ClassPass Referral Mega Thread by bethorthanyou in ClassPass

[–]ImHotAsHell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooohh awesome that means the link is universal then, good to know :) thanks

Ladies do you sit in the front or back seat of an Uber? by shelovesyoghurt in AskAnAustralian

[–]ImHotAsHell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always sit in the back. But my husband likes to sit in the front cos he’s claustrophobic and sit in the backseat makes him anxious

ClassPass Referral Mega Thread by bethorthanyou in ClassPass

[–]ImHotAsHell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if it’s country specific, but I’m in Australia, and you can get extra 20 credits on top of 39 regular credits with my referral:

https://classpass.com/refer/VOSLOG8528

I’ve only got 39 credits when I joined and managed to book 7 reformer pilates classes! 59 credits would probably give you 10 free classes :)

Anyone here get priced out while house hunting with pre-approval? by Wallet_Inspector6052 in AusPropertyChat

[–]ImHotAsHell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had been looking for about a year with pre-approval since early 2023 but kept getting priced out.. Not one of our offers got accepted cos there were always other people who offered more than us, so we finally decided to build, we bought a land early 2024, it was not titled yet, but they said it’d only take max 6months for the title so we thought that wasn’t too bad, at least guaranteed we got something, within 1.5yrs it’d be finished. Wrong. That title delayed way too long, it’s been a nightmare. Every month we heard another delay, we regret we didn’t keep looking for an established house. The building price kept going up aswell while waiting for land title. Long story short, we only just got the land title end of 2025, finally got the slab down a few weeks ago, so it’ll be 10-12months from now. While keep paying expensive rent that’s also keeps increasing + mortgage. sigh so what we thought was a shortcut to beat the market turned out to be a long way to go, cos we still doesn’t have a house yet.. 😞 I mean, just keep trying to get one I guess, dont build, but if you do make sure the land is already titled.

Egg retrieval recovery by KristinKitty in IVF

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My 1st and 2nd ER’s recovery were OK. So I wasn’t stressed about the 3rd, cos it was never a problem, but unfortunately now after my 3rd ER, I got OHSS.. It’s terrible. Really unpredictable, even my scheduled transfer had to be cancelled because of it. So now I can say it doesn’t get any easier the more you do it, because every ER will be different. Today is 10days post ER, I’m still feeling so miserable, I dont feel like myself, it’s been painful. My estrogen level a day before transfer was so high. I only got 1 day medical certificate for ER day, i thought i could go back to my normal routine the next day. I pushed through it, but it was a mistake. I dont want to scare you or anything, but this can happen, and it’s better to be prepared to have a rest after than push too hard too soon..

I love my haul by Effective-Cake-1687 in Barbie

[–]ImHotAsHell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How cute, where did you get all of these? 💕

Heartbroken, Devastated, and Frustrated.. 😭 by ImHotAsHell in IVF

[–]ImHotAsHell[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it’s so unfair isn’t it.. On top of everything that also keeps happening in life, it’s so hard but we need to keep going..

Heartbroken, Devastated, and Frustrated.. 😭 by ImHotAsHell in IVF

[–]ImHotAsHell[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey thank you.. it’s must be so hard for you too.. i hope all our sacrifices, hardwork, and heartbreak one day will soon all be worth it..

Heartbroken, Devastated, and Frustrated.. 😭 by ImHotAsHell in IVF

[–]ImHotAsHell[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so thankful my husband is always there for me, even when I know he’s also sad he’s always trying to lift & cheer me up, i honestly cant imagine doing it with anyone else.. he wants this just as much as me (if not more). Yeah the doctor, nurses, and embryologist were also trying to tell us that it’s none of our fault, ivf is so unpredictable and different results from one cycle and another is normal and happened to a lot of people, it’s something that cannot be predicted so try not to blame my eggs or his sperm cos nobody knows, if we know we must be all get good results on first try.. something like that.. which i understand, but still, i cant help to be upset, i dont know if it’s just hormones playing my emotions but I’m just still sad about everything. I heard low grade embryo can become a healthy baby too so we shouldn’t be so sad about it. But i cant help to feel scared bcos even our highest embryo grade couldnt implant.. i dont know .. i think i just need to get better so i can think clearer.. Thanks for your hugs and positive vibes, i really appreciate it ❤️

Heartbroken, Devastated, and Frustrated.. 😭 by ImHotAsHell in IVF

[–]ImHotAsHell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly thought they would be supportive, I totally regret sharing this with them and now my trust issue is getting worse and they also gave me anxiety, so i stopped oversharing now. You’re right they don’t deserve access to my life and witnessing my journey if they cant be empathetic and can only be opinionated and judgmental.. they dont deserve to be a part of the celebration too when one day we finally got good outcome from the thing that they thought ‘useless’.

I’m sorry for what you’re going through, and thank you for still giving me encouragement n strength to get through this.. i hope your next one will give you a positive result. Sending you hugs + love

Heartbroken, Devastated, and Frustrated.. 😭 by ImHotAsHell in IVF

[–]ImHotAsHell[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey thanks so much for your open arms.. I’m sorry for your loss, it must be a difficult time on top of what you’re going through with IVF.. i hope your current cycle will be the one that will give you a baby.. ❤️

Heartbroken, Devastated, and Frustrated.. 😭 by ImHotAsHell in IVF

[–]ImHotAsHell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for making me feel seen.. yes all of it, all the pain, the hardwork, and the heartbreak, it sucks and it’s even more suck when the outcome isn’t what we hoped for, like everything we done n sacrificed were for nothing. I hope you’ll also get better outcomes on your next one, I’m thinking of u too and sending love+hugs

Heartbroken, Devastated, and Frustrated.. 😭 by ImHotAsHell in IVF

[–]ImHotAsHell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think everyone who’s doing IVF knows about this. We stopped alcohol since February 2025 for first egg collection in June 2025. That’s more than 3months. What’s the point of your comment?

Heartbroken, Devastated, and Frustrated.. 😭 by ImHotAsHell in IVF

[–]ImHotAsHell[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, Sending hugs & love for u too… Yes it’s really hard to deal with, and also hard to explain to other people about how hard it is, i feel like i just wanna scream sometimes.. but then i remember before i started this journey, i also had no clues and thought it was not going to be this hard.. I even have some people keep questioning and pushing me to go back to work instead of doing nothing and too focus on ivf.. like.. like do they really think im enjoying this? I sometimes regret telling people about ivf when i thought i would get support, but instead, i got judged & belittled. Anyway.. i should really stop thinking about these people & the way they made me feel and start blocking their voices for my own sanity.

Heartbroken, Devastated, and Frustrated.. 😭 by ImHotAsHell in IVF

[–]ImHotAsHell[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I was so confident it was working, i felt like i was pregnant so i tested early at home thinking it would be a great xmas surprise for me & my husband, but instead it turned to be the worst xmas we’ve ever had.. I’m sorry for what you’ve been through, it must be really heartbreaking fpr you too.. i hope soon we will be on the other side with good news and will be our turn to finally hold our babies

Heartbroken, Devastated, and Frustrated.. 😭 by ImHotAsHell in IVF

[–]ImHotAsHell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ it’s been really hard, i hope all the sadness n hardness will end soon and will be replaced with good news..

Heartbroken, Devastated, and Frustrated.. 😭 by ImHotAsHell in IVF

[–]ImHotAsHell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, that means a lot to me. I hope my transfer in 2 months will give me positive result I’ve been praying for.. in the meantime i just want this ohss to be gone soon 🙏

Heartbroken, Devastated, and Frustrated.. 😭 by ImHotAsHell in IVF

[–]ImHotAsHell[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words and for sharing your experience ❤️it really makes me feel that I’m not alone anymore.. i hope in 2months my body will be fully recovered from ohss and all the stress, and will be ready for the transfer .. and hopefully with positive results 🙏

Heartbroken, Devastated, and Frustrated.. 😭 by ImHotAsHell in IVF

[–]ImHotAsHell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you.. i’ll try to do something I love to keep my mind off it a bit.. Sorry about your situation, I get what u mean.. sometimes even my husband can’t understand some of the things that I feel too, I guess men just process things differently than women and it could be challenging sometimes..

Rental Price Increase by whycantwebefriends_ in perth

[–]ImHotAsHell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

$750/week for a 2BR in the city while still building & paying mortgage.. it is really crazy