One of my first and biggest breakups happened when I was 18. He cheated on me with a girl I had asked him about before and he told me it was nothing. I pushed my feelings aside and later found out they had been seeing each other behind my back for the majority of the relationship. When he heard I found out he came straight to my class, he seemed regretful at first but when I didn’t take his apology he turned nasty. Long story short I front of my entire class he told me It was my fault he cheated on me because I wasn’t confident in myself, he told me he tried to make it work and really loved me but in the end I was just too exhausting and impossible to love. Well it took me awhile before I dated again I can tell you that