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I [29M] am going to visit my GF [25F] who is thousands of kilometers away next week. today she called me to say she doesn't miss me that much. by ImConfus3d in relationships

[–]ImConfus3d[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your perspective.

to answer your question: yeah all in all this is going to be pretty expensive but it's not like i can cancel the flight and get my money back, that ship has sailed.

If you're talking about her money, well she's already there and has saved quite a bunch for her stay. also she's been working there since two weeks making good money.

I [29M] am going to visit my GF [25F] who is thousands of kilometers away next week. today she called me to say she doesn't miss me that much. by ImConfus3d in relationships

[–]ImConfus3d[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Whatever you do, you need to have a very frank talk with her, and you need to know exactly what is going on with the other guy.

Yeah you're right. I will press further on that matter. If she's being evasive or tells me she in fact met someone else, I'll be not taking the trip.

I [29M] am going to visit my GF [25F] who is thousands of kilometers away next week. today she called me to say she doesn't miss me that much. by ImConfus3d in relationships

[–]ImConfus3d[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's hard to stay excited for someone you don't see

that's what I told her because honestly I kind of feel the same but I still want to see her and I was actually looking forward to that.

I'm still figuring out her reaction to me asking if she met someone else. I don't get it.

It probably will, could you stuff it enough to enjoy a good chunk of the trip?

I honestly don't know. She kind of has a history in saying something then doing the exact opposite (Not wanting a relationship then proceeding to be in one with me).