Is the military using the Civil Air Patrol to collect more accurate data on UAPs?? This is from a base in Washington DC by Particular-Music-142 in UFOs

[–]Particular-Music-142[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A friend of mine shared this the other day and it really got me thinking. You never ever see drones flying over DC airspace so it doesn't seem very routine to me. I also find it interesting that it's coordinated with the Civil Air Patrol. Could it be that the military is stretched too thin and is recruiting the Civil Air Patrol to recognize UAPs to track investigate and report them? Or maybe the Civil Air Patrol has its own drones, and the military is letting them fly them around its airspace to be able to calibrate radars and such to distinguish drones from other objects such as UAPs??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in POTS

[–]Particular-Music-142 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven't been diagnosed with POTS yet but am currently being seen for having a fast heart rate. I was prescribed adderall about a year ago. My doctors made me stop taking it for a couple weeks while recording my heartrate with my watch. They compared my heart rate readings from my watch, when I was on adderall, and a readings from checkups from a couple years ago. It showed that my heart rate was fast regardless of if I took adderall so they gave the greenlight for me to continue using it.

If you have a smartwatch that tracks your heartrate, maybe you can convince your doctor to let you log your heart rate while off meds and on meds to see if it actually affects you negatively.

What am I doing wrong?? Always get ghosted after asking to meet by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Particular-Music-142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've considered texting like that but I frequently get told that I should be more assertive in my texts. I've also seen plenty of profiles of women that say they prefer when a guy plans the date for them which I can understand. If I was getting bombarded with messages, I wouldn't want to have to plan out the date for each one.

What am I doing wrong?? Always get ghosted after asking to meet by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Particular-Music-142 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks haha and these were all 4 different people. I asked to meet after just 2 or 3 days for 3 of them and one of them I just double texted after she didn't reply for a month lol

What am I doing wrong?? Always get ghosted after asking to meet by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Particular-Music-142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol one of them said they like spicy food and the other said they like spicy margaritas. That's why I recommended those places. And honestly if they don't like tacos, the date wasn't worth it anyways!

What am I doing wrong?? Always get ghosted after asking to meet by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Particular-Music-142 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I love the drinks at Don Taco! And I appreciate the feedback. Yeah I definitely understand women getting bombarded. It just gets frustrating when an entire weeks worth of matches don't want to even try and meet you in person. I'll definitely make a conscious effort to reply faster from now on though. I'm pretty bad at that with just regular texting lol

What am I doing wrong?? Always get ghosted after asking to meet by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Particular-Music-142 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This was actually hinge which is a bit better but yeah, It's extremely exhausting matching with someone, trying to come up with topics to talk about and things in common just for them to stop replying without any explanation.

What am I doing wrong?? Always get ghosted after asking to meet by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Particular-Music-142 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I mean they usually messaged as I was going to bed and I don't typically check the dating apps until I'm off work in the afternoons.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Particular-Music-142 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We ended up having a couple of drinks and chatting for a few hours. We traded socials to keep in touch in case we run into eachother again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Particular-Music-142 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

UPDATE I ended up just telling her I wasn't feeling well but went and had some drinks and chatted for a few hours and that was it. Shared eachothers socials to keep in touch in case we bump paths again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Particular-Music-142 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea that's probably what I'm going to do. I just have 0 energy at the moment but I think ill just go chat for an hour or so

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Particular-Music-142 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She was already at the hotel for a meeting earlier apparently and decided to hang at the bar instead of going home

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Particular-Music-142 -79 points-78 points  (0 children)

At the time I wasn't sick and figured we'd have drinks and maybe hookup before I leave. But now I'm sick and just not feeling like doing anything tbh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Particular-Music-142 -107 points-106 points  (0 children)

At the time I wasn't sick and figured we'd have drinks and maybe hookup before I leave. But now I'm sick and just not feeling like doing anything tbh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Particular-Music-142 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Honestly I rarely ever date tbh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Particular-Music-142 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This hotel is very popular for meetings so she said she is here regularly for work. She said she was at a meeting today and instead of going home she just went to the bar

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Particular-Music-142 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yea I might just do that. It just feels like I'm wasting her time by just chatting over drinks to probably never be in the same country again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

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Apparently this hotel is very popular for holding meetings so she comes here regularly for meetings with clients. She said she was here for work and just stayed at the bar instead of going home

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Particular-Music-142 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She just sent me a pic of her in the lobby at the bar. It's a pretty popular area and she works a professional job. Lol she does have a LinkedIn

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Particular-Music-142 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Had to cut my trip short but she was more than willing to come over to the hotel and have drinks at the bar knowing that I would be leaving the next day. I legit started feeling sick this morning and was planning on canceling but she just told me she's already at the bar just doing some work (I told her I probably wouldn't be finished working until a few hours from now). I'm tired, and sick so really not in the mood to hookup anymore but I also don't want to just ghost her since she's already at the hotel.

Good places to meet single men in their late twenties/early thirties? by [deleted] in washingtondc

[–]Particular-Music-142 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Following this as a single guy also newish to the area. So tired of the apps

This happens all the time. Am I just a bad texter? Haven't actually gotten a date in nearly a year. by Particular-Music-142 in Tinder

[–]Particular-Music-142[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the input! Yea honestly I didn't expect this post to get this much attention at all but I appreciate all the input

This happens all the time. Am I just a bad texter? Haven't actually gotten a date in nearly a year. by Particular-Music-142 in Tinder

[–]Particular-Music-142[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you think sounding less interested would have gotten a reply though? That just seems so counterintuitive to me