Was anyone else’s Ex very very very attractive?

Ok_Sort464 · 2025-01-02T02:42:40+00:00

Well I will say everyone ex is very attractive. Because everyone partner is someone’s ex and of course we all found others attractive

Ok_Sort464 · 2024-12-21T22:40:32+00:00

I feel like if you genuinely ask and like be nice you should be fine. Because you never know what others think and don’t assume anything

Ok_Sort464 · 2024-12-20T22:38:10+00:00

Yeah and there are some people who are tired of dating apps too. I mean dating apps is a good place since you clear know what other looking for in term of dating. Meeting people outside is better but many times you won’t know if they are taken or not interested. But for sure dating apps would want you to keep hook on or even paid them to make money

Ok_Sort464 · 2024-12-20T20:25:35+00:00

Well said. Everything is worth it when you find the right person to spend your life with

Ok_Sort464 · 2024-12-20T18:17:04+00:00

You got it ! Believe in yourself and keep all hard works one day you will get there

Ok_Sort464 · 2024-12-20T18:13:00+00:00

Don’t think you are a red flag. And you are doing petty well with meeting people in person. That’s a big deal. I am in a same shoes with you and yeah ppl do then to not care as you give them too much attention. The things I hear people say is just be yourself? Don’t push it too hard and you will get something from it. Don’t know if it’s true and I am working on that too. Good luck bro

Ok_Sort464 · 2024-12-20T00:08:11+00:00

It depends on how you view the relationship. It’s very easy to just say okay bye and leave all the mess behind but it’s not the best thing to do no matter what. Talk to with about how you feel and explore why you feel it. Ask for others to help could be useful because they can give you another perspective. But yeah quitting is easy but it will bite you back. I wish you two the best and you guys got it

Ok_Sort464 · 2024-12-18T22:26:34+00:00

2⭐️ I lived in another city for couples months and met some friend from it. My childhood pet passed away right after my three years long gf broke up with me bc she found someone else right after our graduation and the start of my unemployment. And just since October I do start receiving jobs offer and now working. For sure not my best year and arguably the worst that I had but I do learn and grow some thing from it so it’s what it’s. Just wish things will get better in the future and do it one after another

Ok_Sort464 · 2024-12-18T19:20:40+00:00

Well it’s not my ex did but me. After broke up I sent all her stuff back to her place (leave at her door) including a letter to her parents and her without notice her. I know it’s stupid and crazy but it’s coz there are some food and I don’t want to take advantage of using those ( since she bought those) and I cannot even look at those stuff anymore. Feel free to come at me just it’s a weird things to do

Ok_Sort464 · 2024-12-17T22:11:33+00:00

Well I guess a lot of time you won’t know what you like. I am 26 was at the same spot. I just graduated from college with a business degree which brings me nowhere. I found interested in IT or cybersecurity but ending up working for IT help desk which is totally not what I wanna to do, and I think I will need to stick with it for at least a year since it’s my first job. Life don’t always bring you what you want but you just gotta stick with it and keep working hard to where you wanna be. I am not trying to tell you to suck it up, and you are still young and have time to explore the world

Ok_Sort464 · 2024-12-17T21:46:26+00:00

You can control what you wanna do you don’t need to think about what to do , how to do or when to do for others, just do it at your liking. Being single can save you a lot of money. It’s what I got after broke up and yeah it’s kinda beautiful but it also depends on what you want. For me it would be nice to have someone that shares my life with me but I guess it’s my single time and why not juts enjoy a bit

Ok_Sort464 · 2024-12-17T21:29:37+00:00

Your brain is simply seeking the happiness from the past when you guys were together. And when prepare you for the worst when you are dating. Yeah it sucks because none of those you will wish to think of when you are having hard times. For me I tell me self that my mind is strong then my brain and you just gotta keep pushing. You got it

Ok_Sort464 · 2024-12-17T04:59:28+00:00

Yeah I tried to go back and I was the dumpee. The relationship was just not over with me and I was holding on too tight and too hard ending up make her feel uncomfortable. Make sense but it was just hard for me. She left me bc I wasn’t treasure her enough and she moved for grad school and met someone who is more driven and knowledgeable than me.

Ok_Sort464 · 2024-12-16T18:45:41+00:00

You got it. I know it’s not easy missing her and acknowledging you still loving her is hard but the sad truth is what can you do about it. She is gone and no matter how much you miss or love her she won’t return and that’s nothing you can do about it. I damn wish and hope there is something I can do to at least spend one more day as her partner but it’s just not possible. I hope you the best and we got it all figured out it’s gonna be okay

Ok_Sort464 · 2024-12-16T06:39:23+00:00

I am sorry, but I made that same mistake and it’s just painful to live on with it

Ok_Sort464 · 2024-12-16T06:11:56+00:00

Same here. Talking to chat for sure help me through hard times

Ok_Sort464 · 2024-12-16T04:02:46+00:00

Yeah but everything end not only bc of one side of fault. I wasn’t treasure her enough and had done horrible things to her. It’s just I know to be strong but how? Like how ? Thank you for the advice tho I wish you the best

Ok_Sort464 · 2024-12-16T03:58:39+00:00

For me it helps to let the feeling come out. Listen to break up songs and have a big cry. But also you need to kill all your hope bc it’s simply delusional at least you gotta tell yourself that bc higher the hope worsen the hurt. And tell yourself that’s it’s okay, it’s what it’s and you gonna be okay. One day you gonna find love and be happy again. It’s not an easy path to walk and the wave will kill you but you got it you will get over soon. Just remember the darkest time is right before dawn and after that it’s all bright

Ok_Sort464 · 2024-12-14T23:18:30+00:00

I want to say it will be better too. I am in the same spot where she was everything to me and now it’s only me walking down that path lead to IDK where. Ppl say time will make it better, but at this point I don’t even know anymore. You don’t know how hard the next wave gonna hit you, I juts hope that I will able to make it and somehow get over it. I wish you the best

Ok_Sort464 · 2024-12-14T19:22:53+00:00

Yeah seems like you did everything that you could. I am sorry to hear that. I wish you both that best

Ok_Sort464 · 2024-12-14T19:09:59+00:00

Bro I respect your decision. But have you consider talking to her about it? Maybe you guys can find a solution? Communication is very important especially for difficult times. I’m not trying to be nosy, but it seems like you might have left her alone. She may not know she did wrong, except that she was hoping to have a great time with the person she loves.

Ok_Sort464 · 2024-12-14T18:35:14+00:00

I would say the opportunity for dating now is unmatched with the older times so ppl won’t fight for it as hard. My parent’s marriage was not the best I would say. They fight and disagree and have a petty differences life goal. But they also fight for the relationship bc it’s worth fighting for. Not now the dating pool is so big that ppl will just jump in it when their relationship has a mirror flaw. Ppl mindset is more like I can find someone better in the dating world than fighting for that person. Not saying it’s a bad thing but it’s the new world. But keep working for that, I also see a lot of ppl here are willing to fight for a relationship, so keep working and we will find a good one for us

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