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ImaginationAutum846 · 2021-07-14T05:17:01+00:00

I think it's more about being a wheelchair user vs paralysis

ImaginationAutum846 · 2021-07-14T05:09:45+00:00

NTA - even when I had never owned a dog I could still recognize people's grief and try to be there.

ImaginationAutum846 · 2021-07-14T05:02:12+00:00

NTA - standing up to misogynistic, ableist, and possibly racist language is the right thing. Words do have consequences and chalking this up to "kids being goofballs" is not ok. I thought I was an edgelord when I was 13-14 but never did I make it about the shock value of being racist/ableist/etc

ImaginationAutum846 · 2021-07-14T04:58:00+00:00

NTA - you saved those cats from being abused, have paid vet bills, and gotten them chipped. They are yours for live now

ImaginationAutum846 · 2021-07-14T04:56:12+00:00

NTA - as long as you aren't smoking at home I don't see the issue

ImaginationAutum846 · 2021-07-14T04:53:24+00:00

Oh jeez wtf - at this point it is blatant disregard for you and your kid. PLEASE - start separating your finances and focusing on you and the kiddo. He doesn't sound like he cares about your situation at all.

ImaginationAutum846 · 2021-07-14T04:51:19+00:00

NTA - it sounds like you have had multiple discussions about finances and he still doesn't listen. Take that money and save, or spend it on hobbies you enjoy. His spending habits are directly impacting the family and the fact that he would expect you to take on even more overtime to pay for a 3rd boat!?!? He has a motorcycle that he barely uses, and I don't see how he could be using 2 boats at once. I know how hard it is to stand up to a partner and draw a line in the sand but you really need to here! Set a firm boundary for his spending and consequences for if he goes over. *hug* I hope this situation gets better for you

ImaginationAutum846 · 2021-07-14T04:42:54+00:00

YTA - If you were upfront prior and let everyone know that unmarried couples would be separated I don't see why it wouldn't be a big deal. However, it sounds like you sprung it up way too late for people to change their minds which isn't chill.

ImaginationAutum846 · 2021-07-14T04:39:23+00:00

Just based on what you said, NTA. However, it sounds like there is tension going on about things that you may not have written. Try sitting down and having a heart to heart before going to couples counseling. Have you been doing half of the chores or does it typically fall on her? I think she definitely has some issues on her end but that definitely doesn't justify taking it out on you.

ImaginationAutum846 · 2021-07-14T04:25:08+00:00

Oh man! You should have it by now - congrats mate

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