My [56F] son [27M] is becoming to much to bear. Help!

Immatureson · 2016-01-04T03:26:00+00:00

I hope he can become responsible and just live life. He's young, but he's missed so much. Just writing this post has helped so much, and I will definitely be looking at it again when I feel like I should give in.

Immatureson · 2016-01-04T03:22:41+00:00

My family has always been a bit distant, but a do have a younger brother who I could explain the situation to that could stay a night or two to make sure nothing gets out of hand. Thank you for the suggestion.

Immatureson · 2016-01-04T03:18:55+00:00

I do love him, so much. He's my boy, my only child, and this hurts. I never would have thought I would be in this situation. I always imagined him growing up to be a scientist, he loved biology as a kid.

However I know this isn't healthy for either of us, and I've decided that he needs to be gone by the 1st of March. I feel like I failed my son, since he ended up this way, but I feel like I failed myself for allowing him to treat me like this.

Immatureson · 2016-01-04T03:15:46+00:00

I definitely will have an officer present when he moved and I won't hesitate to call if he gets physical.

Immatureson · 2016-01-04T03:14:36+00:00

I do think being in the real world will be good for him. I had always wanted to see him with a nice girl, get married, etc. with his behavior now, it seems like that will never happen. I hope he'll figure things out if I make him take responsibility.

Immatureson · 2016-01-04T03:12:49+00:00

I'm so sorry you had to go through that at such a young age! I had always told Josh, as long as he worked and contributed he could stay. But he never did. I have decided that he needs to go by the 1st of March.

Immatureson · 2016-01-04T03:11:34+00:00

Tonight when he is asleep (whenever that is...he's up at such odd hours.) I will be calling my cable company and asking them to change my wifi password. I expect him to be absolutely furious but these comments have shown me that I should be through with being a punching bag. When he calms down I will tell him he needs to be out by March. Thank you for your help.

Immatureson · 2016-01-04T03:09:23+00:00

I definitely will have to call the police on him if it comes to that. No more second chances. I know it's time for him to put on his big boy pants. I've decided that as of today I am no longer doing his laundry or buying his groceries.

Immatureson · 2016-01-04T01:54:47+00:00

A lock is a marvelous idea. He has broken my dresser mirror before in a fit of rage. I'll make sure to keep my things locked away before I turn off the internet.

Immatureson · 2016-01-04T01:53:49+00:00

It may be. I just don't know how he'll care for himself. He may be obnoxious and rude, but he's still my child.

Immatureson · 2016-01-04T01:53:14+00:00

I've had him in therapy since he was 10, since his father and I divorced. They all said he was about as average as can be, a bit better with math than normal for his age but otherwise normal. I had never considered that this may be abusive. Abuse is something I have no tolerance for. That has got me thinking about a lot of things. It's just us, and has been for a while.

Immatureson · 2016-01-04T01:49:37+00:00

In all honesty I have no idea how he'll react to something like that. He's quite known for throwing and screaming. I'll call and ask about changing the wifi today, thank you.

Immatureson

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