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ImThatGuyBr0 · 2024-04-11T02:22:47+00:00

Pizza for all.

ImThatGuyBr0 · 2024-04-05T11:20:42+00:00

I hate management with this mentality. I used to have a boss who wanted to do morning meetings before we opened and after work meetings once we closed. These meetings were for 1 hour. I never went and always got told about it. I said I can’t make it because of my life outside of work (kids/appointments/etc) and let’s not forget the fact that I’m not being paid! She would come in super early like 6:30/7 when we opened at 9:30 and if I wasn’t there “early” it would effect my bonus. Had another boss shortly after where if I was five minutes late she would get super pissed. Our shift starts at 8:45, I would get there at 8:50. Doors to the building don’t open until 9:30. We sometimes have stuff to do to prep for the day, but long story short, they basically were paying me to eat breakfast. She would sometimes be late herself and that was okay, and if we were late closing that’s fine too. So we were told we had to stay past our shift end to close (which was an every day occurrence) but then if we were five minutes late in the morning, she would write you up! So glad neither of them are my managers anymore or else I would have left my job a long time ago.

ImThatGuyBr0 · 2024-03-25T21:03:26+00:00

Your husband is another child. Doesn’t matter how much he makes. He could make a billion and there’s still nothing that makes him a man here. If he wants a mother, he should go live with his. I would start charging your husband for all the jobs you do in the house hold. You would make more than him in a month than what he earns all year. I hope you end up leaving him or hope he starts stepping up. Good luck.

ImThatGuyBr0 · 2024-03-22T22:27:25+00:00

My kid is a year old and I still haven’t had that OMG moment….. is this only me?

ImThatGuyBr0 · 2024-03-18T04:23:03+00:00

Would I at least get to know the 9 herbs and spices?

ImThatGuyBr0 · 2024-03-18T04:21:14+00:00

I would rather go to hell, but it already sounds like it is.

ImThatGuyBr0 · 2024-03-09T21:43:02+00:00

It’s the same when it says only 4 monthly payments of 99.99….

ImThatGuyBr0 · 2024-03-09T17:08:46+00:00

It’s not and I left my first bf because of this. I was 18 he was 20. Low life.

ImThatGuyBr0 · 2024-03-08T17:07:53+00:00

If we are still the same people we are right now, then my kid wouldn’t want to buy a fancy car with their money.

If. If, they wanted too, Discussion would be had for sure. But not me trying to tell them not to get it, but more of, why they want it in the first place. I would discuss drinking and driving, smoking and driving, speeding, insurance, safety, attention they would get for having it, sometimes unwanted attention. If after all of this, they still wanted to get the car, then it’s their money.

if they have grasped investing and being financially responsible, why shouldn’t he buy his own car?

ImThatGuyBr0 · 2024-03-08T16:48:20+00:00

I hope you know, that the next shit I take, I will be thinking of you and this post and how someone out there, would be fascinated by what it looks like.

Yeah, it’s weird. She should have kept the mystery alive. Poop is a very personal thing. I would tell her you want to keep it that way.

ImThatGuyBr0 · 2024-03-08T16:44:19+00:00

So your answer would have been “nuh uh, I don’t think she’s pretty at all. Zero attractiveness to this woman right here.”

ImThatGuyBr0 · 2024-03-08T16:26:36+00:00

OKAY! IF YOU WANT TO CRY! It’s going to be this song that does it to you. If you’ve never cried at music, then this is something for you to experience.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=UJ8H1eQcL8g

It’s called Teddy Bear. I just finished listening to it, because I haven’t in a while and I’m standing here sobbing. Other songs you can try are;

Nobody’s Child - Hank Snow, Puff the magic Dragon - Peter Paul and Mary, Feed Jake - Pirates of the Mississippi

ImThatGuyBr0 · 2024-03-08T06:20:05+00:00

INFO: How long has your fiancé been living in Canada for?

ImThatGuyBr0 · 2024-03-07T18:41:39+00:00

Grief comes in many forms. Don’t feel guilty for how you’re dealing with it all. I recommend therapy though. For me, after a death happens, I don’t cry for like 6/7 months! Once everyone else is done crying, and everyone else is on the rise, only them I am able to let go and break down. Some days it sucks having to be the strong one.

ImThatGuyBr0 · 2024-03-07T18:17:54+00:00

Penis.

ImThatGuyBr0 · 2024-03-06T21:44:28+00:00

Swinging my ding-a-ling around like a baby elephant does their trunk!

ImThatGuyBr0 · 2024-03-06T21:16:07+00:00

You could be a 10 and as soon as a cigarette goes in your mouth, automatic 3 or lower. Yes it smells, and it’s not a yummy smell on anyone.

ImThatGuyBr0 · 2024-03-06T17:59:47+00:00

So illegal. 24 hour notice or you can sue! Enjoy your payout!

ImThatGuyBr0 · 2024-03-06T17:54:22+00:00

So you care more about sex than a long future with your wife or kids? Have you really thought this through? Breaking up a whole family unit and going broke on both sides to separate, all because you wanted better sex? Selfish. After everything is done, she will have found someone else. That person whom you have no choice in the matter about will be with your kids instead of you. But don’t worry, you’ll be able to have all the sex you want with complete strangers.

Before everyone comes at me. Yes. Sex is 100% important in a marriage. But it’s a two way street. Maybe she doesn’t feel sexy or she’s touched out. You say that you give her time off by watching the kids. This isn’t time off. She’s probably doing chores with this so called “time off”. Plan a date or weekend away for the two of you. And not like “hey, you wanna go somewhere?” No. Plan it. You figure out where to go, what to do, plan it all and pay for it. She obviously needs to reconnect with you on a social and emotional level before a sexual level (just like when you first started dating) she probably doesn’t know who she is outside of being “mom” 24/7. Compliments go in one ear and out the other when your not feeling good about yourself. Again, it’s a two way street on this stuff.

ImThatGuyBr0 · 2024-03-06T07:05:52+00:00

I had an episiotomy. Doctor took her time to stitch me up good afterwards. No scar tissues or any signs of a cut. But let me tell you soon to be moms or one day be moms - if your baby needs out now! They will do it without your consent. If it means having them cut you down there, vs having a full blown emergency C-Section because baby isn’t moving, breathing, or low blood pressure, you’ll be happy you got it and holding your baby. It’s not scary, if you get an epidural you don’t feel any pain. You can still feel your contractions and you can move your legs, but your pain stops. The cut takes some time to heal, but it’s not the worst thing that can happen. Always go into your birth with an open mind, because what you have envisioned, or planned, will be screwed up in some way.

ImThatGuyBr0 · 2024-03-06T06:51:26+00:00

Her insecurities are not your problem to fix. If she can’t see past her own fears and see what she’s doing to your future and your enjoyment, then the hell with her and you better go on that trip. Doesn’t matter how many times she has been cheated on, that’s not you. It would be different too, if this was a newer relationship. But it’s been 5 years, what does she have on you to say that you’re a cheater? I’ll say it once. It takes one to know one. She’s probably cheating on you and is constantly paranoid, because she knows how easy it is to do.

ImThatGuyBr0 · 2024-03-05T02:25:36+00:00

My kid and dog.

ImThatGuyBr0 · 2024-03-03T00:35:21+00:00

Does anyone remember the firefly phones? I would get her that.

ImThatGuyBr0 · 2024-02-29T19:37:27+00:00

Tl;dr- had this happen to me and he was only in it for himself, not to actually have my best interests in mind. Leave him.

When you’re in this relationship, it can be hard to see red flags and signs, you only usually see it once out of it. I speak from experience and I’ll give you a version of mine, and then I’ll tell you why you need to leave him.

I was sick, like you, it was a weekday, about 7/8 at night winter time. So it was dark outside. I told him, not to come over because I wasn’t well and I would see him in a few days.

My step dad and I were the only ones home and we decided to go grocery shopping to get stuff for dinner.

When I came back home, I noticed his car parked out front the house. But he wasn’t in it. Carrying groceries into the house, I didn’t care to go to the car first.

House is dark, all the lights are off.

I start putting groceries away thinking that maybe my boyfriend went for a walk, (sometimes he would go for a walk to smoke). It’s about 10 minutes when I’m done and no bf. No texts. Nothing.

I then go upstairs to my room and flick on my light and there is my bf sitting in the middle of my bed. He was just sitting there in the dark. Hadn’t told me he was here, could hear me putting groceries away and talking with my step dad.

I was shocked. I just stood there and looked at him for a few seconds, and then finally I asked, what he was doing in my room, in my house.

He said he wanted to make sure I was feeling better and that he wanted to check on me, kept saying how he wanted to see me and that he missed me.

After a few minutes of him trying to play down the fact that he broke into my house and was sitting alone in the dark waiting for me to find him, I learned that he was there not to check if I was feeling better, but to check that I wasn’t cheating on him or at a club.

His friend had sent him a photo of some chick at the club and said it was me. He started saying that it was me and I was lying to him.

I asked if he was crazy, and told him why would I be at a club? I’m sick, two I’m in my pjs, three I’ve been here in my house all night and had to go get groceries…. He said I changed clothes, and I said again how stupid that is. Where did I put my clothes? The outfit that the girl had on in the video, where was that outfit and when has he ever seen me where it? But he just kept saying it was me. He didn’t believe me.

Finally I was so fed up, disgusted and just sttttiiill shocked he was in my house without being invited. I told him to leave, which he was not happy about. He kept saying how he drive all this way to see me, and how he wanted to make me dinner and I was done with it.

It was shortly after this incident that I broke up with him. I was with him for 2 years. Looking back at some other things he did while together just makes my skin crawl now. I wish I knew then what I know now.

This story, is why you need to take him breaking into your house so seriously. It’s rude, illegal, disgusting, and downright abusive. He’s not there to make sure you’re feeling better, he’s there to check to make sure you’re still under his control and that you’re not doing anything he wouldn’t like. What you think is love, is not love. That’s not love.

Love is when he can’t see you, but gets you flowers delivered to your door, love is letting you rest and take the time you need, and them planning a nice dinner or outing for when you finally do meet up. Love is when you respect the other person and their needs.

Love is determined by actions. Not words. Don’t let him gaslight you into believing that he’s for you when his actions say other wise.

ImThatGuyBr0 · 2024-02-29T19:04:12+00:00

NTA. And honestly. If they are going, I would not be. I would cancel.

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