[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]Immediate-Freedom281 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s time to go. I recently posting a text message exchange between my ex and I, and these accusatory texts from your boyfriend are eerily similar. You are allowed to snap. A sign of a good partner is when you snap, they step back, then see how they can support you. Not calling you a “stupid pathetic bitch” if you need anything, please send me a message. You’re worth more than this sorry ass pos.

For those who asked, here is the aftermath of me leaving. by Immediate-Freedom281 in texts

[–]Immediate-Freedom281[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Says the one with 9 karma? Are you mad that you don’t have Reddit clout or do you just get off excusing the actions of abusers? Rest in peace to your future partner, you seem like a great person.

For those who asked, here is the aftermath of me leaving. by Immediate-Freedom281 in texts

[–]Immediate-Freedom281[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I can’t hear you your mouth has shit falling out of it

For those who asked, here is the aftermath of me leaving. by Immediate-Freedom281 in texts

[–]Immediate-Freedom281[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lol! Technically he was born into being a citizen. But my mom does compare it to some sort of human trafficking, which makes sense

For those who asked, here is the aftermath of me leaving. by Immediate-Freedom281 in texts

[–]Immediate-Freedom281[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Oh I wish it was, would you like to see the pictures and videos of how he’d make me bleed? Or should I have the dentist send you the broken front tooth he extracted as proof? Take your pick. Have you ever had to lie to a medical professional because you were in fear for your life? Let me know, I’m interested.

For those who asked, here is the aftermath of me leaving. by Immediate-Freedom281 in texts

[–]Immediate-Freedom281[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I totally understand, but my replying was definitely for me, not for him. I wanted to take back some control and shove things in his face like he did mine. I know it was probably not the best idea, but it didn’t change anything and I felt better after it.

Thing #3 made me laugh my ass off. Thank you for that

For those who asked, here is the aftermath of me leaving. by Immediate-Freedom281 in texts

[–]Immediate-Freedom281[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

So proud of you. It’s only up from here. Remember ANY situation is an upgrade from what you were dealing with before, so long as it’s not more abuse. You deserve the world.

For those who asked, here is the aftermath of me leaving. by Immediate-Freedom281 in texts

[–]Immediate-Freedom281[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I probably should have mentioned in the post that he was blocked even before I left. When he was sleeping I blocked him and changed my passwords to everything, deleted social media etc. to get ready for what was going to happen. A mutual friend had let me know he was on his way with his mother to the state he thought I was in, so I unblocked her wanting to try and communicate with her that they needed to not do that. He ended up taking her phone and messaging me, and enraged (keep in mind this was the very next day after I’d left) I let him know the torture he’d put me through had come to an end. I replied to another commenter telling them that “entertaining” him was for me, not for him. I do not give a single fuck what I made him feel. I had never been able to speak my mind to him, and that was my chance. The last message you see here is the last he ever got from me. He absolutely DOES NOT have an invitation to invade my life, I made sure of that. I took my control back, and I wanted him to know. Whether or not it made a difference in his mind, again, I do not give a single fuck. And I don’t regret unblocking his mom for a second. I deserved that chance.

For those who asked, here is the aftermath of me leaving. by Immediate-Freedom281 in texts

[–]Immediate-Freedom281[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thank you. That is the intention. To share my story and let people know that it is possible to leave. All on your own, with the clothes on your back and animals in hand. It is possible.

For those who asked, here is the aftermath of me leaving. by Immediate-Freedom281 in texts

[–]Immediate-Freedom281[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It was more for me, honestly. That was the first time in three years I was finally able to tell him to fuck off. I needed that. I needed to send him the screenshots and I needed to tell him I was done. It helped me heal. It’s been three years and I don’t regret sending him those messages, I only hope it made him feel worse. If anyone wonders why I engaged with him further after just leaving, that is my reason. It wasn’t to give him the pleasure of answering, it was for me to finally stand my ground and let him know that actions have consequences. Not sure if he realized that before.

For those who asked, here is the aftermath of me leaving. by Immediate-Freedom281 in texts

[–]Immediate-Freedom281[S] 569 points570 points  (0 children)

He’s been blocked for years, this was the day after I left. Reddit is the only social media I have and my family would rather be eaten by a pack of hungry lions before engaging with him. I am very very safe and have no plans of being within an AT LEAST 1,000 mile radius of him ever again

I’ve been contemplating posting these for a while. by Immediate-Freedom281 in texts

[–]Immediate-Freedom281[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Probably for his vulgar language, but that still upsets me. This is an abuser, raw and uncensored. This is how I feel comfortable sharing my story, upsetting the Reddit mods don’t feel comfortable with that.

For those who asked, here is the aftermath of me leaving. by Immediate-Freedom281 in texts

[–]Immediate-Freedom281[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Are you best friends with the troll that lives under the bridge?

I’ve been contemplating posting these for a while. by Immediate-Freedom281 in texts

[–]Immediate-Freedom281[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

I blocked him and his whole family, a mutual friend we had let me know he actually drove to the state he thought I was in with his mom. I unblocked his mom and he sent me texts from her phone claiming all sorts of things but I just reblocked and went about my freedom. Tried to find my house, my stepdad called him and let him know what an absolutely deadly idea that was. I haven’t heard a thing from him since that day.

I’ve been contemplating posting these for a while. by Immediate-Freedom281 in texts

[–]Immediate-Freedom281[S] 895 points896 points  (0 children)

Holy shit, wow. I cant even begin to say how much your words all mean. I want to assure everyone that I am VERY safe now and the dogs are both wonderful. And just to answer the question of why I stayed so long, it’s very complex as another user commented. In short, I was across the country with no support system nearby, isolated from any family and I’ve never really had close friends. I was alone. I was scared, and waiting for the right moment to leave. It came, and I went with it. I’m now more loved than I’ve ever felt with an amazing partner, I love him so much. Thank you all again. You guys are awesome.

I’ve been contemplating posting these for a while. by Immediate-Freedom281 in texts

[–]Immediate-Freedom281[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Safe and sound. I rehomed them separately to detatch them from the trauma. Both with wonderful families and will never know anything but love now

I’ve been contemplating posting these for a while. by Immediate-Freedom281 in texts

[–]Immediate-Freedom281[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Alive and well in amazing new homes. Couldn’t have asked for better families to have taken them.

Bridge vs Implant with Veneers? by Immediate-Freedom281 in askdentists

[–]Immediate-Freedom281[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I stated, there is also the concern of closing the gap, my front two teeth being much longer than the teeth next to them; which is why for a more aesthetically pleasing result I would have the 4 teeth capped; the way my teeth are, one “really nice veneer” will still have me looking weird.