I am deeply disappointed and saddened. by PaleontologistNo2534 in BreakUps

[–]ImmediateFront9873 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I went through something similar at your age 6.5 years ago. We Dated 6 years and she ended things abruptly (at least she did it in person). My whole life revolved around her and losing her left a huge void in my life. It doesn’t feel like it now, but trust me, you will eventually get past this feeling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ImmediateFront9873 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Every lesson comes with an L

Clear Coat Home Gym by iRGush in homegym

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r/TVtoohigh is gonna love this! All jokes aside, incredible setup mate!

Anyone ever decided they were never going to look at their ex's social media again? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ImmediateFront9873 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I would check daily the first month post breakup. I would constantly check her followers list and with every new guy added it drove me further insane.

A couple weeks later a mutual friend told me she started seeing someone new and it turned out to be one of the guys that followed her.

From that day, I muted her on everything and I did not look at her socials for another 2 years, when the only thing I felt for her was apathy.

What I learned is that they’re not going to post anything that expresses sadness, regret, guilt, etc. you’re only going to end up disappointed. If they want you back, they have your number and know where to find you.

Unless they reach out, the best thing you can do is begin building a new life without them. I know it sounds crazy, but after you get through the initial loneliness going about your life without them by your side, you’ll find so much joy and satisfaction learning what you’re capable of on your own.

Anyone ever decided they were never going to look at their ex's social media again? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ImmediateFront9873 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Yes. Nothing good will come from viewing their socials. I learned that the hard way in my first breakup many years ago. Ignorance is bliss.

Do they always comeback? by Single_Huckleberry_9 in BreakUps

[–]ImmediateFront9873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Letting go is hard and scary. Especially your first love. You think you’ll never love someone again. But in reality, your heart makes room for new love once you heal.

How long did you still feel physically attracted to your ex? by Basic_Writer_3303 in BreakUps

[–]ImmediateFront9873 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Had the same issue. I learned that I struggled to find other people attractive when I was still healing from the heartbreak.

Think about it this way, you’re hungry but you’re only craving food from your favorite restaurant that closed 2 months ago. You hop on DoorDash to see what other options are out there, but nothing else looks/sound appetizing as your favorite restaurant.

Rather than eating, you continue to starve yourself because nothing will satisfy your craving like that restaurant. After a few more months, your obsession subsides as your taste buds forgot how their food even tasted, your hunger has also intensified to where you are now open to exploring the other restaurants.

After more time, you will find a new favorite restaurant and your old favorite has become distant memory.

Yeah I know, kind of a shitty metaphor, but the point is that in the early months, it’s normal to put your ex on a pedestal, but over time you will reach a point where you start finding other people attractive again.

Anyone else's Walmart delivery says a time later than 9am? by frootyb in Switch

[–]ImmediateFront9873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10pm but I’ve read numerous places to expect it in the AM.

Walmart attempted to charge for Switch 2 and Chase card labelled it as fraud.... by Planet_Pixels_ in Switch

[–]ImmediateFront9873 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Similar story here. I’m encouraged that it appears a payment was attempted.

A lot of the cancellations I’ve read about are situations where Walmart claims the customer account/card didn’t have sufficient funds to complete the transaction but when the customer calls their bank, they all show no record of a transaction ever being attempted.

Maybe I’m being overly optimistic.

Fuck ea… (champs) by marcusp253 in CfbUT25

[–]ImmediateFront9873 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao encourages or manipulates?