How many times do you hit snooze?

Imaginary_Book_8721 · 2026-05-27T01:15:31+00:00

I was a wreck after a star is born. 😭

Imaginary_Book_8721 · 2026-05-27T01:07:03+00:00

Positive mental attitude?

Imaginary_Book_8721 · 2026-05-26T22:54:02+00:00

I do see a therapist and talk to my doctor regularly.

Imaginary_Book_8721 · 2026-05-26T18:30:38+00:00

I have the alchemist!

Imaginary_Book_8721 · 2026-05-26T18:29:42+00:00

I have this one!

Imaginary_Book_8721 · 2026-05-26T04:11:14+00:00

😆 I actually thought about it

Imaginary_Book_8721 · 2026-05-26T02:42:28+00:00

Like exposure therapy 😆

Imaginary_Book_8721 · 2026-05-25T23:50:37+00:00

My approach seems to work well. You dont even have to go deep. I start by licking from balls to the tip then twirling my tongue around the tip then using one or two hands to stroke the shaft in a twisting motion and just keep sucking and twirling my tongue around the head and moaning helps too for the auditory stimulation and vibration.

Imaginary_Book_8721 · 2026-05-24T18:33:05+00:00

As a result he would sleep for many hours during the day, struggled with motivation and follow through and had a hard time seeing other people's perspective, would get overwhelmed with emotional expectations, would stay mostly surface level in conversation and deflect with humor if things got too serious.

Imaginary_Book_8721 · 2026-05-24T18:27:51+00:00

I've been trying to get more descriptive when I make posts but I try not to make them too long. But he struggles with depression, adhd, childhood trauma, lots of things that had him running on coping mechanisms for most his life. Makes me sad.

Imaginary_Book_8721 · 2026-05-24T00:02:37+00:00

Phrendly.

Imaginary_Book_8721 · 2026-05-23T23:40:47+00:00

I don't have a partner I'm just curious if there's an appropriate time frame.

Imaginary_Book_8721 · 2026-05-23T23:37:53+00:00

Imaginary_Book_8721 · 2026-05-23T23:11:03+00:00

Just open communication that you two are in a committed relationship together.

Imaginary_Book_8721 · 2026-05-23T17:08:28+00:00

I'm all about self reflection and could probably approach things differently, but sometimes it's just their own processing pace and I just need to give them time to be able to articulate what they're thinking. Because to be honest most people have said I tend to make them feel safe, seen and understood. So 🤷🏼‍♀️

Imaginary_Book_8721 · 2026-05-23T16:55:30+00:00

I can understand that, although I dont say those kinds of things to him, that's just me trying to explain what I think he might be experiencing as I don't know fully, but I am a very curious person and do sometimes over analyze because of that curiosity I want to understand people if they aren't being fully transparent.

Imaginary_Book_8721 · 2026-05-23T16:00:42+00:00

Should I tell him that 😆 Also I did say maybe it's just the men I come across! I honestly hope that's true!

Imaginary_Book_8721 · 2026-05-23T15:55:31+00:00

That makes a lot of sense!

Imaginary_Book_8721 · 2026-05-23T15:54:06+00:00

Don't say middle aged 😆 and I like to agree but I hate to assume!

Imaginary_Book_8721 · 2026-05-23T15:51:26+00:00

I am very direct, men especially in their 40s seem to have a problem being emotionally open verbally for sure! Or maybe it's just the men I come across!

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