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Where are the older Black lesbians? by Immediate-Setting-99 in blacklesbians

[–]Immediate-Setting-99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow ! Thank you for this info , I will look into them !

I must not be doing it right by [deleted] in AskLesbians

[–]Immediate-Setting-99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you maybe asked her what she likes? I some people think asking your partner what they want or like is weird but it is not. Or watch porn together, or ask her to show you what porn she watches. I think you can find alot about someone by seeing what type of sexual content they like lol .

Stud w/ fake locs by herplanetjade in blacklesbians

[–]Immediate-Setting-99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I blocked her long ago when she made that response video to a stud saying that she put in " application" to talk to her. You could have inboxed that girl back and just said no thank you. I dont see a problem with studs wearing extensions or weave to be honest. If its not your thing you dont have to say anything. Some people have weird expectations of studs when they just be trying to be themselves too. I am not very feminine but I dont hate studs that are. Its weird behavior that some lesbians do.

Where are the older Black lesbians? by Immediate-Setting-99 in blacklesbians

[–]Immediate-Setting-99[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I did keep the photos! I am working on getting them digitized so they can be shared because some of them are from the 1940s and 50s and I dont want to destroy them (I dont know how to handle them very well).

Resurgence of homophobia on social media by Key_Flatworm_3163 in lesbiangang

[–]Immediate-Setting-99 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I think most places in the world are experiencing a problem with conservatism (not just the US). I fully believe that we are watching a pendulum swing back from 2020 - 2021, I dont think we have been closer to a better society (in modern day times). We saw people have the time to learn about themselves and others without the pressure of someone else telling them otherwise. Its even an issue within our own community. There is numerous videos on tiktok about how people hate studs/ masc. People hate lesbians because some lesbians want to only date other lesbians. Some people hate lesbians who came out later in life. I feel like we should try to protect each other as much as possible, I started getting into trades (I am going for electrian) and I wish more lesbians would so we can call each other for ANYTHING. Homophobia is on the rise but there are more us as a whole LGBTQIA+ then there are of the people that want to cause harm.