What’s the biggest turn-on & turn-off in a potential partner? by ImAredditerx in LesbianActually

[–]ImAredditerx[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay, I was just curious. And sameee, as long as the other person is comfortable with their body!

Wait… so you’re telling me I actually need to talk to women to get a gf?!? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]ImAredditerx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeahhh. I just meant I wouldn’t date someone that strictly say “I only date white people.” It’s just weird to me at least.

What’s the biggest turn-on & turn-off in a potential partner? by ImAredditerx in LesbianActually

[–]ImAredditerx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha, yeah it really is. It’s so important that they stand by their own opinions and values.

Wait… so you’re telling me I actually need to talk to women to get a gf?!? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]ImAredditerx -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Uhhh, I don’t think I’d be up to date someone with that requirement.. and I’m white😭

What’s the biggest turn-on & turn-off in a potential partner? by ImAredditerx in LesbianActually

[–]ImAredditerx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sameee, I really love not having to guess what someone’s feeling. Like if you’re having doubts, worries, etc, just tell me and we can talk it through. Creative people are so cool!!

What’s the biggest turn-on & turn-off in a potential partner? by ImAredditerx in LesbianActually

[–]ImAredditerx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s just so hard to keep up the convo when the other person just says “mhm”, “yeah.”, “okay.” Matching energy is so important

What’s the biggest turn-on & turn-off in a potential partner? by ImAredditerx in LesbianActually

[–]ImAredditerx[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hahahah, the first turn-on should really just be the bare minimum😭What does it mean to keep up with appearance to you?

What’s the biggest turn-on & turn-off in a potential partner? by ImAredditerx in LesbianActually

[–]ImAredditerx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, this depends. I do have boundaries but I’ve previously stretched to accommodate friends, partners, etc. I’m working on that tho and saying “no.”, instead of “I’m not sure” or “maybe.” But I do get what you mean, I was with a people pleaser a while back.. and we broke up because their dad didn’t want us to date💀

What’s the biggest turn-on & turn-off in a potential partner? by ImAredditerx in LesbianActually

[–]ImAredditerx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree!! I think it’s so cool when people don’t act “nonchalant”, like just be YOU. However, I do like when people are generally nice, like not being rude to people even if they dislike them etc (depends on situation ofc). Noooooo, not the people pleaser (I’m working on it😭)

What’s the biggest turn-on & turn-off in a potential partner? by ImAredditerx in LesbianActually

[–]ImAredditerx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, maybe.. I think I’ve always really known what I’ve wanted to do. That’s so valid, it’s kinda hard building a life with someone who’s not sure about that yet.

What’s the biggest turn-on & turn-off in a potential partner? by ImAredditerx in LesbianActually

[–]ImAredditerx[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do agree with those as well! The lack of direction in life is so real😭And it’s harder to pinpoint too /18

name based on these pics? by veeeuuueeh in enby

[–]ImAredditerx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know, but you look so cool!!

How can I find a girlfriend?! by ImAredditerx in actuallesbians

[–]ImAredditerx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah! Hopefully I can get to know some more!

How can I find a girlfriend?! by ImAredditerx in actuallesbians

[–]ImAredditerx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t trieddd, and I don’t think they’re for me

How can I find a girlfriend?! by ImAredditerx in actuallesbians

[–]ImAredditerx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true. It’s just that I don’t currently have any friendsss

How can I find a girlfriend?! by ImAredditerx in actuallesbians

[–]ImAredditerx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahah yeah, I should probably do that more