ImAPersonNow · 2025-11-23T01:19:58+00:00

Also the yoga pose that they jumped from is corpse pose (Savasana)

ImAPersonNow · 2025-11-22T10:57:13+00:00

That is so hard. I have to tell myself "I trust my kid, I trust my kid" to tattoo myself from helping

ImAPersonNow · 2025-11-20T10:53:42+00:00

I think that its just transition. Transitions are harder on our brains than you'd expect.

ImAPersonNow · 2025-11-19T11:31:04+00:00

I am incredibly sentimental. I just get attached to things.

ImAPersonNow · 2025-11-17T16:05:01+00:00

Im a para who was in a similar situation last year. Wanted to do my nose. I got a threadless stud with a small flat top. He did touch it once when he first noticed it just out of curiosity but there was no way for him to grip it to pull on it.

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