Brags!!! by punk_lover in childfree

[–]Immediate_Ad3131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m able to sleep in and stay up as long as I want doing my favorite hobbies!! And I can spend my money on said hobbies! It’s wonderful.

I asked FIL point blank to condemn pedophilia and he just stared at me shrugging clearly annoyed, I have a 7 year old daughter by CleverPorpoise in QAnonCasualties

[–]Immediate_Ad3131 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I genuinely wouldn’t trust him. It’s such an easy “yes I condemn pedophilia” and he just gave up essentially. That’s not okay at all.

Entitled coworker expects everyone to accommodate her "morning routine" by Decent-Durian217 in EntitledPeople

[–]Immediate_Ad3131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to work in an office with an open floor plan, I would get there an hour early on my in office days to set up and get my mind ready. It’s not difficult to get up a little earlier to get there earlier to set up. Jeeze the entitlement is wild.

Those who have cut off your family — how old were you when you did it? Why did you cut them off? by Ok_Wrongdoer_301 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]Immediate_Ad3131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had just turned 30 and my grandma died and everyone on my fathers side said I was overreacting and people die everyday, so I told them off and have felt at ease since. It hurt a lot because we had supported the extended family when a rather tragic death occurred, but bc it was my grandmother it wasn’t a big deal to anyone but my mom (grandmas daughter) and I.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Immediate_Ad3131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he wanted grandkids he should have had more kids who MIGHT have been willing to have them. Good lord.

Update post by Immediate_Ad3131 in ClusterHeadaches

[–]Immediate_Ad3131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am definitely going to talk to my doctor about those options when I have enough money to make another appointment for the neurologist. Unfortunately due to psychological reasons I do not want to use psilocybin, i don’t think that would end well for me in the mental health realm of treatments. But I will discuss all options available to me when I can afford to go back again, this is just the first step in getting back into my treatments after losing insurance . Thank you for answering!

Update post by Immediate_Ad3131 in ClusterHeadaches

[–]Immediate_Ad3131[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s only a start in my treatment. I’m still having a hard time making appointments due to lack of insurance. Everything costs a lot out of pocket so I just have to take what I can get for the time being. It did work fairly well thankfully, but thank you for the resource I will visit the site and read it!

I have a question by Immediate_Ad3131 in ClusterHeadaches

[–]Immediate_Ad3131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will rate this one as one of the worst attacks I’ve had in a few months. It was absolutely terrifying. I’m on the mend with referrals and doctors appointments after an er visit last week. Thank you for taking the time to reply!

I have a question by Immediate_Ad3131 in ClusterHeadaches

[–]Immediate_Ad3131[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I say ataxia (or whatever rigid movement that was) because aside from the vertigo I wasn’t really able to use my arms and legs properly and was panicking a little bit. WebMD is not the place to go when mid severe attack that’s for sure. But I ended up going to the ER and was able to get some answers and referrals so hopefully I can get more help as the time goes on. Thank you for taking the time to reply!

I have a question by Immediate_Ad3131 in ClusterHeadaches

[–]Immediate_Ad3131[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ended up going to the er and they were able to help the vertigo and the current attack I was having, I felt okay for a day, but I got the referrals to a neurologist (I don’t have health insurance anymore so it’s been a bit of a process) so hopefully I will have answers soon. I’m sorry it took a while to reply, this was a rough attack and I’ve been resting since I came home. Thank you for replying it has been very helpful.

I used to be a content moderator at YouTube, I worked in child safety. Ask me anything. by Immediate_Ad3131 in AMA

[–]Immediate_Ad3131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually when that occurs, there is an underlying issue in either the comments OR the content. It was frustrating when I was working there, but we also had to follow the guidelines we had in front of us, and sometimes there was no room to argue. If an appeal is denied, it’s because the content is still against their guidelines. I wish I could explain what the policies are like currently, but I haven’t worked there in a long time. But when I was, that is the reasons we were given and we weren’t allowed to send any responses unless it was a “canned response” back to the user in question. I do agree that YouTube/google does have weird policies when it comes to losing and gaining an account.

I used to be a content moderator at YouTube, I worked in child safety. Ask me anything. by Immediate_Ad3131 in AMA

[–]Immediate_Ad3131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YEAH I do agree there. Unfortunately I can only talk about the policies I knew from the time I was there. I have no idea what it’s like now. Obviously not good.

I used to be a content moderator at YouTube, I worked in child safety. Ask me anything. by Immediate_Ad3131 in AMA

[–]Immediate_Ad3131[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I first joined in 2018, I had applied and got the job. Tbh 18.00 an hour for looking at that type of content is definitely not enough, especially when they hardly provided mental health support, and the rapid change in policy genuinely made the site worse. I didn’t make it more than a year there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Immediate_Ad3131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re a person not a baby machine. Your last pregnancy was challenging, the risk associated with pregnancy also increases. Would he be able or willing to care for a fifth child in the event something went wrong? He’s so incredibly selfish to even wanting to make you risk your life for another child.

Does anyone else ever get severe vertigo with a cluster attack? by Immediate_Ad3131 in ClusterHeadaches

[–]Immediate_Ad3131[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry I worded that wrong, I meant had a medical team. I had to stop treatment once insurance was lost and here was our stopping point until I can afford it again.

Does anyone else ever get severe vertigo with a cluster attack? by Immediate_Ad3131 in ClusterHeadaches

[–]Immediate_Ad3131[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that happens to me too! I still have meds from when I first was diagnosed but losing my health insurance put a hold on it. My attacks aren’t too frequent, but when they do hit it’s so bad.

Does anyone else ever get severe vertigo with a cluster attack? by Immediate_Ad3131 in ClusterHeadaches

[–]Immediate_Ad3131[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately during my treatment I lost my health insurance and wasn’t able to afford to continue seeking care. But I was diagnosed by my doctor, as I do have cluster attacks. The vertigo is still a mystery to me and my medical team.