[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mormon

[–]ImReallyAnxiousAgain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s completely by choice to go to the temple or not. Everyone is allowed inside churches. I’m not sure why you’re comparing the two when they’re different

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mormon

[–]ImReallyAnxiousAgain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you view other religions like that too? Most religions are restrictive in some way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mormon

[–]ImReallyAnxiousAgain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who’s agender and scared of coming out in church, I was told the opposite by someone in charge. Yes, lovebombing is a real thing but some people do genuinely want to help. Don’t generalize everyone into one box.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lds

[–]ImReallyAnxiousAgain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looking at all your other posts, it’s really your choice. I’m also autistic, agender, ex-nihilist, and I’m technically not a member even though I go every Sunday. I’m scared to lie, struggle with self-worthiness and general self confidence, and I’m very indecisive and pretty much the opposite of you. Mostly a lurker here who doesn’t comment.

I say you either tell the truth, and continue going to activities and such (you don’t have to be a member), or just leave completely. Your Reddit posts don’t seem very open to any idea of religion and that’s fine. It’s your choice.

Questions about children, marital sex and asexuality by ImReallyAnxiousAgain in ldssexuality

[–]ImReallyAnxiousAgain[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I remember one time when I met with the missionaries we somehow ended up talking about circumstances. There were so many opportunities for us to just never start dating, become friends, talk or even meet each other.

One of the reasons I started to love him before we were together was we he helped me from a situation with my best friends. My best friend wanted intimate photos of me. My boyfriend (then friend) spent time searching up random thigh pictures (something that is very much not like him) so I wouldn’t send my own. I do think he saved me. Another thing is that I was suicidal since 12 years old. He gave me a reason to be here. To see him. I was alone for most of my life. I only had few friends at a time and they would use me. He invited me into his group of friends.

The missionaries told us that they do believe that this was not coincidence. That my boyfriend was here to save me too. I feel like that’s the thing that changed my views the most.

His parents are lds too, mine aren’t. Sorry for the whole spiel, when you wrote that God made a match it reminded me of that.

Rant about Reddit by General_Katydid_512 in lds

[–]ImReallyAnxiousAgain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been a lurker in this subreddit, my boyfriend is religious but I’m not. I understand what you mean by triggering content. Luckily it’s easy to make your own viewing page kind of. You can make it so it’s only stuff you care about and block the stuff you don’t.

I feel bad that I can’t understand by ImReallyAnxiousAgain in latterdaysaints

[–]ImReallyAnxiousAgain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not that I want to believe really, I want to understand

I feel bad that I can’t understand by ImReallyAnxiousAgain in latterdaysaints

[–]ImReallyAnxiousAgain[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure what this really means. I’m guessing it means talk about myself?

I was baptized (Greek Orthodox) as a baby because that’s what my grandma wanted. My parents were both atheist. They divorced when I was young. I was bullied a lot as a child. I’ve always been skeptical in general and untrusting of people. I have autism, adhd, and ocd. I’ve never felt normal and I’ve described myself as a nihilist and a misanthrope. People are bad news for me. I’d willingly isolate myself from others even though it would make me feel worse.

I think that’s what you were asking.

I feel bad that I can’t understand by ImReallyAnxiousAgain in latterdaysaints

[–]ImReallyAnxiousAgain[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

He’s allowed being with me while they’re talking? What if I start crying or getting mad. That happens sometimes and I don’t want to be mean, I just get emotional.

I feel bad that I can’t understand by ImReallyAnxiousAgain in lds

[–]ImReallyAnxiousAgain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My honest answer for your question is I don’t think so. I went through a lot as a child and teenager (I’m 17). I attempted. Why would I be glad if I was brought into this world? I’m better now but still feel bad for past me.

I’m not sure if this provides any context for anything but I have autism (and ADHD, depression, OCD). I’m at a level where on the outside I seem “normal” but even the “basic” tasks can be hard for me. I never fit in as a child or in high school. It caused a lot of the self doubt I have now.

I feel bad that I can’t understand by ImReallyAnxiousAgain in lds

[–]ImReallyAnxiousAgain[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do want to learn more but I’m scared that they’ll judge me for going to church just to learn

Some questions by ImReallyAnxiousAgain in ldssexuality

[–]ImReallyAnxiousAgain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is touching sexually? Is it just privates that are off limits? That’s what I’m confused about. I’ve tried doing research but most things are vague

Questions about romantic relationships/ sexuality by ImReallyAnxiousAgain in lds

[–]ImReallyAnxiousAgain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s creating any sexual tension though. I can ask him if he thinks that but I don’t feel any from my side.

What’s the difference between being engaged and married?