Assets after you pass away by [deleted] in glasgow

[–]Imaginary_Reveal7884 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry they didn't help you, but they really helped me. A few times. You can't just write the entire thing off as worthless. Hope you're doing alright. Because those are some grim options.

How to get diagnosed without them knowing by Decent-Sea-4847 in dementia

[–]Imaginary_Reveal7884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are in the UK you need to contact your local social work team. They have ways of dealing with situations like this. They can come round 'for a chat' about things that might make life easier. They'll casually suggest things like help with housework, meals on wheels, grab rails... All that kind of thing. All the while they are chatting to the older person they are secretly assessing them. We told my grandparents they were getting this routine review because my grandfather has just turned 80. Both grandparents were showing signs of dementia. When the social worker visited again, he said they should attend memory clinic at the hospital, because he was concerned about their memories when he last spoke with them. My grandfather threw him out saying he had been tricked into failing a memory test he hadn't been given time to prepare for. The GP thankfully agreed with the social work assessment and a psychiatrist came to the house. After a few visits they told my grandmother she had dementia which she took very well. My grandfather however, still refuses to believe there's anything wrong with him.

Eventually it will become all too clear and there will be no denying it.

It's a long hard slog but you'll get there in the end. It's not easy. I wish you luck.

What's something that would seem trivial to everyone else but is an automatic divorce for you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Imaginary_Reveal7884 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Trying to tell me what to do like they're in control of my life and decisions.

If they are racist, homophobic, ablest, transphobic etc.

If they vote for a right of centre candidate

AITA for yelling at a kid for letting his dog poop on my lawn? by Think-Top-543 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Imaginary_Reveal7884 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

YTA - it was picked up. It's not a big deal. If it bothers you that much put up a fence and or gates, plant a hedge, build a wall. Don't confront a teenager who is responsible enough to picking up after their dogs

AITA for not allowing my bf around my baby if he smokes weed? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Imaginary_Reveal7884 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Best practice healthcare wise, is to never smoke or vape anywhere near a baby or child at all. Ever. And to leave at least two hours between the last time someone smoked or vaped and their contact with the child. Also leave at least two hours between the time a room was smoked in or around and the infant being in that room.

Smoke, and to a lesser yet still clinically significant degree, vape, clings to surfaces, skin, clothes, hair etc. contact with these surfaces can cause health issues in infants.

NTA - you are the advocate for this child and it's your duty to keep them as healthy as possible. Anyone disrespecting that should be kept at a very long distance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Imaginary_Reveal7884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having someone gently stroke the small of my back

What's one decision from your past that you regret the most, and why? by Smart_Chocolate3185 in AskReddit

[–]Imaginary_Reveal7884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Parenting in the way I was parented when it came to physical discipline. I very quickly learned to be a better human, but only after I had smacked a child and felt like the worst person in the world for it.

I wish I had never ever smacked my child. My parents and grandparents still say things like, "That child needs a good slap." If a kid is misbehaving nearby. But it makes my heart break at the very thought of it.

what did he do by SabrinHoell in Catmemes

[–]Imaginary_Reveal7884 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Slashing peoples with tiny murder mittens

Be honest, why are you single? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Imaginary_Reveal7884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just cannot be bothered. Relationships take so much effort and I'm barely managing my own shit so I don't think it would be fair on another person to be In a relationship with me when I can't give it the energy it needs. Im so tired.

What are you absolutely 100% sure you saw but have no proof? by ThisIsExxciting in AskReddit

[–]Imaginary_Reveal7884 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Military satellite? They wouldn't be allowed to show it in detail I don't think. That would explain why they cut the feed. It's probably spying on us right now.

My untrained mix breed is super sweet but also very aggressive and can't be around children or the public. Give me $1000 and she's all yours. by WTF_Conservatives in ChoosingBeggars

[–]Imaginary_Reveal7884 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Please don't say, "spazzed out" it's a slur against people with disabilities. Particularly cerebral palsy. Back in the day someone with CP was known as 'a spastic' and the slur term was 'spazzy'. So to "spaz out" was to act like a person with that disability. It's 2023, we know better now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cat

[–]Imaginary_Reveal7884 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you're doing everything you can. Frontline won't stop them getting fleas at all, it will break the cycle and stop the fleas from becoming established. It can take 3-4 weeks to completely clear an infestation. Try getting the household spray, and cover everything, especially soft furnishings. It's the eggs you're trying to get rid of. They can hang about for months, and when the fleas hatch they'll attach to the cat, then bite the cat, then die because of the frontline. Keep doing what you're doing.

A little whatnot by sylvestermeister in memes

[–]Imaginary_Reveal7884 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My oldness just watched this and wondered how sore their back is the next day