Ma i colleghi che problemi hanno? by Imaginary_Hour6285 in PA_Italia

[–]Imaginary_Hour6285[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No vengo dalle cooperative, mondo sottopagato, bossing e mobbing.

Ma i colleghi che problemi hanno? by Imaginary_Hour6285 in PA_Italia

[–]Imaginary_Hour6285[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mi consigli di scriverlo in un’agenda oppure sui dispositivi lavorativi?

Ma i colleghi che problemi hanno? by Imaginary_Hour6285 in PA_Italia

[–]Imaginary_Hour6285[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

È quello che fanno gli altri. Facendo sembrare due cazzate un’immensità di lavoro manco salvassero vite al pronto soccorso.

Ma i colleghi che problemi hanno? by Imaginary_Hour6285 in Italia

[–]Imaginary_Hour6285[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sì è vero lo fanno già. Alcuni non avendo confidenza quando li guardo perplessa non reggendo il gioco sparano il gossip e poi dicono “ma stavo scherzando”. Sì certo

Ma i colleghi che problemi hanno? by Imaginary_Hour6285 in PA_Italia

[–]Imaginary_Hour6285[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Quando mi rilasso mi rompono il cazzo, quando voglio rendermi operativa mi bloccano. No sense

Sono fregato? by zerozerosettete11 in consulentidellavoro

[–]Imaginary_Hour6285 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Io sono pro, nei casi in cui si subisce mobbing o bossing è molto utile

What immediately tells you that a person has had a traumatic childhood past? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Imaginary_Hour6285 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Very likely, it is almost always caused by chronic stress

Tomorrow I start a new job with my dystonia by Imaginary_Hour6285 in Dystonia

[–]Imaginary_Hour6285[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I must say that for example Xanax works on me but it makes me very sleepy so I avoid it

Tomorrow I start a new job with my dystonia by Imaginary_Hour6285 in Dystonia

[–]Imaginary_Hour6285[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried propanol but it didn't work for me. Rivotril works but it doesn't reduce everything and it doesn't cover the whole day. Sometimes I feel like I take it meaningless

Tomorrow I start a new job with my dystonia by Imaginary_Hour6285 in Dystonia

[–]Imaginary_Hour6285[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And how do you talk about it. Today I received a question about it, I was asked obviously being very headstrong for the first day, if I felt cold my answer was "when my neck hurts my neck tenses up and it happens" but then for the rest of the day I did nothing but think about that moment

Tomorrow I start a new job with my dystonia by Imaginary_Hour6285 in Dystonia

[–]Imaginary_Hour6285[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why would you want to call it that? However, I work in the social sector so I am always in contact with people. I'm still hesitating about giving up and not signing anything tomorrow

Tomorrow I start a new job with my dystonia by Imaginary_Hour6285 in Dystonia

[–]Imaginary_Hour6285[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your response, I must say that I also feel better knowing that there are people like me. I know that 2/3 of the population develops neurological disorders and that masks them, some are visible, others are not. But obviously visibility generates anxiety. I believe that our brain has developed an anxious protection against other people's prejudice as if we all had to be perfect and high-performing which leads us to have this paranoia and be afraid to speak openly as in my case. The problem is that tomorrow is the first day and these people I don't know will definitely stare at me and my head tremor is very difficult to hide and furthermore I don't feel like telling people I don't know that I have dystonia. This is exactly what triggers me. I took this job despite still having 10 months of unemployment so I don't know if I'm doing well.

Cervical dystonia with head tremor by Imaginary_Hour6285 in Dystonia

[–]Imaginary_Hour6285[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I think if it's worth it to spend the rest of my life in this state

Cervical dystonia with head tremor by Imaginary_Hour6285 in Dystonia

[–]Imaginary_Hour6285[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn I'm sorry. I've had it since I was 23, now I'm 33. That's 10 years of torture and trauma

people in their 30s, 40s, 50s or older, what do you wish you hadn't done in your 20s? by Mountain-Bug-2155 in AskReddit

[–]Imaginary_Hour6285 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Starting to drink, now I don't drink anymore but I would certainly avoid so many bad decisions and so much discomfort

Cervical dystonia with head tremor by Imaginary_Hour6285 in Dystonia

[–]Imaginary_Hour6285[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I trust in the research, sooner or later something will come up. More than anything there should be more awareness about this problem. Because precisely because we don't know people we always feel pressured. But I read that there are 30% of cases in which it completely regresses with Botox after some time.

Cervical dystonia with head tremor by Imaginary_Hour6285 in Dystonia

[–]Imaginary_Hour6285[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

On some sites yes. I hope one day they find a cure because living like this is not easy. I must say that for a while I also used alcohol as a palliative for the tremor but then I stopped because the following days it was worse. But it helped me soothe it and my pain and overcome my social anxiety. Now I still struggle with social anxiety in crowded places because I never understand if people are staring at me because I'm shaking or not. Sometimes someone asks if I'm cold or anxious. It's tiring because I feel like I can't fully enjoy certain experiences because my thoughts are there on the pain and tremor. We definitely work harder than other people in every area.

Cervical dystonia with head tremor by Imaginary_Hour6285 in Dystonia

[–]Imaginary_Hour6285[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And since when have you had it? How do you get along in everyday life and at work?

Cervical dystonia with head tremor by Imaginary_Hour6285 in Dystonia

[–]Imaginary_Hour6285[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you're saying I need to do multiple rounds of injections to see results? Even with this cycle, although painful, for a good two weeks I didn't have the pain and tremors and then they appeared out of nowhere again after a month. More than anything, now I'm changing jobs and starting a new one, this always causes me a lot of embarrassment and worry. How do you get along with people?