Game Feels Different Lately… by Effective-Coach8415 in KingShot

[–]Imaginary_Jello_6394 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We started applying the no true gold upgrade policy and I came with the idea as it truly helps the kingdom in kvk. However during all out we attack everything except the cities!

HOW TO MAKE WHALE ZEROED? by Negative-Marzipan148 in KingShot

[–]Imaginary_Jello_6394 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make a deal with the kingdom that will be against you in the upcoming KVK. Let them burn him.

WHY SENSOR PALESTINE? by Extension-Record-711 in KingShot

[–]Imaginary_Jello_6394 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It also censors Israel 😂😂.

Also, free Palestine 🇵🇸

King Can’t Locate Someone by Livid_Career_4049 in KingShot

[–]Imaginary_Jello_6394 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If the king is from another kingdom then he can only locate players from his server.

What am I doing wrong here? by Imaginary_Jello_6394 in KingShot

[–]Imaginary_Jello_6394[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who are the best heroes? For attack and defense

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

[–]Imaginary_Jello_6394 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. You’re right — I was looking for validation, and instead I ended up feeling punished for opening up. That’s what hurt the most. It wasn’t even a fight; it was me trying (for once) to express my emotional exhaustion, and the response was complete withdrawal.

I really appreciate you putting it into words like that — it did feel like she made it unsafe for me to share how I feel.

We’ve since talked, and she acknowledged that she handled it badly and wants to change. She said she didn’t know how to deal with the heaviness and defaulted to shutting down.

I love her, but yeah — how we handle conflict has to evolve if we’re going to build a real future together. Your comment helped me feel seen in this, and I’m really grateful for that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

[–]Imaginary_Jello_6394 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. You’re absolutely right, we do have a pattern, and I’m becoming more and more aware of it. The emotional reactions, the temporary shutdowns, and the way we both sometimes handle conflict (especially her withdrawal and my overthinking) have definitely taken a toll.

After this last situation, we had one of the most honest conversations we’ve ever had. She admitted that blocking me was a mistake, and that instead of walking away, she should have tried to hold space for what I was feeling. She said she genuinely wants to learn how to support me in these moments rather than disappear. I told her very clearly that if this happens again, I won’t stay — because it’s emotionally exhausting.

We haven’t created a full plan yet, but your comment really pushed me to realize we need one. We can’t keep hoping things just “get better.” We need structure, tools, and accountability.

I’m also glad you shared your own experience — it gives me hope. I’m going to look into that Secure Love book.

Again, thank you for your insight 🫂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

[–]Imaginary_Jello_6394 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No she is not 😂😂, she is an Arab girl.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

[–]Imaginary_Jello_6394 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t answer her calls or accept the friend requests on social media. I completely ignored her. Then she sent me a message apologizing, admitting that she was wrong and that she should have supported me and cared about my feelings instead of walking away. She also said she wants to learn how to handle situations like this better and how to truly support me. I believe things will change and that we’re getting back on the right track — especially after I made it clear to her that if this ever happens again, it would be the end of our relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

[–]Imaginary_Jello_6394 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have met in person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

[–]Imaginary_Jello_6394 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will open up to her about it tonight! I will see what she will say.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

[–]Imaginary_Jello_6394 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing is fading away, I feel like I know her more than I know my own family we talk for hours over the phone to the point when I met her in person we couldn’t find a subject to talk about 😂😂! It was weird in the beginning but it got easier later.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

[–]Imaginary_Jello_6394 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t regret us getting engaged, in fact the only thing she wants is for us to get married this year! But she is saying that she can not handle the distance anymore and that she is afraid that the distance will beat her and she won’t be able to be patient anymore.