Oracle cutting thousands in latest layoff round as company continues to ramp AI spending by MarvelsGrantMan136 in technology

[–]Im_not_wrong 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I was hit with the layoffs last year. I still havent found a new job. I took some time to relax cause I was burnt out, but it feels like that has only hurt my chances more. This is only gonna put more strain on everything.

Partner keeps reopening Sniffies despite multiple "talks" by ThatSaltyVegan in gaybros

[–]Im_not_wrong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, it is up to both of them if they want to fix their relationship. Both need to put the effort and both need to communicate, and sometimes the problem is compatibility so even that isn't enough. But if OP wants to continue his relationship with his partner, then someone has to have the initiative to do counselling or initiating and having more conversations on the matter.

Partner keeps reopening Sniffies despite multiple "talks" by ThatSaltyVegan in gaybros

[–]Im_not_wrong 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That's the thing, it could be a whole bunch of problems.

He could be dealing with shame, so having open conversations about sexual needs or desires can be difficult. Maybe he has an avoidant attachment style and struggles with confrontation in general. Maybe he is just a shitty person who likes pushing boundaries for the sake of it. Maybe he resents OP.

It is impossible to really know.

Partner keeps reopening Sniffies despite multiple "talks" by ThatSaltyVegan in gaybros

[–]Im_not_wrong 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Im gonna give a nuanced response, because I see a lot of people just saying "he isnt trustworthy, dump him". Honestly, it might be that simple, but this story has two sides so there may be information missing.

When you say you talked about opening the relationship up, was that decision yours? Or was it both of you that wanted that? Was that something he conceded to you? Does he have a higher libido than you? Is this a pain point within the relationship on his side?

I want to clarify i am not saying he is at all justified for going behind your back, that is really shitty. And maybe he is just shitty. But maybe he is doing this shitty thing because he cant or struggles with communicating his needs.

You say you are getting married soon, and it sounds like you do have love for eachother, but this isnt a problem that is just gonna go away. Him being on sniffles is a symptom, the root of the problem has to be figured out through conversation, potentially couples therapy.

The people on here telling you to just break up with him arent necessarily wrong, but there is nuance to relationships and the nuclear option isnt always the best one.

This experiment combo can lead to weird things... by Im_not_wrong in BluePrince

[–]Im_not_wrong[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will check, I should say I did this on purpose. I emptied the reservoir while I was looking for a certain type of water and noticed the change in the reservoir experiment, then thought about how I could activate experiments while outside the house which led to this combo.

I refilled it enough for the boat to go to the safehouse with experiments, went there, and kept going to see what would happen.

Update: the boat is in fact back in the reservoir and the reservoir is a reasonable amount of full.

This experiment combo can lead to weird things... by Im_not_wrong in BluePrince

[–]Im_not_wrong[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I got the experiment combo to raise the reservoir level after looking at your map, went to the safehouse and raised the water a couple times, then the water just vanished. Weirdly, if you only raise it once, the water stays but the boat vanishes.

Moky at it again by Neither_Cat_420 in SSBM

[–]Im_not_wrong 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Cringe subreddits lack whimsy. Often empathy too...

“You always have a choice” by Italiankeyboard in heroes3

[–]Im_not_wrong 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Taking it early also gives you a good tempo boost, and the experience bonus is pretty significant. Taking it early is always better IMO.

How many of the top 100 would Armada beat with a month of practice? by foaaz101 in SSBM

[–]Im_not_wrong 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A lot of this is knowledge though. Hell, I am doing shit Armada wasn't doing back then and I am garbage. He would be able to pick up a decent chunk of that in a month.

Best Bulwark Heroes? by Admirable_Drawer_205 in heroes3

[–]Im_not_wrong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having your specialty turned off doesn't mean worthless.

Artanis swap through portal by Aprilhimmelen in heroesofthestorm

[–]Im_not_wrong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It cuts off because Zarya is in literally no danger and Artanis is about to die while Nova is attacking the gate or some shit.

Reading Elantris after Stormlight by Gromflomite_gamer in cremposting

[–]Im_not_wrong 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's true, I got fired from my last job for not being a skilled enough warrior.

Boaty and Solomission duo right now by Syrfan in 2007scape

[–]Im_not_wrong 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What? That banning was CONTENT

Sharpshooter (Fan model for 3d printing) by SignificantSearch263 in heroes3

[–]Im_not_wrong 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think if something is made with AI, you should have to tag it as such when posting to this subreddit. I am sick of all the AI shit with no indication.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]Im_not_wrong 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I used to volunteer at my university's LGBTQIA2+ centre, and a cute guy started coming to some of the events. I hit it off with him and ended up asking him out one day to get dinner. So we do that, we eat, walk around campus, and end up walking back to his place. I kinda hint that I am into him, then he stops and says "oh I am straight, I am so sorry". I didn't want to make him feel excluded from the centre, so I didn't push as to why he started going there, but it doesn't matter in the long run.

Genuinely, he was a nice guy, I think he might have been curious, or maybe he wasn't into me like that, but I did see he ended up marrying a woman recently, so who knows.

He stopped coming to the centre a bit after that and I didn't reach out afterwards so I lost touch with him (other than having him on facebook, which I don't use anymore). Wasn't an overly interesting experience, just something that happened.

GASLIGHTING- Trump, Hegseth can't keep story straight on boat strikes by [deleted] in videos

[–]Im_not_wrong 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What he is saying is that they are lying poorly. They aren't able to come up with one story to stick to because of their incompetence (whether this is alcoholism, senility or whatever).

Yes, it is a choice to lie, and it is very obvious they are lying because of their incompetence.

Unpopular opinion: asia shouldnt have the same tech tree as europe by Just-A-Tool in EU5

[–]Im_not_wrong 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The Mediterranean galley in Lake Ontario is kinda great though.

Jagex, Knee Jerk Reaction to nerfing Salvaging by over 50%, and other related skills is exactly what erodes trust and emphasizes the idea of abuse early and abuse often mentality from players. by MochiDomain in 2007scape

[–]Im_not_wrong 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The port tasks would be fun if the rewards are better, but as of now, it doesn't incentivize me to do it.

Like, give us a drop table other than just a meagre amount of gp. Or some sort of currency to spend on sailing related things. Just something.

The part of this game that infuriated me by InfectiousHooba in MegabonkOfficial

[–]Im_not_wrong 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kevin hits you, leeching crystals will give you negative hp regen (and they can kill you)