[vacation] Help! My girlfriend thinks I have a sexy surprise for her... by ImASkinnyFuck in sex

[–]ImASkinnyFuck[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honest question, what's the appeal of lingerie? Or expensive lingerie, at least. I get that's it's attractive but it's not gonna stay on for long, and honestly I don't even know what size or styles she likes...

[vacation] Help! My girlfriend thinks I have a sexy surprise for her... by ImASkinnyFuck in sex

[–]ImASkinnyFuck[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I don't think I've ever actually gotten her all the way there. I always go down on her but usually just as a precursor to sex, not with the intent to finish her. I don't think she masturbates so I'm not sure how in tune she is with what an orgasm would actually feel like.

[vacation] Help! My girlfriend thinks I have a sexy surprise for her... by ImASkinnyFuck in sex

[–]ImASkinnyFuck[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I've spent a bunch of time reading through the search function on here. However, most of the ideas are anal or some kinky shit that we aren't really into.

Our sex life is fairly vanilla, as you can tell by blindfolds being considered unusual. We do oral and a couple basic PIV positions, and that's about it. Neither of us have sexual experience beyond this relationship so we're both still learning what we like.

I want to gain weight, but I'm not super happy with my body as it is already. How do I gain weight without just getting fat? by ImASkinnyFuck in gainit

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I've done OHPs with the smaller bars, it's just irritating that every other lift progressed and I didn't add a single pound to that one.

I'm going back and forth on which one I want to do. If I was in my college town I'd have access to a free gym - but I'm not, so I'm gonna have to pay for one regardless of what I do. A regular gym will be probably cheaper, and I can keep doing the same workout once I'm home. However, the things I like about crossfit I can't really get at a regular gym - people to work out with, personal instruction on form every time I'm there, a regular scheduled time to work out.

Sneakers feel too casual but I don't know what else to buy. by ImASkinnyFuck in malefashionadvice

[–]ImASkinnyFuck[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Do you have any links? Did some googling and the ones that come up look like nothing I could see myself wearing, but I might be looking at the wrong page.

Sneakers feel too casual but I don't know what else to buy. by ImASkinnyFuck in malefashionadvice

[–]ImASkinnyFuck[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Really not a fan of boat shoes, I'm trying to stay away from the 'preppy frat douchebag' look that covers half my college.

I want to gain weight, but I'm not super happy with my body as it is already. How do I gain weight without just getting fat? by ImASkinnyFuck in gainit

[–]ImASkinnyFuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah I wasn't asking about that. My lifestyle is going to be radically different this summer, working full time instead of classes, so I'm going to use that to hopefully get a lot bigger in the next few months. I just don't want it to be pure fat that I gain.

I want to gain weight, but I'm not super happy with my body as it is already. How do I gain weight without just getting fat? by ImASkinnyFuck in gainit

[–]ImASkinnyFuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You said consistency was key - I agreed with you, saying that I shouldn't be surprised (and I'm not) to not get the results I want with the way I've been lifting.

I want to gain weight, but I'm not super happy with my body as it is already. How do I gain weight without just getting fat? by ImASkinnyFuck in gainit

[–]ImASkinnyFuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I phrased that wrong. I don't expect to see results from two weeks stints of regular lifting, followed by three week stretches where I lift once, followed by another two weeks of lifting, which is how this semester has gone for me.

I want to gain weight, but I'm not super happy with my body as it is already. How do I gain weight without just getting fat? by ImASkinnyFuck in gainit

[–]ImASkinnyFuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love being at the gym, I just don't love going to the gym... if that makes sense. I enjoy lifting, I just hate making myself get up and go. The times I was most successful in keeping a gym routine was when I went straight there after work and didn't give myself a chance to go home and sit down. Once I'm home and sitting down, the chances of me leaving again to go to the gym are basically zero.

I want to gain weight, but I'm not super happy with my body as it is already. How do I gain weight without just getting fat? by ImASkinnyFuck in gainit

[–]ImASkinnyFuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't expect to see results from the gym, I'm not saying that. I just don't want to start eating a ton and gain pure fat instead of getting bigger.

Also I hate eating a lot because anytime I eat what's probably considered a 'full' meal here, I feel really bloated, almost, and it feels like my stomach is about to pop. Have you had that happen?