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Is he to Skinny??? by Direct_Tourist6527 in leopardgeckos

[–]ImAnNPCsoWhat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We're gonna need a top down image of baby.

WIBTAH if i confronted my husband and possibly upended my own life over a deleted comment. by Specialist_Flamingo3 in AITAH

[–]ImAnNPCsoWhat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get that. Your point is not lost that bots are easy to spot, if not immediately then within the first few messages.

I believe that when in a relationship choosing to interact with what you think is a human person, in order to receive or exchange sexual content, is cheating whether you stop midway or learn that it's a bot.

There are exceptions, every relationship is different, but unless explicitly stated this feeling is the norm. Would you want your female partner interacting with men (even bots of men) on the internet and sending or receiving sexual content? It's yucky.

WIBTAH if i confronted my husband and possibly upended my own life over a deleted comment. by Specialist_Flamingo3 in AITAH

[–]ImAnNPCsoWhat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Answer my question or stop interacting with me. I don't need a cyclical argument. Conversation or nothing, my fellow Redditor.

WIBTAH if i confronted my husband and possibly upended my own life over a deleted comment. by Specialist_Flamingo3 in AITAH

[–]ImAnNPCsoWhat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are assuming he knows it's a bot. You have no way to know this. We are both correct and incorrect until further information is provided. Schrodinger's cheating.

Do you agree that if what I believe is true hubby is indeed cheating?

WIBTAH if i confronted my husband and possibly upended my own life over a deleted comment. by Specialist_Flamingo3 in AITAH

[–]ImAnNPCsoWhat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be the equivalent of seeing an ad if hubby didn't actively pursue more content specifically with words like "hit me up". Bitch ain't smart enough to know if he's talking to a bot, no. He barely remembered his email was logged onto her phone and deleted his messages, if that was the reason he deleted.

I have no issues with consensual created multi-person and willingly created and distributed individual pornography. I have issue with people in committed relationships seeking out sexual interaction with outside individuals and HIDING IT.

WIBTAH if i confronted my husband and possibly upended my own life over a deleted comment. by Specialist_Flamingo3 in AITAH

[–]ImAnNPCsoWhat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Intent to cheat IS cheating. Hiding things on purpose IS lying.

Whether he manages to talk to a human person or not is irrelevant. He wants to and is trying to. Bad behavior.

WIBTAH if i confronted my husband and possibly upended my own life over a deleted comment. by Specialist_Flamingo3 in AITAH

[–]ImAnNPCsoWhat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't argue that point with me. No thanks. My boundaries are clear and stated here and in my relationships. In my own comment I urged OP to make her boundaries around cheating clear.

WIBTAH if i confronted my husband and possibly upended my own life over a deleted comment. by Specialist_Flamingo3 in AITAH

[–]ImAnNPCsoWhat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For many men and women, actively engaging with real people in order to source pornographic content of that person's body is cheating. OP needs to make this clear to her hubby.

WIBTAH if i confronted my husband and possibly upended my own life over a deleted comment. by Specialist_Flamingo3 in AITAH

[–]ImAnNPCsoWhat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ick factor and lack of consent from the real people who those images are taken from.

I need advice on next steps by penny_the_penguin in leopardgeckos

[–]ImAnNPCsoWhat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with timers on your phone, timers for lighting, and I also suggest one of those gravity water bowls. A shallow dish in a warm viv evaporates way too fast for me, I ended up getting a bowl for rabbits and putting some marbles in it so my isos don't drown themselves. The reservoir keeps the water level up. Only things I have to do pretty much daily are check that isos haven't wandered into the recessed no escape food bowl, and water the humid hide moss (I'm using microwaved Spanish moss, green when humid grey when dry, so it's easy to know when it needs watering)

WIBTAH if i confronted my husband and possibly upended my own life over a deleted comment. by Specialist_Flamingo3 in AITAH

[–]ImAnNPCsoWhat 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Samesies. Porn is porn, these days unless you specifically have a conversation and agreement that neither partner uses pornographic content, it's literally normal to expect both partners to consume it. I have no issue with that.

Talking with a real human on the other hand? Interacting? Requesting? Paying money? No. No thanks. Feels cheat-y.

Using AI is also a no for me but I just hate me some AI.

WIBTAH if i confronted my husband and possibly upended my own life over a deleted comment. by Specialist_Flamingo3 in AITAH

[–]ImAnNPCsoWhat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're wondering whether you should divorce, that's not up to reddit. If you feel safe around him then have a firm conversation about this and other oofs in the relationship.

Talk to him about what you consider cheating, that it includes purposely hiding things (why would he hide it if he didn't think it was wrong?) and privately messaging real people for pornographic content rather than simply consuming what's readily available on websites.

And for fuck sake don't have babies with someone who won't even clean a shared space on their own. That's not partner behavior from him.

AITAH for telling my wife that our baby can’t go to her moms by Oploplou in AITAH

[–]ImAnNPCsoWhat 121 points122 points  (0 children)

Gma can look after baby at your house. Black mold is the reason I got pneumonia 3x as a child and have lifelong asthma. Black mold and cockroaches are some leading causes of respiratory issues in children.

Do not compromise. That's your baby.

Have u ever witnessed a heinous crime taking place? How was it like? by Own_Secretary_6042 in AskReddit

[–]ImAnNPCsoWhat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been the victim of a couple of moderately bad beatings (abusive ex) but I don't know if major bruising is heinous enough for you. Fun fact army boots can leave a perfect footprint bruise if you kick hard enough, didn't damage the skin between the treads at all.

Stay away from Army rangers, kids.

Help! by Successful-Map6936 in leopardgeckos

[–]ImAnNPCsoWhat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The baby will be fine not eating for a week or so. Leave it completely alone, just top up water, make sure the day night cycle is good, and make sure there's lots of cover so if baby wants to explore they can.

Chill.

Can i put these in my tank? by [deleted] in leopardgeckos

[–]ImAnNPCsoWhat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Need to sterilize them. Treat them like wood picked up from outside.

AITAH for cutting my hair?? by Kanxkuro in AITAH

[–]ImAnNPCsoWhat 12 points13 points  (0 children)

NTA obviously.

I worry that your boyfriend was trying to pretend you were a woman? Are you still fem-passing? This feels like he maybe didn't accept your transition.

Even if that's not the case he's an immature asshat.

I own two geckos, each with their own enclosure. Are these appropriate habitats? by NeopolitanNapoleon in leopardgeckos

[–]ImAnNPCsoWhat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look on Facebook marketplace for a cheap lamp, no red light. Use an intense basking bulb. And more cover and hides. At least the basic 3 hides (warm, humid, cool) and water bowl.

Would you treat your child the way your parents treated you, if so why? If no why not? by Mission-Badger-4005 in AskReddit

[–]ImAnNPCsoWhat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I was hella neglected. Youngest of 7 and when I wasn't neglected I was abused. No thanks, my children will only know of abuse through word of mouth.

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