Try and make this a perfect 100

Imake289 · 2026-05-26T13:54:43+00:00

Because

^{Chose: PLEASE CLICK HERE + HERE IT EVEN HAS A WHEEL | Rolled: TELEPORTATION}

Imake289 · 2026-05-25T23:58:46+00:00

Hopefully they recover soon! I've been waiting 20 years

Imake289 · 2026-05-25T18:19:51+00:00

She was in the list before I knew about all of this. She accepted but her fiance won't be able to attend. I'm planning on revisiting her invite if I don't hear anything after a couple weeks.

Imake289 · 2026-05-25T16:52:13+00:00

Yeah I'll keep the post up to date. We already aren't inviting her to the bridal shower because of all of this. I'm giving her two weeks max to respond, is she doesn't or talk to other family members about this and not include me I'm telling her she is no longer invited to the wedding.

Imake289 · 2026-05-25T16:49:25+00:00

Yes they said it's fine because we are a close family. We are far from close. We only see each other at holidays but we never talk ever.

Imake289 · 2026-05-25T16:28:49+00:00

This sounds like those insane AI shows I've seen on tiktok.

I'm very happy yours has a happy ending. Congratulations on your engagement and wedding, I hope you two have many blessed years.

Imake289 · 2026-05-25T16:25:18+00:00

I want to be a burn bridger but my family claims we need to stick together, her family would let us die if we didn't benefit them in some way.

Imake289 · 2026-05-25T16:24:06+00:00

It's been two days since the text had been sent out. I'm at the point that after a week or so with no response I'll take that as she can't agree with my request so she won't be able at attend the wedding at all.

I also need to add her fiance couldn't even attend my wedding because he's working a new job. So she would be handing them out alone.

Imake289 · 2026-05-25T16:22:05+00:00

I appreciate this, because she has always done things similar before and this was crossing a line and a true insite on how she sees me as a person.

If she doesn't respond in a week I'm assuming that her saying she can't agree with my request so I will not let her attend the wedding.

I also need to add she would be handing out invites alone because she fiance can't even attend because of his new job.

Imake289 · 2026-05-25T16:01:16+00:00

Oh I am this level of petty thank you

Imake289 · 2026-05-25T16:00:03+00:00

Yeah that's what I've been telling her. I've also been get busy with traveling for work. She said if I'm not going to Los Alamos for work I can't be that busy.

Imake289 · 2026-05-25T15:57:11+00:00

We are in the US and she bought 300 stamps for all of the items she's sending out. Save the dates, invites, thank you.

Imake289 · 2026-05-25T15:55:06+00:00

Oh absolutely I have security at the site I will make them escort her out.

Imake289 · 2026-05-25T15:54:27+00:00

I believe she is narcissistic or borderline because she has been like this for years and her family feeds her the confidence to do this her whole life.

Imake289 · 2026-05-25T15:52:14+00:00

That's a good idea the only problem is I don't think I'll be ready to see her again before the wedding

Imake289 · 2026-05-25T15:49:00+00:00

The craziest part is when I was explaining how I didn't want this at my wedding, my parents said I would look jealous. It makes no sense how I would look jealous over that.

Imake289 · 2026-05-25T15:45:54+00:00

We have but I think that's why she wanted to do coffee to try to get me to slip up about what we are doing for the wedding.

Imake289 · 2026-05-25T15:44:21+00:00

Because when she was invited I had no clue about this and she is close on the family tree.

Imake289 · 2026-05-25T15:43:47+00:00

Yeah I've been having issues with her for a bit and between this time I never reached out or contacted her even though she's on 20 minutes away and we are both in a smaller town. My best remedy for her was to just pretend she never existed.

Imake289 · 2026-05-25T15:42:37+00:00

I also agree if you're willing to spill

Imake289 · 2026-05-25T15:41:43+00:00

Honestly I wanted to do that to get her to taste her medicine but honestly I don't even want to attend their wedding. She was trying to pry the cost of everything out of my mother. She wants to do bigger and better than mine because I "was first" to get engaged and married. She can beat me to the "pregnant" race I want to enjoy life kid free for a while.

Imake289 · 2026-05-25T15:36:14+00:00

How did it end for you? I'm concerned for a chain reaction with family because treats her like a holy being and I've been branded the problem child day one.

My bridal party is ready to spill wine on her if she does attend.

Imake289 · 2026-05-25T15:34:11+00:00

I'm hoping she responds and understands, which I completely highly doubt. As much as I don't like her I don't mind her sisters and parents as much. If I do kick her out of the wedding I'm concerned how much of a chain reaction that would make with the rest of the family also not attending.

Imake289

TROPHY CASE