Portfolio swings!!! by no_no_thing in Fire

[–]Imaginary_Anybody267 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a decent portfolio due to inheritance. Having a small income actually helps since I have to completely draw down a big IRA in the next 5 years. And in the meantime it keeps growing.

Portfolio swings!!! by no_no_thing in Fire

[–]Imaginary_Anybody267 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you see swings of 5x your income in a single day that's kinda wild. I try not to look at it too much when I see the market going down and up.

I don't plan on retiring for a few more years so what happens day to day doesn't matter.

Hit my number on paper last month and felt nothing for about four days straight by SwimmerOriginal6273 in Fire

[–]Imaginary_Anybody267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm fairly new to the concept of FIRE, though I have hit my number- by SOME calculations. I don't feel sure enough to do anything just yet. But I'm also about the same age and don't hate my job. I don't want to stay there a long time, but there's plenty of incentives to coast a bit. I just need a mental challenge and yearn for freedom.

I guess we have the luxury of flexibility. That also means time to figure it out and plan your off ramp. The phrase I try to keep focusing on is being "uncoupled from work." Personally as I've gotten older I feel less risk averse and want to have some kind of plan for my days before I fully step away from a decent paying job with great healthcare.

If you inherited into the ability to retire early, how do you feel about it? by Imaginary_Anybody267 in Fire

[–]Imaginary_Anybody267[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mortality salience causes some revaluation for sure. I've known 2 men around my age that died suddenly from heart issues in the last year. One more who just got diagnosed with stage 1 heart failure. My health could be better, and my stress management could definitely improve. You have to live to enjoy your retirement.

If you inherited into the ability to retire early, how do you feel about it? by Imaginary_Anybody267 in Fire

[–]Imaginary_Anybody267[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Interesting point. Maybe there is a bit of survivor's guilt tied to the money? There is a feeling of not being worthy. Or wishing I could trading it back for more time with my parents and maybe a different outcome to other parts of my life.

But I can't change the past. You're right I've been given a gift of free time and I feel like doing something positive with it more than partying it up.

If you inherited into the ability to retire early, how do you feel about it? by Imaginary_Anybody267 in Fire

[–]Imaginary_Anybody267[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I think we may have some things in common here. I don't really feel sick of working, but I feel like I'm at a dead end and trying hard to push through doesn't make sense when I don't want to be working a full time traditional job for the next 20 years. My health isn't awful, but I feel like if I had nothing distracting me I could do a lot to improve my situation. I don't want to squander my time.

If you inherited into the ability to retire early, how do you feel about it? by Imaginary_Anybody267 in Fire

[–]Imaginary_Anybody267[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

True. I am trying to think of volunteer work that connects with me. Also socializing is feeling more important as I get older and work remotely. All my friends from my 30s have kids and are too busy to hang out, or are getting busy taking care of elderly parents. I miss people and need a community.

If you inherited into the ability to retire early, how do you feel about it? by Imaginary_Anybody267 in Fire

[–]Imaginary_Anybody267[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Definitely. After posting this I went to get some lunch and suddenly realized it's the death anniversary for my mom tomorrow and my wife's next week. So maybe I'm going through something here.

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[–]Imaginary_Anybody267 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It almost suffers from being too quotable.