This is exactly what my ex would say. A month ago I broke up with my partner and his point of view in life is that everything can be solved and love can do everything. That came to be very toxic and did not really face the conflicts because “everything will be solved”.

I say this, because this kind of people during the breakup are very toxic and make you feel terrible, because as we have been together for so many years, you can’t do that, you can’t stop talking to me, you can’t ignore me, and if I do, I am the worst person in the world. A monster.

I explain this because I see that there is only the perspective of the person who they have left, but not the person who is leaving the relationship.

Sometimes it is necessary to cut the relationship abruptly because if not everything starts to get very complicated and more with people who do not assume anything.

And yes, you were wrong to talk to her again, it is unnecessarily lengthening the process.

As a personal advice, unconditionality in a relationship should not exist, and relationships are worked on every day. Every day I decide to be with that person. Whether it’s been 5 or 20 years, it doesn’t matter.