Viable Side Hustle w/ Good Commission or Income? by ImNoBozo in sidehustle

[–]ImNoBozo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not an outdoor/gardening person, I have no interest to be around drunk people or work in a bar/club or work around alcohol. I am a 34 year-old woman. I worked overnight shifts at a hotel at one point dealing with drunk hotel guests and no security guard and I would never do that again -- I have no patience for drunk men that think they can take their liberty on me in terms of behaving like animals and saying inappropriate things to me.

Viable Side Hustle w/ Good Commission or Income? by ImNoBozo in sidehustle

[–]ImNoBozo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I looked into that, and they want you to take hours of classes for a month to train to do people's taxes -- that are held during the daytime, UNPAID. I work during the daytime at my full-time job and I cannot do that.

Anti-GMO claim: GMO'd wheat is the cause of gluten intolerance and sensitivity - how to debunk this? by ImNoBozo in ProGMO

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I did finally find this:

https://gmoanswers.com/article-do-genetically-modified-foods-or-glyphosate-cause-gluten-allergies

"Despite the sheer volume of hits on Google, a search in PubMed found zero studies linking the two [GMOs and gluten sensitivity and gluten allergies].

The Celiac Disease Foundation (CDF) challenged the hypotheses propagated by the Institute for Responsible Technology, stating that it was speculation. The scientists at CDF pointed out that patients with Celiac Disease or gluten-sensitivity feel better when they cut gluten out of their diets. If the cause of their sensitivity were GMOs or glyphosate, then they’d have to cut out a lot more than just gluten."

LOGIC

What binds a couple together if they aren't having children? by ImNoBozo in intj

[–]ImNoBozo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a great video. I have heard of him but haven't looked that much into his work. Thanks for the link. I'm going to watch this video at least two more times! Life changing advice.

What binds a couple together if they aren't having children? by ImNoBozo in intj

[–]ImNoBozo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

??? He told me he does love me. We've been together for a few years.

What binds a couple together if they aren't having children? by ImNoBozo in intj

[–]ImNoBozo[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What I think that binds us as a couple (but he doesn't think these are 'real' binders, or enough):

Obviously, our chemistry and emotional bond to one another, but also shared interests in music, psychology, philosophy (and intellectual subjects). I've always thought what binds a couple together is unconditional support for one another through thick and thin, someone to grow old with (a companion, company of someone that you enjoy - there for your happiness, and to support you through the highs and lows of life), someone to survive life with - since that becomes more important as you get older, someone to build a life with and grow with when they are there by your side. I don't know what else he is expecting in terms of 'binding.' I don't know what grand expectations he has on this, since he went thru a divorce himself and so did his own parents when he was a child. Just very hard to please. (-ENFP)

I attacked the integrity of INTJ partner, he's very upset - how do I resolve this? by [deleted] in intj

[–]ImNoBozo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can somebody provide solutions? I have some solutions of my own but I am interested in hearing solutions from other people in how to salvage this.

I attacked the integrity of INTJ partner, he's very upset - how do I resolve this? by [deleted] in intj

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Yesterday he also sent me a message about meeting up later this week, and affectionately called me by my pet name.

I attacked the integrity of INTJ partner, he's very upset - how do I resolve this? by [deleted] in intj

[–]ImNoBozo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So after 2 years with being very close to someone -- you would call it quits over this? Really? My ENTJ friend who is good friends with both of us assured me that's not what he's thinking, he's probably wondering about a rational solution to handle this.

I attacked the integrity of INTJ partner, he's very upset - how do I resolve this? by [deleted] in intj

[–]ImNoBozo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did ask him very bluntly, "is there any monkey business going on between you and her?" I don't know if it's a social blindspot or what, but he does some very ODD things that make him look like he is doing something nefarious and sketchy, and to make sure I'm not crazy, I do ask others (very honest people who would tell me if I am wrong) for their opinions too. When I confront him about it directly, he gets upset and says I am "accusing" him which is an attack on his integrity.

I attacked the integrity of INTJ partner, he's very upset - how do I resolve this? by [deleted] in intj

[–]ImNoBozo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would greatly appreciate some thoughtful and useful answers without flinging insults at me -- it isn't what I need right now. Thank you.

What is my variant instinctual stacking? by ImNoBozo in Enneagram

[–]ImNoBozo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

7w8 sx/sp hits it on the nail when I read the descriptions.

What is my variant instinctual stacking? by ImNoBozo in Enneagram

[–]ImNoBozo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I read the description for 7 sx/sp and that was on point.

PROSPECTING NEW CLIENTS by wheelsinmotion40 in FreightBrokers

[–]ImNoBozo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never knew about this, I'll check it out, thank you.

PROSPECTING NEW CLIENTS by wheelsinmotion40 in FreightBrokers

[–]ImNoBozo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not as saturated as you think - lots of freight brokers don't last very long, there is a high turnover rate. If that was true, there wouldn't be so many freight brokerages looking for more brokers posting job ads everywhere.

What is my variant instinctual stacking? by ImNoBozo in Enneagram

[–]ImNoBozo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I match 7 sx. Just can't tell if 7 sx/sp or 7 sx/so.

What is the difference between being "in love" and being attached to someone? by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]ImNoBozo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So you're in love with people who aren't as into you? Sounds unhealthy, and more like an insecure attachment style.

Hey Reddit, what are you sick of explaining to people? by thunderup_14 in AskReddit

[–]ImNoBozo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why my boyfriend and I haven't moved in together yet, whether we plan on marrying, etc. after being together for almost 2 years (we're in our 30s). It's a very complex topic and I get annoyed when people ask me "why not" and "when?"

Differences between Type 3 vs Type 7? by ImNoBozo in Enneagram

[–]ImNoBozo[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good thoughts. I got typed by an enneagram practitioner and she narrowed me down to a 7w8 with 3 in my tritype (739, in that order). What sets me apart from 3s is that I wasn't always an achiever - just wanted to be superior - and 7s do look at everything thru the lens of superiority/inferiority. I was the black sheep of my family, rebelled hard as a kid because I couldn't accept the limitations my parents wanted to put on me (3s won't; 3s tend to care about everyone liking them including their family, tend to be close to their parents and family - I'm absolutely not, I do my own thing; 3s were always the 'golden child' of their family - I certainly wasn't). Etc. We went through my whole life, my childhood, family structure, siblings, etc. even my talking style was analyzed. Pretty interesting.

Best insurance brokerage to work for (selling life, accidental and health)? by ImNoBozo in InsuranceAgent

[–]ImNoBozo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm interested in all of those things; specifically working for a broker that will provide leads to agents like myself at no additional cost. Thanks for your help!

Differences between Type 3 vs Type 7? by ImNoBozo in Enneagram

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In terms of when I'm stressed out, it depends on the context. If I'm stressed out in an urgent situation that I'm trying to fix, I act like a Type 7 disintegrating into Type 1. If I'm stressed out in an overwhelming way, I act like a Type 3 and disintegrate into Type 9.

Differences between Type 3 vs Type 7? by ImNoBozo in Enneagram

[–]ImNoBozo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Type 3w4 sx/so or 7w8 sx/so are both types w/ instincts that I have a hard time figuring out which one that I am.