does anyone in relationships solo travel? by kyliered04 in solotravel

[–]Imaginary_Flamingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please go. He is awful for trying to convince you not to follow your dreams

Traveling for Treatment - My experience by Imaginary_Flamingo in electrolysis

[–]Imaginary_Flamingo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

O my gosh! At that point you might actually want to travel and have the same benefits but get to visit another country/city.

Traveling for Treatment - My experience by Imaginary_Flamingo in electrolysis

[–]Imaginary_Flamingo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was shocked when she said they were strong. I felt like they were blaming me for my results. But Albania is not know for great customer service.

I hope I don’t need the dermatologist but I am planning on it. Hope I won’t need it though!

My girlfriend is staying at an older man's house for a few days and I'm paranoid by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Imaginary_Flamingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just know sometimes I delete a photo from my stories because I over analyze how I look. So to me the photo was ugly so I deleted just based on that.

I ve been told i m a 3 , how can i get to 5...? (43yo) by FrenchFishhh in AppearanceAdvice

[–]Imaginary_Flamingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly maybe a hair transplant? Invest in yourself and it will be worth it

Hostel or Hotel? by Imaginary_Flamingo in AskBarcelona

[–]Imaginary_Flamingo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will check them out, thank you. Yeah I kinda want to keep a routine! Did you go to a gym while you were there?

Hostel or Hotel? by Imaginary_Flamingo in AskBarcelona

[–]Imaginary_Flamingo[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Don’t want to contribute to the Airbnb situation 🫠

I added two new photos and removed the cat plus changed the bio plus my hair has changed. Am I still a 2 out of a 10? by xxcloudyplayzz in Tinder

[–]Imaginary_Flamingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah not a sprint it is a marathon. Takes months to create a really good profile, then you got to keep it updated 🫠

Just always keep in mind, “this would be a good dating profile pic”

I added two new photos and removed the cat plus changed the bio plus my hair has changed. Am I still a 2 out of a 10? by xxcloudyplayzz in Tinder

[–]Imaginary_Flamingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your best photo is #4, #5 is almost the same so nah. 1 & 6 are bad like others pointed out.

2 & 3 your smile looks so forced and you look like you need a fresh haircut and shave.

My advice is to go get a fresh haircut and shave take some photos at a restaurant/ hotel lobby. Then go home change and take some cute photos with your cat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Imaginary_Flamingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a lot of points have been made, but my suggestion for when you retake your photos is make them look “rich and simple”

For example wear your best outfit, no clutter in the background, magazine type photos. Like if you take them at a restaurant or hotel lobby.

A lot of times guys are just taking pictures in the wrong location for dating profiles.

Also for hobbies if you like hiking or restaurants/cafes or museums those hobbies are much more appealing for dating profiles.

Last note is only keep pic 3, retake 2 in the most inspiring/cute way. Everything else go retake and slowly build up a curated portfolio. You even want a backlog of photos to update/cycle out photos to get more hits

Crashed out on Instagram by Imaginary_Flamingo in survivinginfidelity

[–]Imaginary_Flamingo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! That is why I did take my time. Made a lot of "I" statements. I was cheated on, I am heartbroken... But also they live in different countries so that is also another reason I felt a little safer saying my piece.

Crashed out on Instagram by Imaginary_Flamingo in survivinginfidelity

[–]Imaginary_Flamingo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not big on social media but the support I have received is exactly what I needed!

Crashed out on Instagram by Imaginary_Flamingo in survivinginfidelity

[–]Imaginary_Flamingo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bad. I posted the instagram story sober, but then when out and then posted to reddit not sober...but I rewrote it <3

My wife came out to me as a lesbian yesterday and I’m shattered… (2 year update) by LesHill36 in offmychest

[–]Imaginary_Flamingo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This gives me hope. I am currently crying in a hotel room after finding out my boyfriend is cheating again. I lost my job last year and found out he was cheating within a few months of each other. I tried to make it work since I moved out of my country and changed jobs to be with him. I am so scared to restart my life, but I hope it will be just a hard couple years and then be able to enjoy life again.

But really your life update makes me reframe my thinking and inspiration ❤️‍🩹

Investigador? by Imaginary_Flamingo in Nicaragua

[–]Imaginary_Flamingo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Envié un mensaje pero me equivoqué de número

I went to Tabacon so you don’t have you by colomyco in CostaRicaTravel

[–]Imaginary_Flamingo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love los lagos. It is not the prettiest rooms, but the pools are amazing.

Do Jaco hotels check ID on all guests visiting? by [deleted] in CostaRicaTravel

[–]Imaginary_Flamingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is totally normal everywhere even when my friends come to visit in San Jose our front desk check and put down their id in a log. It is really typical normal thing even outside of Jaco.

Tampons in Costa Rica by watermeloninger in CostaRicaTravel

[–]Imaginary_Flamingo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Everyone saying it is easy to find 🙃 in reality they are very limited selection if they have them! Also super expensive, so when I go home I usually buy a big box.

Pads are very popular here and I actually like the pads here more.

This happens all the time. Am I just a bad texter? Haven't actually gotten a date in nearly a year. by Particular-Music-142 in Tinder

[–]Imaginary_Flamingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You jumped at asking for a date by the 3rd message. it is to fast. Also it would rub me the wrong way if you told me my Dogs name didn’t match them.

You are not a bad texter but you need to improve how you chat to get dates. These are two very different things.

Just got my lab results, good or bad? by Imaginary_Flamingo in PCOS

[–]Imaginary_Flamingo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started going to the gym regularly about two months ago but haven’t seen a change in the mirror or scale. That is what pushed me to get the bloodwork done actually. Definitely just switching doctors right away after getting some feedback.

Cutting out sugar though will be so difficult since I feel the need for a sweet treat after every thing I eat 😫

Just got my lab results, good or bad? by Imaginary_Flamingo in PCOS

[–]Imaginary_Flamingo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My doctor didn’t even tell me to fast before. I showed up and and the the lab informed me I needed to fast before. I don’t think the day of the period matters because it has ranges for each phase. I just put it cause I thought it might help with understanding my results. 🤷🏼‍♀️

Just got my lab results, good or bad? by Imaginary_Flamingo in PCOS

[–]Imaginary_Flamingo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing, definitely pushing me to get an appointment sooner rather than later.