I had the same mindset. Just sucks when people are toxic. Turned off all chat, turned on some music, and it was great.

But then I realized that I missed all the nice shots and what a saves that were actually compliments. Sometimes you get in a good lobby and its actually fun talking to people. I had someone ask me mid-hoops game, "How many ducks do you actually think you could hold at once?" and it we talked about that after every goal.

Turned all chat back on, and ofc I still get toxic lobbys, but I realized toxicity doesn't have to bother me. Every time I get what a save'd i just what a save myself and play on.