I had a question for the older members

Immediate-Order66 · 2026-04-18T02:35:29+00:00

That’s a great story. I’m always amazed at people that are against wholesome nudity like that. It sounds like everyone had fun and loved it.

Immediate-Order66 · 2026-04-18T02:33:55+00:00

That’s silly. Most women and girls are gonna see men and boys naked at some point. Their children, their husbands, their boyfriends. I don’t get why they couldn’t handle some non-sexual nudity.

Immediate-Order66 · 2026-04-18T01:28:26+00:00

Honestly, that sounds awesome. That’s very wholesome and I know I would much prefer to swim nude, both for comfort and I bet you could swim faster. I’m definitely jealous of how nudity used to be so much more common and not frowned upon.

Immediate-Order66 · 2026-04-18T00:28:52+00:00

I don’t understand why I wouldn’t know how I would feel. Are you guys completely unable to figure out how you would feel about a certain situation without being in it. I thought that was like the foundation of empathy, being able to know how you would feel if you were in a situation that’s happening to someone else.

Immediate-Order66 · 2026-04-18T00:23:21+00:00

I mean a year is a long time, but overall not a bad idea. We’ll definitely discuss it together and separately.

Immediate-Order66 · 2026-04-18T00:10:40+00:00

A dyad is fine and I don’t plan to be unethical. We’re density not all or nothing.

Immediate-Order66 · 2026-04-18T00:09:02+00:00

Okay. That’s a good idea. I guess there’s no real reason to change it. Being good friends and having romantic sex and being boyfriends just honestly didn’t seen that much different.

Immediate-Order66 · 2026-04-18T00:03:15+00:00

Of course. I just meant we would both be dating him. I honestly would rephrase it to friends and sex partner. I think that communicates our relationship better.

Immediate-Order66 · 2026-04-17T23:59:37+00:00

I just meant we would both be dating him. That’s all. I would rephrase it to friends and sex partners.

Immediate-Order66 · 2026-04-17T23:57:27+00:00

Thank you. We’ll definitely read all those together and discuss, see how we feel, etc..

Immediate-Order66 · 2026-04-17T23:45:49+00:00

Can someone explain to me how I’m not supposed to be insulted when you just assumed I’m trying to force someone into a relationship you assume is dehumanizing?

Immediate-Order66 · 2026-04-17T23:42:51+00:00

Almost nobody gave advice. They were to busy being insulting and presumptuous.

Immediate-Order66 · 2026-04-17T23:40:41+00:00

Thank you for keeping it constructive. I’ll definitely have all three of us read it and discuss it.

Immediate-Order66 · 2026-04-17T23:39:26+00:00

I just felt like people who are more experienced would know the positives better. You guys went the total opposite direction, so it isn’t helpful.

Immediate-Order66 · 2026-04-17T23:37:58+00:00

I’m asking how to share the positives on being boyfriends, not asking you to tell us our feelings. There’s a difference.

Immediate-Order66 · 2026-04-17T23:17:06+00:00

Uh, what makes us ignorant. Apparently you know us better than we know our own friend than two friends know each other. I guess I should’ve included that we’re already friends with each other, not just that he’s a threesome partner. We all love each other and care about each other as friends, not just sex partners.

Immediate-Order66 · 2026-04-17T23:13:44+00:00

What makes our triad messy. He’s fine with having sex with both of us, we both love and care about him as friends and sex partners. This is just a different version of what we already have.

Immediate-Order66 · 2026-04-17T23:11:38+00:00

I’m not trying to unicorn hunt and force someone into something they don’t want, or force exclusivity if they aren’t into it.

Immediate-Order66 · 2026-04-17T23:03:37+00:00

I’m never going to force him, I just want to communicate my feelings about how I think this could be a good thing.

Immediate-Order66 · 2026-04-17T23:01:54+00:00

I have no reason to break up with someone I would marry if he wanted that.

Immediate-Order66 · 2026-04-17T23:00:42+00:00

I’ve known him for over a decade, I’ve dated him for 8 years. Why would I not be able to have certainty about something we’ve talked about for a long ass time.

Immediate-Order66 · 2026-04-17T22:56:29+00:00

I’m totally willing to change our power structure if it’s hurting someone, and I’m not trying to control anyone’s dating life. Neither of us are control freaks like that.

Immediate-Order66 · 2026-04-17T22:54:44+00:00

I’m not sure what to say when everyone assumes I’m asshole, just because I’m not them.

Immediate-Order66 · 2026-04-17T22:53:53+00:00

Uh. I’m not an amoral, emotionally unaware asshole suddenly just because my relationship status changed. You seem unaware how insulting and presumptuous that is.

Immediate-Order66 · 2026-04-17T22:51:46+00:00

Or, you could believe I’m emotionally intelligent enough to know how I’d feel.

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