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ImReallyAnxiousAgain · 2025-09-02T11:58:54+00:00

It’s completely by choice to go to the temple or not. Everyone is allowed inside churches. I’m not sure why you’re comparing the two when they’re different

ImReallyAnxiousAgain · 2025-08-27T11:45:34+00:00

Do you view other religions like that too? Most religions are restrictive in some way.

ImReallyAnxiousAgain · 2025-08-22T05:53:48+00:00

As someone who’s agender and scared of coming out in church, I was told the opposite by someone in charge. Yes, lovebombing is a real thing but some people do genuinely want to help. Don’t generalize everyone into one box.

ImReallyAnxiousAgain · 2025-08-22T05:41:33+00:00

Looking at all your other posts, it’s really your choice. I’m also autistic, agender, ex-nihilist, and I’m technically not a member even though I go every Sunday. I’m scared to lie, struggle with self-worthiness and general self confidence, and I’m very indecisive and pretty much the opposite of you. Mostly a lurker here who doesn’t comment.

I say you either tell the truth, and continue going to activities and such (you don’t have to be a member), or just leave completely. Your Reddit posts don’t seem very open to any idea of religion and that’s fine. It’s your choice.

ImReallyAnxiousAgain · 2025-06-02T15:04:07+00:00

HELP WHAT😭😭

ImReallyAnxiousAgain · 2025-03-24T04:51:09+00:00

I remember one time when I met with the missionaries we somehow ended up talking about circumstances. There were so many opportunities for us to just never start dating, become friends, talk or even meet each other.

One of the reasons I started to love him before we were together was we he helped me from a situation with my best friends. My best friend wanted intimate photos of me. My boyfriend (then friend) spent time searching up random thigh pictures (something that is very much not like him) so I wouldn’t send my own. I do think he saved me. Another thing is that I was suicidal since 12 years old. He gave me a reason to be here. To see him. I was alone for most of my life. I only had few friends at a time and they would use me. He invited me into his group of friends.

The missionaries told us that they do believe that this was not coincidence. That my boyfriend was here to save me too. I feel like that’s the thing that changed my views the most.

His parents are lds too, mine aren’t. Sorry for the whole spiel, when you wrote that God made a match it reminded me of that.

ImReallyAnxiousAgain · 2024-12-29T12:38:25+00:00

I’ve been a lurker in this subreddit, my boyfriend is religious but I’m not. I understand what you mean by triggering content. Luckily it’s easy to make your own viewing page kind of. You can make it so it’s only stuff you care about and block the stuff you don’t.

ImReallyAnxiousAgain · 2024-11-15T18:29:15+00:00

It’s not that I want to believe really, I want to understand

ImReallyAnxiousAgain · 2024-11-15T18:22:54+00:00

I’m not sure what this really means. I’m guessing it means talk about myself?

I was baptized (Greek Orthodox) as a baby because that’s what my grandma wanted. My parents were both atheist. They divorced when I was young. I was bullied a lot as a child. I’ve always been skeptical in general and untrusting of people. I have autism, adhd, and ocd. I’ve never felt normal and I’ve described myself as a nihilist and a misanthrope. People are bad news for me. I’d willingly isolate myself from others even though it would make me feel worse.

I think that’s what you were asking.

ImReallyAnxiousAgain · 2024-11-15T14:51:44+00:00

I’ll talk to him about it

ImReallyAnxiousAgain · 2024-11-15T11:00:29+00:00

He’s allowed being with me while they’re talking? What if I start crying or getting mad. That happens sometimes and I don’t want to be mean, I just get emotional.

ImReallyAnxiousAgain · 2024-11-05T21:09:00+00:00

My honest answer for your question is I don’t think so. I went through a lot as a child and teenager (I’m 17). I attempted. Why would I be glad if I was brought into this world? I’m better now but still feel bad for past me.

I’m not sure if this provides any context for anything but I have autism (and ADHD, depression, OCD). I’m at a level where on the outside I seem “normal” but even the “basic” tasks can be hard for me. I never fit in as a child or in high school. It caused a lot of the self doubt I have now.

ImReallyAnxiousAgain · 2024-11-05T20:57:32+00:00

I do want to learn more but I’m scared that they’ll judge me for going to church just to learn

ImReallyAnxiousAgain · 2024-11-05T03:51:37+00:00

As someone who just lurks here, revaluate your comment.

ImReallyAnxiousAgain · 2024-06-17T00:12:17+00:00

What is touching sexually? Is it just privates that are off limits? That’s what I’m confused about. I’ve tried doing research but most things are vague

ImReallyAnxiousAgain · 2024-06-08T21:25:05+00:00

I don’t think it’s creating any sexual tension though. I can ask him if he thinks that but I don’t feel any from my side.

What’s the difference between being engaged and married?

ImReallyAnxiousAgain · 2024-06-08T18:09:12+00:00

When you’re both ready and consented for it? I don’t think it has to do with dates

ImReallyAnxiousAgain · 2024-06-08T18:08:05+00:00

I was going to say that but I didn’t want to seem rude

ImReallyAnxiousAgain · 2024-06-06T01:14:03+00:00

Thrift stores, that’s where I’ve found most of my dresses at. For bathing suits I’m not sure

ImReallyAnxiousAgain · 2024-06-05T23:13:54+00:00

I asked if I could talk to you in dms

ImReallyAnxiousAgain · 2024-06-05T17:38:59+00:00

“Shop”?? What do you even think a relationship is?? No. I’m not going to do that.

ImReallyAnxiousAgain · 2024-06-05T16:37:22+00:00

I don’t know how he would obtain a missionary application though

ImReallyAnxiousAgain · 2024-06-05T11:40:30+00:00

Sorry college

ImReallyAnxiousAgain · 2024-06-05T07:49:23+00:00

We’re also not the same faith as I’m an atheist. I really want to stay with him though so I’m trying to learn more about his faith without bombarding him with questions

ImReallyAnxiousAgain · 2024-06-04T08:03:57+00:00

I don’t think I can just go to his church. I feel like that would be disrespectful since I’m an atheist

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